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35 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Graduated from law school
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I am a hippie at heart wrapped in chanel. I'll go camping with you at a Phish show one night and feel right at home in a suite at the Ritz the next night. I love living in the city. I lived out West for College but know NYC is where my heart is and where I will likely stay for a while. I spend my free time going to concerts, cooking, trying to make art, going to yoga and shopping (not gonna lie). I travel when I can and try to mix it up between active touristy stops and long stretches on the beach. I've got a little rescue pup who makes coming home from work sweet as pie. That's how about you?
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to write a book, emphasis on trying.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting strangers to tell me secrets, which is very helpful at work.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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still life with woodpecker

dazed and confused. I get old older and that movie stays the same age...err is still always good. You know what I mean.

I don't have a favorite music. I like all kinds of stuff. Summer concert lineup currently includes Beck, Phish, Bob Weir, Arcarde Fire, Gary Clary Jr and just in time for fall the Black Keys. Looking to add a few more shows in June and July. Got any ideas?

Tv hmmm that's too embarrassing to say. I watch crap tv so I will leave it at that.

Food. I will try anything. Love anything Italian or Asian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
yoga, whiskey, live music, good boots, my puppy, black eyeliner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to eat for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either seeing live music or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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plead the fifth
You should message me if
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you're interested in meeting your match and you're not afraid of taking chances.