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67 M Allentown, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:01am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love this part of OK Cupid. As I engage with more people and refine what is most important to share about myself, I have more clarity about expressing my true feelings. Expressing myself through writing has been a lifelong venture. Change is the only constant in the universe. As I interact with more people and face new challenges, I also clarify likes & dislikes I may not have been already aware of. Life experience compels us to re-evaluate who we are as our relationships add changes and depth to our personalities. Life is inspiration for me. The creative process is involved in everything I do; song writing, poems, essays, massage therapy, furniture refinishing, singing, gardening, group facilitating, relationships and so on. It is who I am. Meeting others ads to my self identification, increases awareness and broadens perceptions. I believe life is about learning...period. There is no first grade, 12th grade, degree after degree. We learn or stagnate...and become irrelevant. Of course, I will rewrite this summary again as the learning and awareness process continues. In truth, we are infinite.
What I’m doing with my life
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A retired Baltimore City Probation Agent, now Group facilitating(mainly anger management groups);enjoying my renovated home; working-out at YMCA; singing karaoke; hopefully re-doing "Jesus Christ Superstar" (we did it April12/13th. Great performances:=) ); writing; getting to know obscured facts; being unconventional; being a member of Community Exchange by doing massage and, most recently, taking guitar lessons and using Skype. More significantly, I'm eliminating the "lies" and uncovering the ego. Most of us lie to ourselves...about our faults, our lives, relationships, weight, whatever. One of the lies we gradually accept is that we can remain healthy while doing nothing. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. Honesty begins with self. It's called "integrity". Update: Performed in the in the Pa. Playhouse production of "To Kill A Mockingbird" in Bethlehem. Really stretched my comfort zone; 9 performances; I loved it!! Life keeps happening. Just discovered "Meet-Ups". Great idea for hooking-up with people who have similar interests. Look it up in your area.
I’m really good at
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Reading between the lines. Descending into the "rabbit hole" with Alice and imagining the infinite possibilities of existence...being a thinker. Listening and actually hearing. Not being "that person" the people who stereotype expect. Eliminating baggage (spiritual & physical). Seeing through people. Just about anything I request God force to enable me to do. Being creative; finding new ways to do the same thing. Extracting the positive from adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I exist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Empire of Illusion,Eckhart Tolle (A New Earth), Carlos Castaneda, Aldous Huxley, M. Scott Peck, Edward Albee, James Baldwin, Bhagavad Gita,Tao Te Ching, The Bible, Crack In The Cosmic Egg, Knight In Rusty Armor, Empire of Illusion (did I say this twice?)..What The Bleep Do We Know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reliance on a Higher Power,self-awareness/acceptance, water, reflection, imagination and humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'd much rather have a partner than a "wife". Someone who really cares to know and understand my personality as opposed to someone seeking to avoid being alone or the status of "Mrs." or any of a hundred other meaningless things. Sharing experiences, joys and sorrows has much more depth and meaning when in the company of one who "knows' who we are. And, that someone need not be a wife. In "The Prophet", Gibran speaks about our joy & pain being two sides of the same coin...depending on our perceptions. As my awareness expands, I too have seen that joy in isolation is misery. Sharing is key to fulfillment. Public displays, such as marriage, are too often triggered by ego needs as opposed to genuine love. And, as those "needs" change, so does the commitment to a spouse. For me, calling someone my "partner" or my "best friend" creates a better dynamic than our expectation of "wife" or "husband". Perhaps, I'll see things differently in coming days, but that's where I am right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At YMCA and/or at a friend's or karaoke
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wasn't me! I'm a Jersey guy.
You should message me if
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You like exploring ideas & places, being spontaneous and can live outside the "box".