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67 Allentown, PA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 50–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:19am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love this part of OK Cupid. I am not "Prince Charming". I am the "Knight in Rusty Armor". I am not a "last first love" or "joy of your life", "Mr. Wonderful", etc. etc. I have learned to manage my emotions and leash my ego. More importantly, I am living my purpose...which is to cultivate every talent given, become more fully human in their use and accept responsibility for their impact on the lives of others. I am comfortable with "me" and willing to assess and reassess what that means. We are all works in progress. Expressing myself through writing has been a lifelong venture. But, I am now in the midst of making dreams reality. I love to sing, write songs, do massage therapy, learn guitar, facilitate groups, share life experiences, you, life and even the silence. I am in awe of life's wonderment. If this universe is infinite, we are infinite. I believe life is about learning...period. There is no first grade, 12th grade, degree after degree. We learn or stagnate...and become irrelevant.
What I’m doing with my life
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A retired Baltimore City Probation Agent, now Group facilitating(mainly anger management groups);enjoying my renovated home; working-out at YMCA; singing karaoke; hopefully re-doing "Jesus Christ Superstar" (we did it April12/13th. Great performances:=) ); writing; getting to know obscured facts; being unconventional; being a member of Community Exchange by doing massage and, most recently, taking guitar lessons and using Skype. More significantly, I'm eliminating the "lies" and uncovering the ego. Most of us lie to ourselves...about our faults, our lives, relationships, weight, whatever. One of the lies we gradually accept is that we can remain healthy while doing nothing. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. Honesty begins with self. It's called "integrity". Update: Performed in the in the Pa. Playhouse production of "To Kill A Mockingbird" in Bethlehem. Really stretched my comfort zone; 9 performances; I loved it!! Life keeps happening. Just discovered "Meet-Ups". Great idea for hooking-up with people who have similar interests. Look it up in your area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading between the lines. Descending into the "rabbit hole" with Alice and imagining the infinite possibilities of existence...being a thinker. Listening and actually hearing. Not being "that person" the people who stereotype expect. Eliminating baggage (spiritual & physical). Seeing through people. Just about anything I request God force to enable me to do. Being creative; finding new ways to do the same thing. Extracting the positive from adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I exist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Empire of Illusion,Eckhart Tolle (A New Earth), Carlos Castaneda, Aldous Huxley, M. Scott Peck, Edward Albee, James Baldwin, Bhagavad Gita,Tao Te Ching, The Bible, Crack In The Cosmic Egg, Knight In Rusty Armor, Empire of Illusion (did I say this twice?)..What The Bleep Do We Know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reliance on a Higher Power,self-awareness/acceptance, water, reflection, imagination and humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've noticed many women on this site are looking for their "last, first love", "knight in shining armor" or some other type of ideal being. They don't exist. Note what I previously said about the lies we tell ourselves. Relationships either thrive or fail based on the expectations we already have as to how they should be. We put undo pressure on ourselves and others when we attempt to force them to fit a mental "mold" we've created or we force ourselves to fit someone else's mold. I prefer to let life "happen" John Lennon alluded to. Allowing others to define who we are is as defeating as us defining for another who they should be. People tend to join dating sites with the expectation that Mr. or Ms. Wonderful will miraculously appear and life will be roses and lollipops. Get real. A relationship will become whatever the energy we put into it nourishes and encourages it to be. Meeting others as friends and not potential future mates is much less threatening and pressure laden. Ergo, I'm not looking for a wife nor the last great love of my life. I wouldn't do that to you...or me. It is true that joy in isolation is misery. Sharing is key to fulfillment. But, as we share, we don't need to allow our egos to begin to enslave others to our selfish needs and concerns. Love is not produced in such an environment. For now, I believe in "let go and let love".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At YMCA and/or at a friend's or karaoke
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wasn't me! I'm a Jersey guy.
You should message me if
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You like exploring ideas & places, being spontaneous and can live outside the "box".