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  • Ages 50-66
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Last online
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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"Relationships may grow to be exclusive but, they shouldn't start-out that way." Every so many months these things need to be updated. In a short matter of time we have changed and, hopefully grown. The wonder of living to this age is how one's perspective becomes wider and clearer. Many of the self-deceptions which caused me to stumble in the past are recognized and corrected. The most treacherous lie is the one we tell ourselves. Like the "Knight in Rusty Armor", I have my flaws. By facilitating anger management groups (also, stress groups, tobacco prevention, drug prevention, life skills, etc.)and engaging in learning experiences, my own hidden issues are exposed just as well as others'. But, now I am an aware being, rather than a sleep-walker. I've held delusions about my looks, my "intelligence", my sincerity, etc.. We all have fallen into the "quicksand of our own mind." The good news is I'm aware of how I am responsible for my own feelings and reactions. We are all works in progress. And, I hasten to add, I am not a person in recovery from drugs and alcohol (someone assumed this because of my philosophy). However, I do believe all people are subject to addictions of some sort. The recovery lifestyle is significant because we all have errors of perception and fail to see our own flaws (blind-spots) and can benefit from constant awareness that we may need to look at things from a different perspective. Expressing myself through writing has been a lifelong venture. I love to sing, write songs, do massage therapy, learn guitar, facilitate groups, share life experiences, you, life and even the silence. We are infinite. We are here to learn...period.
What I’m doing with my life
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A retired Baltimore City Probation Agent, now Group facilitating(mainly anger management groups);enjoying my renovated home; working-out at YMCA; singing karaoke; about to re-perform in "Jesus Christ Superstar" (4th year doing it...locally); writing; getting to know obscured facts; being unconventional; being a member of Community Exchange by doing massage and, most recently, taking guitar lessons and using Skype. More significantly, I'm eliminating the "lies" and uncovering the ego. Most of us lie to ourselves...about our faults, our lives, relationships, weight, whatever. One of the lies we gradually accept is that we can remain healthy while doing nothing. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. Honesty begins with self. It's called "integrity". Update: Performed in the in the Pa. Playhouse production of "To Kill A Mockingbird" in Bethlehem. Really stretched my comfort zone; 9 performances; I loved it!! Life keeps happening. Just discovered "Meet-Ups". Great idea for hooking-up with people who have similar interests. Look it up in your area.
I’m really good at
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Reading between the lines. Descending into the "rabbit hole" with Alice and imagining the infinite possibilities of existence...being a thinker. Listening and actually hearing. Not being "that person" the people who stereotype expect. Eliminating baggage (spiritual & physical). Seeing through people. Just about anything I request God force to enable me to do. Being creative; finding new ways to do the same thing. Extracting the positive from adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I exist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Empire of Illusion,Eckhart Tolle (A New Earth), Carlos Castaneda, Aldous Huxley, M. Scott Peck, Edward Albee, James Baldwin, Bhagavad Gita,Tao Te Ching, The Bible, Crack In The Cosmic Egg, Knight In Rusty Armor, Empire of Illusion (did I say this twice?)..What The Bleep Do We Know, Pedagogy of the Oppressed.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reliance on a Higher Power,self-awareness/acceptance, water, reflection, imagination and humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Having spent my life doing things that, in the long run, were meaningless. And making this time, these moments, "now" much more substantive, intense, impactful. Have you ever signed-off from a site, tried to return and seen this notice: "Sorry but your time on this session has ended." We face that reality everyday...with our lives and loves. And so, we search for Ms. or Mr. Right. The question our own internal world right enough to share with someone else? So, we're here, taking the leap of faith. If you are here, you're a "believer" like it or not. We're all in the same foxhole. So, I guess I'm thinking about "you", whoever you are, hoping I'm ready and able to receive what you're ready to give...and vice versa. As the song goes..."Will I find my love today..."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At YMCA and/or at a friend's or karaoke
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wasn't me! I'm a Jersey guy.
You should message me if
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You like exploring ideas & places, being spontaneous and can live outside the "box".