I'm a divorced single mom of two amazingly awesome kids, looking for companionship to go to action and sci-fi movies, concerts, playgrounds, and maybe play the occasional game of pinball.
I have no extended family in the area, and little relationship with most of my relatives. That said, I deeply value and want a family. My kids are great and bring me untold joy, I'm just missing a man to round out the family unit, a partner to share life's triumphs and struggles, someone to share smiles and affection with.
I knit, but I also ride a motorcycle. (though I no longer own my own bike, the weather here sucks too much to justify the expense)
I enjoy going out sometimes but love the comfort of home. I travel for work 3-6 days monthly.
I love dresses, skirts, high heels and all sorts of well cut feminine things but also have a large collection of geeky tshirts and funky sneakers (funky as in cool and offbeat, not stinky foot funk).
I want my space and privacy, at the same time I'm incredibly tactile and love hugs and feeling connected with someone.
I'm an extrovert but can also be incredibly shy. I'm ESFJ.
I don't jog, camp, fish, hunt, or hike. You can, just don't expect me to want to go with you.
I AM NOT A MORNING PERSON
I AM an optimist. Sometimes referred to as Hope Junkie.
I am attractive, smart, and direct. This intimidates some men which is kind of silly, I'm just a human being like everyone else. I just want to meet people who want to actually get to know me and aren't just blinded by my exterior appearance. Pretty words are cheap.
I don't play games, life is hard enough without that shit. You can't read my mind, and I can't read yours. If I say something, that is what I mean. I don't play hard to get, I don't do insecure or passive aggressive or controlling. If I say something and you try to figure out what I really mean, you're making things harder than they need to be. If you're unsure, just ask me.
I am looking for someone who will accept and like me for who I am, and isn't looking for a soccer mom or 'Stepford Wife'. Someone intelligent and hard working that I can respect intellectually and ethically. Someone emotionally generous, who can make me feel special without being subservient or acting like my doormat. Someone who can dress for the comicon or a night out, but also knows how to dress (themselves!) for a wedding at the country club or 5-star restaurant. If the idea of dating someone who dresses up as a comic book character to attend a comic book convention makes you uncomfortable or embarrassed to be seen with her, this is not the woman you are looking for. You can go about your business. Move along. You should be an extrovert. Must like kids - you can't just tolerate them. And absolutely 100% no tobacco or drug use, ever.
I am geeky, passionate, and caring