There are many books, movies, musical works, and foods that I like.
I should say that I'm quite willing to trying out new things with
my friends so that we can spend time together and build our
relationship, and that I'm quite good at learning to like new
things. But I do think I'm looking for someone who's willing to
spend some time trying out the things I like best.
BOOKS
Some of my favorite authors and books are: Shakespeare, George
Eliot's Middlemarch, Virginia Woolf, E. M. Forster, Turgenev,
Dickens, Harry Potter, The Lord Of The Rings; the poetry of Ben
Jonson, Andrew Marvell, Keats, and Homer; Don Quixote, and
Bocaccio's Decameron (A great 15th century collection of Italian
short stories).
Here are some thoughts on why I like some of these authors and
works: I like Shakespeare's tragedies, comedies, histories because
of the complexity of the characters, which allows the reader or the
audience to have the highest empathy for characters and for the
human condition; because of the the catharsis the tragedies allow
and the joy the comedies release, because of the intoxicating and
dreamy lyricism of the language. I like Shakespeare's sonnets
because of the sound of the language and the simplicity of the
emotions (e.g., loving admiration in "Shall I compare thee to a
summer's day"), which I find graceful.
I like George Eliot's Middlemarch because of she shows the highest
empathy for her characters and the human condition; and because she
writes about people being happy as a result of making material
sacrifices to do what they love and to be with people they
love.
I like Dickens for his combination of social messages with sweeping
plots, sharply-drawn characters, and impressionistic language
(e.g., the start of Bleak House); and I love the joy he's able to
convey in his descriptions of the festive occasions in A Christmas
Carroll. I like Harry Potter because I love the friendship of
Harry, Ron, and Hermione, the mixture of magic and emotion, and
symphonic pacing (e.g., how in Deathly Hallows the chapter on the
confrontation the House of Malfoy is followed by the chapter on
mourning and reflection at Shell cottage). I like The Lord of the
Rings for its combination of mournfulness for lost things of the
elves and Numenorians with the pluck and joy of the Hobbits and the
determination of Aragorn and Rohirrim. I like Don Quixote, a
Spanish novel about Spanish squire of the 17th century who thinks
he's a medieval knight, because of humility, zanniness, and warmth
of the narrator's voice ; the possibility of interpreting Quixote
both as a man of ideals and as a man of illusions; and the
slapstick comedy. I like the Decameron (a 15th Italian book in
which a group of Florentines tell each other short stories--many of
them erotic, or telling of close escapes from danger, or making
uproarious fun of authority figures in contemporary Italian
society--in order to keep each other's spirits high during the
plague) because of its spirit of witty, sensual celebration of life
in the darkest of times. I like poetry like Jonson's, Marvell's,
and Keats for their creative imagery, rich sounds, and the
restfulness many of their poems evoke.
MOVIES
The movies nearest and dearest to my heart are a BBC production of
Chekhov's Three Sisters (1970, directed by Cedric Messina), The
Sound of Music, and Juno. Other movies that I like include Singin'
in the Rain, Some Like It Hot, Mary Poppins, Master and Commander,
Fanny and Alexander, Almost Famous, Metropolitan, Rachel Getting
Married, Holiday (1936), The Best Years of Our Lives, and Yasujiro
Ozu's Tokyo Story, Early Summer, and Late Autumn.
I'd like to add that while the above are my favorite movies, I like
and am knowledgeable about another movies. Specifically I'm
familiar with a lot the critically popular ones on the BFI and AFI
lists; classic Hollywood movies such as those with Katherine
Hepburn and Cary Grant or those directed by Hitchcock or William
Wyler; historically reknowned directors such as Renoir, the Italian
neorealist, Kurosawa, Bergman, Truffaut, Werner Herzog, Wim
Wenders, and Kielslowski; more recently acclaimed indie directors
such as Aki Kaurismäki, Lee Chang-dong, Hirokazu Koreeda, Lyn
Shelton, and Sarah Polley; and a lot of contemporary main directors
who make romantic comedies or relationship comedies, such as
Richard Curtis, Nora Ephron, Lawrence Kasdan, and James L. Brooks.
I also have a interest in recordings of plays, ballets, operas,
etc. With the vast number of recordings of performances now
available as DVD's or streamed on youtube and Amazon, it's possible
to say watch 10 versions of Hamlet and pick one's favorite (mine is
the BBC version with Derek Jacobi). Despite my knowledge of the
movies, I'm a big fan of trying new things and checking out DVD's
or movies at the theater that I don't know much about. I think I
have a good attitude toward movies and enjoy most movies I see,
even I don't pick them; I appreciate the escape and any emotional
message the movie has, even if it's simple, so long as it's not
false.
