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30 F Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:34pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and wants more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I wanted to write a brief PSA about online dating/this site/my involvement.

Folks, lighten up it's a website full of people who are too socially awkward to hunt and find partners in real life. If I don't respond to you its for a variety of reasons, just like when guys don't respond to my advances sometimes. Maybe your profile was boring, your pictures terrible or your interests or politics were too different and I didn't feel like I wanted to talk to you. This is rejection, it's normal and you shouldn't take it so personally.

If I don't talk to you on Okcupid, don't try to talk to me on other dating sites, super creepy. No I don't want pics of your bits, or an FWB situation.

I consider myself laid back and try not to worry about things that are out of my control. It's an ongoing process obviously, but I gain so much peace from letting go. I'm here for the memories and feelings :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Pension analyst. Exploring barefoot jogging, getting back into kettlebelling, going to Yelp events, and Pirates games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being kind, loyal and funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a serious quiet vibe when you first meet me. I don't know I am pretty cute when I want to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Sedaris or Augusten Burroughs, Michael Ian Black. Enjoying The Hunger Games, Sookie Stackhouse series, Animal Farm, Beloved. I also like reading NatGeo, Details, Time and the random issue of The Economist.

The Color Purple, Legends of the Fall.

Downton Abbey, History Detectives, Deadwood, Boardwalk Empire, Warrior Graveyard, Real Housewives of Anywhere, My Strange Addiction, Wilfred, Kitchen Nightmares, Sweet Genius, Basketball Wives, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Korean soap operas, Orange is the New Black.

Prince, Monchy y Alexandra, Gaga, David Bowie, The Cure, Enigma, popular opera, Chi-lites, Stylistics, Ghostface Killah, Wu Tang, Patti Labelle, Big Freedia, old Metallica, Iron Maiden, Depeche Mode, The smiths, Empire of the Sun, Girl
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, iphone, mac cosmetics, amazon. com, comfy shoes and prescription sunglasses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get you to hire a barbershop quartet to sing for me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grocery shopping like a champ
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm binge watching flavor of love right now.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If a date filled with pork stew dumplings from Everyday Noodles sounds great to you.