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67 M Allentown, PA

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Summaries are meant to be brief. Not novellas, sagas, nor odysseys. I'm breaking the rules. How do I see myself...unfolding? I was born about the same time as TV, air raid drills and a "drug free America". I tended to view the world through rose colored glasses, but who didn't prior to Kennedy's assassination. I was born in Camden,N.J. when hypodermic needles were only found in hospitals. My family moved to the "burbs" in the mid '50's and we lived with Wally & Beaver. By the '60's, my mom was reading Malcolm X and saying "scary things". At first, I thought Cassius Clay/Muhammad Ali was Looney Tunes. But, I attended a "historically Black college" in Baltimore and, miraculously, Ali sounded different. Many close friends were sacrificed to save the world from the "dreaded Vietnamese". After watching a CBS documentary about the proud and noble Boers who had conquered S. Africa, my brain rebooted and I was aware of the insane and convoluted reality this manchild was being nurtured in. I was aware of two Americas, but Nixon took office and soon there were several Americas. Sucked into the vortex of sex, booze and "good times", I went into social hibernation or "exist" mode...working much, accomplishing nothing. By age 40, I awakened and have continued to do so daily as my mind processes the "Brave New World" we have allowed to become our reality. And, yes, I realize I ignored what I said in sentence #2. Peace
What I’m doing with my life
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A retired Baltimore City Probation Agent, now Group facilitating(mainly anger management groups);enjoying my renovated home; working-out at YMCA; singing karaoke; hopefully re-doing "Jesus Christ Superstar" (we did it April12/13th. Great performances:=) ); writing; getting to know obscured facts; being unconventional; being a member of Community Exchange by doing massage and, most recently, taking guitar lessons and using Skype. More significantly, I'm eliminating the "lies" and uncovering the ego. Most of us lie to ourselves...about our faults, our lives, relationships, weight, whatever. Have you noticed how many people on this site proclaim, " I'm told I don't look or act my age." The desperation of the ego. If a lie is our psychological foundation, what sort of relationship are we looking for? Honesty begins with self. It's called "integrity". Update: Performed in the in the Pa. Playhouse production of "To Kill A Mockingbird" in Bethlehem. Really stretched my comfort zone; 9 performances; I loved it!! Life keeps happening. Just discovered "Meet-Ups". Great idea for hooking-up with people who have similar interests. Look it up in your area.
I’m really good at
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Reading between the lines. Descending into the "rabbit hole" with Alice and imagining the infinite possibilities of existence...being a thinker. Listening and actually hearing. Not being "that person" the people who stereotype expect. Eliminating baggage (spiritual & physical). Seeing through people. Just about anything I request God force to enable me to do. Being creative; finding new ways to do the same thing. Extracting the positive from adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I exist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Eckhart Tolle (A New Earth), Carlos Castaneda, Aldous Huxley, M. Scott Peck, Edward Albee, James Baldwin, Bhagavad Gita,Tao Te Ching, The Bible, Crack In The Cosmic Egg, Knight In Rusty Armor, Empire of Illusion..What The Bleep Do We Know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reliance on a Higher Power,self-awareness/acceptance, water, reflection, imagination and humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'd much rather have a partner than a "wife". Someone who really cares to know and understand my personality as opposed to someone seeking to avoid being alone or the status of "Mrs." or any of a hundred other meaningless things. Sharing experiences, joys and sorrows has much more depth and meaning when in the company of one who "knows' who we are. And, that someone need not be a wife. In "The Prophet", Gibran speaks about our joy & pain being two sides of the same coin...depending on our perceptions. As my awareness expands, I too have seen that joy in isolation is misery. Sharing is key to fulfillment. Public displays, such as marriage, are too often triggered by ego needs as opposed to genuine love. And, as those "needs" change, so does the commitment to a spouse. For me, calling someone my "partner" or my "best friend" creates a better dynamic than our expectation of "wife" or "husband". Perhaps, I'll see things differently in coming days, but that's where I am right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At YMCA and/or at a friend's or karaoke
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wasn't me! I'm a Jersey guy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You like exploring ideas & places, being spontaneous and can live outside the "box".