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QBStokes4

21 / M / straight / Single

Rochester, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am all the colors mix, together- to grey, and it breaks her heart.

My Self-Summary

The name is AJ Stocum, add me on facebook if you'd like (AJay Cutler Stocum). I wear sports team t shirts/jerseys/hoodies with basketball shorts/sweatpants/jeans and a hat basically EVERYDAY of my life. I am really good at video games, but that doesn't mean i play all the time. I know everything about sports, and if you know even a LITTLE about football or baseball you'll have my heart. I live at home, my room looks like a 12 year old kids. My car is a crappy silver cavalier that is decked out in sports stuff and the backseat is messy and there is a dent on a door from when an angry man kicked it on ridge rd. I realllly like movies, I quote them allll the time, the $5 bin at walmart is the greatest thing ever made. My favorite music is Dave Matthews, Maroon 5, Lupe Fiasco, Dashboard Confessional, Howie Day, and Incubus, and I have a shitload of variety on my ipod and if you like something, I'll most likely like it too. I absolutely hate the idea of being signed up on a dating site. I'm not gonna put too much effort into impressing a girl and I'm probably not gonna wow you with anything i do, so ya know I'm just gonna be me.

As far as going on dates, I'm down for whatever. Going to the movies is kinda cheesy unless its a theater that has almost nobody in it and we're watching a comedy... that's actually the best first date I've ever been on lol. Hanging at someones house watching tv or driving around listening to music or going to Starbucks or Barnes and Noble or the mall is also cool. You can find out a lot about people by going shopping with them. But yeah, I do whatever. I don't mind kissing on the first date, as long as its not a forced thing and it just happens.

That's about it, if you like it, then i guess that's good

What I’m doing with my life

I work at TGI Fridays as a server. I go to Brockport and I double major in Earth Science and Phys Ed to teach both. I am also looking to coach football in the future at Greece Athena. I am playing football for SUNY Brockport next year. That's about it so far.

I’m really good at

Making people laugh, being sarcastic, eating, softball, football, coaching, video games, driving people crazy and I'm sure there's more, I jsut can't think of anything right now.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmmm, I really don't know what the first thing people notice about me is. I've been told that I have nice eyes I guess? I don't know. Some people say i have a good butt too. Other things you'll notice about me after getting to know me is that I'm funny and honest and would do almost anything for the people I care about.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books-
Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Where the Red Fern Grows

Movies-
Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Office Space, Jurassic Park Trilogy, All Hanibal Lecter movies, Menace II Society, Varsity Blues, Alien Movies, Predator 1+2, AVP 1+2, Fifth Element, Space Jam, Step Brothers, Waiting.., Still Waiting..

Music-
Dave Matthews, Lupe Fiasco, OAR, Nelly, St Lunatics, Maroon 5, Yellowcard, Jacks Mannequin, Something Corporate, Cartel, Saves the Day, Saosin, Over It, Senses Fail, Incubus, Rob Thomas, Garth Brooks, Damian Marley, AFI, Dashboard Confessional, Howie Day..There's so much music that I just LOVEEE...But DMB is hands down my favorite and if you're in my car, then there is a 95% chance that my whole collection of Dave is playing on shuffle.

Food-
Garbage plates, McDonald's, Wendy's, Burger King, Famous Wok, Chinatown, Red Lobster, Applebee's, rice, spaghetti, burgers, pizza, steak, and shrimp... and I drink Coke, Arnold Palmer, Kool-aid Cran-Grape Juice and Sunny-d..basically as the only things I ever drink
I will absolutely eat/drink none of the following- peppers, mushrooms, tomatoes, salad, broccoli, salmon, Pepsi, and I'm sure there's a lot more.

The six things I could never do without

Well lets see..
1- Computer..I'm always on it for EVERYTHING
2- Definitely my ipod. I listen to it in the car, in class, on the way to and from class, in the cafeteria and when I'm working out. Music is DEFINITELY something I LOVEEEE. I wouldn't say its a passion, because I don't play any instruments or anything, but I could definitely listen to Maroon 5 and Dave Matthews forever..You basically need to at least like Dave Matthews if you wanna roll with me.
3- TV..I guess its just a mix of watching sports, playing video games and watching movies...3 things I love to do lol
4- Friends...since high school all my friends moved away to school so I'm a lottt closer with a main group of friends. Also, the people I work with are some of my best friends too, they are awesome.
5- Food..when I say I like to eat, I mean it. whether its going out or making my own food, I eat so damn much and love love love it! Chinese is something I could definitely eat everyday, and my favorites are Chinatown and Famous Wok. I love Applebee's 2 for $20 and endless shrimp and endless pasta at Red Lobster and Olive Garden is phenomenal.
6- Last would be probably be my cell phone, just because I have so many damn contacts in it and just text when I'm bored.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I don't really think about anything to be honest..I kinda just do what I do throughout the day. I probably think random thought about sports more than anything.. If you ask me what I'm thinking about, I'll probably just look at you for the mere fact that nothing is on my mind. But this is kind of a weird question

On a typical Friday night I am

Working at TGI Fridays until 10 or 11 then maybe going out to hang with friends from work..or just hanging out watching movies or food network or espn or something along those lines. I'm not big into the bar or party scenes just because bars cost too much and parties are kinda blahh, but I'm down for an occasional party if its all my close friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Anything really, if you ask, I'll more than likely tell. I'm not too afraid to admit anything lol. I'm probably one of the most open people you'll meet. Nothing is too gross, or forward for me and there are no "touchy subjects".

You should message me if

..You like what you see and your looking for anything. I prefer to look for long term right now, but a short fling would never hurt, you never know what it might lead to...don't be afraid to message me, I'll more than likely respond to you just because i hate when people ignore me haha.