I wanted to write a brief PSA about online dating/this site/my involvement.
Folks, lighten up it's a website full of people who are too socially awkward to hunt and find partners in real life. If I don't respond to you its for a variety of reasons, just like when guys don't respond to my advances sometimes. Maybe your profile was boring, your pictures terrible or your interests or politics were too different and I didn't feel like I wanted to talk to you. This is rejection, it's normal and you shouldn't take it so personally.
If I don't talk to you on Okcupid, don't try to talk to me on other dating sites, super creepy. No I don't want pics of your bits, or an FWB situation.
I consider myself laid back and try not to worry about things that are out of my control. It's an ongoing process obviously, but I gain so much peace from letting go. I'm here for the memories and feelings :)