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37 M Sheffield, UK

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Pansexual genderqueer person. Caring, kinky, poly, and honest to a fault. I have little interest in sex, no interest at all in casual sex. Casual hugs, tea and cake are cool though :-).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally, I'm a physicist, but circumstances have forced me to put my much loved career on hold for now, and instead I support myself by renting rooms in my big old house to lodgers, and occupy myself when I can with renovating the house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems in an innovative way. I'm surprisingly creative for a scientist, the one who has those really wacky ideas that just might work, and never does quite what anyone expects.

I'm also pretty good at fixing plumbing, carpentry, and other random household DIY jobs, especially ones that involve getting my power tools out (yes, they make me feel manly ok). So far I've turned a kitchen into a downstairs loo, a dining room into a kitchen, a bedroom halfway into a bathroom, a bathroom halfway into a bedroom, and other bits of the house into a bit of a mess ;-).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have opinions, and I like to share them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read voraciously, pretty much anything I can get my hands on. Favourites for entertainment are science fiction and fantasy, as well as the classics of 'proper literature', with the odd bit of popular science thrown in. Now and then I delve into self-education on psychology, religion, or whatever is interesting me at the time. I've never failed to enjoy a book that has dragons in it :-).

I go to the cinema regularly too, and sometimes I go and see films I know are going to be bad, just so I can see for myself how bad they are. I'm perfectly happy to go to the cinema alone, and do so quite often, although I usually go with friends and disect the film with them afterwards. I love to get absorbed in a film and escape into another world for a while. It's hard to pick a favourite film of all time, I often say 'The Blues Brothers' because that's one I can watch over and over without getting bored of it. I'm usually happiest watching kid's films like 'Babe', the 'Wallace and Grommit' films, 'Wall-E'; and not at all happy watching horror films or gratuitous gory violence, not having been desensitised to on-screen violence like most people.

Music isn't a big part of my life, but it still has the capacity to touch me emotionally, and I'm fascinated by all kinds of dance. If I put music on at home, it is usually some old Rock or 60s stuff.

I love both to cook and to eat. I'm not strictly vegan, but if I do eat animal products I'm fussy about their provenance. My favourite food is hot, intensely flavoured, exciting.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The air, food water etc is a bit boring and obvious, so here's what I'd really rather not do without:

My dog, friends, internet, books, sunshine and dry socks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physics, gender, food, social justice, and my dog's digestive tract.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a pub, talking nonsense with my mates and drinking real ale (in moderation).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a bit horrified by the 'aggressive' score in my personality test, because I'm a pacifist. 'Gobby' would be more accurate ;-).
You should message me if
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You feel like it, have something funny to share, like my profile, or have nothing better to do. Or, you think we would enjoy each other's company.

I reply to all messages, but if you haven't read my profile, the sarcasm levels will be high, and if I don't like you, you will be blocked immediately.