MUSIC
A) Some of my favorite classical musical composers, pieces, and
performers are:
A.1) Mozart
A.1.1) The Marriage of Figaro
A.1.2) The Jupiter symphony
A.1.3) The Clarinet concerto (Any of the Jack Brymer
versions)
A.1.4) The string trio K. 563
A.2) Beethoven
A.2.1) The 9th Symphony (Any of the Furtwangler versions)
A.2.2) The Emperor piano concerto (Especially the recording of it
by Rudolf Serkin and Leonard Bernstein; the sound of the strings in
the second movement is so tender)
A.2.3) The piano sonata Op. 109, the theme and variations movement
(Annie Fischer)
A.3) Haydn
A.3.1) The string quartet Op. 76, No. 5, the largo (The Lindsay
Quartet)
A.4) Mahler
A.4.1) Symphony No. 4 (Salonen)
A.4.2) Symphony No. 4, Mvt. 4 or the adagietto (Haitnik)
A.4.3) Symphony No. 6, Mvt. 3 (Mitropoulos)
A.5) Schubert
A.5.1) The death and the maiden quartet, the andante
A.6) Dvorak
A.6.1) The American string quintet (in E-flat major)
B) Popular music I like
B.1) Cat Stevens
B.2) Rogers and Hammerstein
B.3) The Carpentars
B.4) Judy Garland
B.5) Frank Sinatra
B.6) The Beatles
B.7) Bob Dylan
B.8) Ella Fitzgerald (The Cole Porter recordings especially)
B.9) Helen Forest (A 40’s big-band jazz singer)
B.10) Blind Lemmon Jefferson (A 20’s blues singer)
C) Folk Music I like
C.1) Liz Carrol (A virtuosic Celtic violinist)
D) I’d like to explain that the above music is my favorite music,
but there’s a lot of music I like and am interested in. In
fact, I have a pretty encyclopedic knowledge of American popular
music. For example, you might be surprised to know that I’m
records knowledgeable about the early history of rap-- Def Jam
Records, Run DMC, Beastie Boys, Public Enemy, Bad Boby Records,
Puff Dady, Notorious BIG, Death-Row Records, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dog,
2pace. For another example, I’m also familiar with the
mainstream rock bands of the 1970’s--the Rolling Stones, Led
Zepplin, and Pink Floyd—and the punk rock bands of the 1970’s—the
Velvet Underground, Stooges, New York Dolls, and Ramones. For
a final example, I’m familiar with early 1930’s country artists
like The Carter Family and Jimmie Rodgers. Also, the list of
classical music pieces is about 1% of my collection, and I’m
starting to get into a lot of folk music—for example, Czech, Cuban,
and Indian. My general attitude toward art (as well as politics in
fact) is to be open-minded, respectful, and thoughtful, so I’m sure
I can find some find common ground and a way to share the car radio
with you.
THINGS I FIND FUNNY
I think a sense of humor is extremely valuable for a happy life.
One cluster of types of humor I like are childlike, cerebral,
and/or positive humor. Some examples of this genre: Calvin and
Hobbes, The Daily Show, The Sound of Music, Bringing Up Baby, Much
Ado About Nothing, and Henry IV, Part 1. I also like dark humor
that arises from, gives vent to, and laughs at one's personal
frustration and concern for the well-being of the world. Perhaps
the best example of this type of humor is Dr. Strangelove.
TRAVEL INTERESTS
The place I want to visit most in the world is Salzburg, Austria
during the its annual summer classical music festival. Nestled
under the Alps, I think that that classical musical festival is one
of the finest in the world, and it's definitely set in a historic
city with masterful baroque architecture. I'd love be to climb
those mountains or explore the ancient city by day and listen to
that music by night.
I should also say that I love the outdoors. Although I've lived In
New York City from middle school through college, I was able to
take many trips with my parents to the national parks of the West,
and do quite a bit of hiking. My favorite natural place is
Resurrection Bay, by Kenaj Fjords National Park. That bay is a
magnificent glacier-carved artifact, still fed by glaciers running
from the largest ice field wholly in the United States. It's
surrounded by snow-capped mountains and lined by forests of ever
greens. In the summer, it receives 20 hours of sunlight per day and
is home to an incredible diversity of animals--whales, otters,
eagles, and too many others to list. The most strenuous hike I've
done is from the Southern rim of the Grand Canyon to the bottom and
back in one day (My dad an I hiked it after my college graduation
via the Bright Angel and South Kebab trails). Now that I'm living
in California, I'm trying and (having some success!) getting out to
the wilderness on a monthly as opposed to a yearly basis =)
POLITICS
As I mentioned in my discussion of musical tastes, my attitude
toward a lot of life is to be open-minded, respectful, and
thoughtful. Therefore, I don’t support politicians because they’re
Democrat or Republican but beacause I’ve thought and read about
their positions (and sometimes read articles in journals of
Economics or wonky economists’ blogs or analyzed the relevant data
myself) and I agree with them. I will take action to support a
policy I passionately support. Recently, I've campaigned for the
Democrats on a few issues, especially for healthcare reform. In
2009-10, I probably called about a hundred-fifty voters to urge
them to take action to support healthcare reform. I think that the
US has a terrific governmental system, that I'm fortunate to live
in it, and that I have a responsibility to keep up a decent level
of engagement in it.