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36 • Madison, WI • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Jan 29
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), French (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
I like bunnies, ice cream, sewing, staying up late, singing karaoke, taking walks at night, and ordinary things that come in pretty colors. I enjoy reading about both science fact and science fiction. I'm the kind of person who can get lost on Wikipedia, TV Tropes, or Information is Beautiful for hours. I dislike coffee, cell phones, and hot weather. I spend a lot of time just thinking, and I never have the problem of having nothing to do. I consider myself neutral good and INFP, if either of those things mean anything to you. My friends tell me I'm compassionate, funny, and insightful.
I would describe myself as poly-compatible; that is to say, although I don't personally maintain multiple simultaneous relationships, I don't require exclusive sexual and romantic access to the women I date.
There's more I could say about myself but I think that's a pretty decent start.
Aside from that, you're next most likely to see me on the roller derby track striking fear into my opponents. I do a bit of volunteering for a local nonprofit, too (I even got an award for it back in 2009)
I am, for the time being, migratory. My profile says Madison right now, but I live in St. John's, NL from mid-May through September and in Madison, WI from October through mid-May. Long-term I'm hoping to live out in Newfoundland year-round, but this kind of thing just takes time.
Favorite Books: Hitchhiker's Trilogy, Song of Ice and Fire, LOTR, Contact, Kingkiller Chronicle, Harry Potter, Strangers in Paradise, Da Vinci Code, Gödel Escher Bach, The Man Who Counted, 1001 Nights, Le Petit Prince.
Favorite Movies: Serenity, Scott Pilgrim, Lord of the Rings, Mulan, Contact, DOA, UHF, Star Wars episodes IV-VI, Better Off Dead, Crouching Tiger, D.E.B.S., Juno, Dark City, The Princess Bride.
Favorite TV Shows: Firefly, Gilmore Girls, 24, BSG/Caprica, Buffy, Daily Show and Colbert, Gummi Bears, Robot Chicken, Arrested Development, Doctor Who, Game of Thrones, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Warehouse 13 (and I'll even publicly admit to enjoying Ancient Aliens).
Favorite Music: Rasputina, Lindsey Stirling, Vanessa-Mae, Apocalyptica, Tori Amos, NIN, Paramore, Leslie Hall, Lily Allen, No Doubt, Alanis Morisette, KT Tunstall, Evanescence, Nightwish, Queensrÿche, Weird Al, Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, Muse, Halestorm, Avenged Sevenfold, Little Boots, Leslie Hall... Add to this list anything that involves chicks and/or cellos rocking the fuck out.
Favorite Sports: Roller Derby, Volleyball, Hockey, and I love watching the Olympics (especially the Winter kind). I play golf with my family sometimes too but I kinda suck.
Favorite Foods: Bacon, couscous, bacon, poutine, bacon, ice cream, bacon, chocolate, bacon, tacos, bacon, bacon, bacon, mangoes, and bacon.
A sketchbook or notebook to jot ideas down
Soft and cuddleable things
I need to sleep in separate beds. I love to cuddle, but cuddling and sleeping are mutually exclusive.
Also, I used to have some extra bits, but they're gone now.
• You're the kind of person willing to make the first move (I'm kinda shy)
• You're comfortable dating someone who has a lot going on in her life and won't always be able to make you her number one priority
• You're looking for a relationship that doesn't need to be kept secret -- I'm fine with dating poly women, but don't have the energy to deal with a clandestine affair. The non-secret thing also goes for women who are not out as bi/lesbian.
• You've actually taken the time to fill out your profile. Doesn't have to be extensive, but give me at least some indication of what kind of person you are.
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