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Qidnunxx1

37 / F / straight / Married

Johannesburg, South Africa

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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am quixotic, erotic, and neurotic.

My Self-Summary

I'm a hysterical, neurotic, erotic, phychotic with obsessional tendancies. Like all writers. Who needs phychologists when you have brains and a keyboard, apply one to the other and instant therapy?

No neutral. I have no neutral.

I have a tendancy to fall in love. Headlong, searing with ideas that aren't mine, falling, flailing, trying not to clutch, to cling, failing. My usual thing. But I'm into unrequited love. It's good for you - aerobics for the soul, toning for the heart, the safest form of sex and of course - the weight benefits are pretty damn good.

But define love. You fall in love with a person's potential. You can fall in love with a person because they show you yourself and your own potential. You can fall in love with a person because they explode your mind and open you to a universe of new ideas. Or they can see and understand your ideas when no one else can. You can fall in love with a person because you think you see potential, but what you're seeing is yourself reflected back at you � projection. Projection. Bloody projection. And of course you fall in love because � hey, you just wanna get down and dirty and oiled and sweaty, fuck cerebral, let's get carnal. Not interested in carnality since I'm married but that's my emotional wiring.

I'm into the flirtation, the mindmeld, a brief flare along the neurons, the swift touch of thought, glancing, addictive, intoxicating.

Words, words, words.. those damn words.. They generate this psychic electricity in me, an earthquake of the body/mind/heart, and suddenly I'm having a rush of blood to the heart, and muscles are thrumming and all I can feel is the thud of heat in the body. Altogether now, in three part harmony � Yeah, yeah. That's the name of that song. And when the body is shackled to words as mine is, well hello oblivion.

I'm into ((ideas)), ((books)), ((movies))

What I’m doing with my life

Writing for film and TV. Can anyone say maschist really fast?. I'm a word junkie, and I make my living by writing for a medium that tends to despise them.

I’m really good at

avoiding deadlines. Which is what I'm doing right now.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have no idea. Probably better to ask them.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

depends on mood. Terry Pratchett is the ubergod, closely followed by Kate Atkinson, Steven King, Urusula le Guin, Angela Carter, Barbera Trapido, Carl Hiasen, I'll read anything and appreciate it, as long as it's good of it's genre.

Favourite movie at the moment is "Thank you for Smoking". Brilliant script, closely followed by "Sideways", "Children of Heaven" "Kiss kiss bang bang" I'm a genre Junkie. Love westerns, film noir and good horror.

Music - depends on what I'm working on. At the moment I'm listening to a lot of gospel - writing a TV drama set against a gospel background.

Food? I have a deal with Mr. Delivery. They don't do scripts. I don't do food.

The six things I could never do without

My daughter. My Significent Other. My laptop. My cell (log onto the laptop through it). My dogs (all 7 of them). My friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

When is that bloody cheque gonna clear? free-lance writing is not for the weak.

On a typical Friday night I am

trying to kill a deadline. and the buggers refuse to die.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Um - I don't have anything private - it's all put into my scripts.

You should message me if

Actually I'm just here for the quizzes. So probably not a good idea to message me if you're looking for some cyber sex. But if you're into sharing ideas and meeting new people, I'm your huckleberry.