-intimacy over sexuality.
-i spend most of my time alone.
-i have been described by people i know as, despondent, quirky, reserved, and unrepentant.
things i like to do
-burn incense and listen to music.
-play with my cats
-cook and bake.
-clean the house, throw things away, organize.
-interstate driving. looking at things but hardly ever stopping to see them is the hardest part though :/
-watch the same old tv shows i've seen over and over again.
-walk around town at night to see what i can see. not down town, i'm talking places i see and drive by all the time but never ever examine until i walk thru them. admittedly, i haven't done this in a while.
-listening intently, not waiting for my turn to talk. my attention span is very wide and i always make eye contact.
-keeping things organized. data-basing, cross-referencing and things of that nature.
-making mix tapes. something i've been pretty good at since high school.
-thinking of the perfect thing to say hours, days sometimes weeks after the context of it is irrelevant.
-i'm real good at folding laundry, that isn't a joke.
other than that, i'd say my height or my eye color. also the silver band i wear on my right hand, i can't count how many times i've been asked "r u married?? what is that?" it's just jewelry, i promise.
MOVIES: Ghost World, American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, Silence of the Lambs, The Truth About Cats and Dogs, Forrest Gump, The Fifth Element, 10 Things I Hate About You, Down to You, Big Fish, White Oleander, The Ninth Gate
TV: Law & Order: SVU, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Arrested Development, The Office, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation
MUSIC: Cocteau Twins, Death in June, Deathspell Omega, GODFLESH, SWANS, Coil, Throbbing Gristle, Ministry
FOOD: food is good...but i don't like to think about it more than i have to.
2. good friends
3. good cats
4. good iced tea
5. quiet time
6. my family
the disparity between what i feel i deserve and what i actually deserve, between who i think i am and who i actually am.
am i living up to my words?
also, the mail. i'm usually always waiting for something to come for me through the mail, and it drives me crazy how slow the postal systems of the world can be.
-if you'd like to cook something together.
-you realize these li'l snippets of information are not comprehensive and can't accurately portray the many faceted nature of a person.
-or if you want to come over and listen to records with me.