Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You actually care about your partner's feelings, needs, desires,
You're logical, honest, & reliable. You can stick to your
You don't feel the need to talk shit about me & argue w/ me a
lot. Logical intellectual discussion is nice & inevitably we'll
disagree on things, but name-calling, verbal/physical attacks are
hardly appealing. Most people sometimes have the need to complain
& vent, but don't turn that aggression on me. Direct it towards
the source of your negative energy, not me.
I hate to be like that annoying nagging condescending parent, but
use your words. I can't read your mind. Don't expect me to make
You're communicative & uncensored. I'd rather you reveal "too
much" information than be secretive. However, please try to be
straightforward, clear, & concise.
You can be straightforward and explicit. You don't expect me to
guess what you're thinking, decipher hidden meaning of what you
say, or read between the lines.
You don't regularly lie to your partner.
You have a reliable car or other means of reliable transportation.
Meeting up is difficult enough w/ busy schedules. Extra
time/reliability constraints due to transportation sucks. Having to
drive the entire time w/o any relief is tiring.
***Perhaps a broken record here, but please be open to physical
affection & intimacy. I know this makes me sound like just
another horny perverted guy that only wants sex, but that's not the
case. I just don't want so many constraints that it has to be such
a mission to get some intimate moments in the bedroom &
physical affection in public.
...you give me plenty of affection and I promise I will do my best
***Please be willing to have some intellectual conversation. I
don't want super serious deep complicated discussions 100% of the
time, but I also don't want someone that just cares about their
Facebook updates, the meme of the day, kpop news, & cat/baby
videos. That shit just isn't stimulating at all.
...you feel partners should want to mentally & physically
please each other. It shouldn't be harder than pulling teeth just
to get some stimulation from your bf/gf/partner.
You have no kids, are not super devoutly religious, are
affectionate (including in public), open minded, willing to try new
things, not worried about being politically correct, not averse to
physical intimacy, don't require marriage, logical,
straightforward, mean what you say.
You're open & reliable as well as can make time for us to bond.
I'm willing to dedicate my life to someone special & you will
be a high priority to me. I expect the same if you're seeking a
committed long term relationship.
You're not going to take forever to actually meet and interact.
Please don't draw it out unnecessarily. I'm not looking to play
You can unlock my inner hopeless romantic. It's definitely there,
but just haven't found someone I feel I can truly unleash myself
You can figure out what parts of this I actually wrote myself,
& where I'm just too lazy to change/update?
You're sitting in front of a computer looking for someone on OKC to
chat & meet with.
You are willing to meet face to face the old fashioned way. *If I
only wanted internet chat buddies, I wouldn't be here.*
You think I might be an interesting person to learn about.
You want to.
You are not an annoying, flaky, buzzkilling, prudish, preachy,
easily offended, golddigging, snitch, punk ass bitch. If any of
these traits apply to you, go fuck yourself.
You can entertain me & make me happy. I'll try to
You are a 99% match or enemy. I'm very intrigued about what kind of
person okc deems to be a 99% match or 99% enemy. Are you out
Just send a message to me already. I'll like you a lot more if you
make the first move. Don't be scared.