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28 Azor, Israel Woman, Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:23am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
זה מה שאני אעשה כשאהיה גדולה:

Notice: This profile is full of links, but they only work on a computer.

O, hai.
What do you want?

I want a friend. A cuddly, sexy, smart friend with which I can have fun, share hard times and good, talk philosophically & practically, do things together, occasionally fuck, and ideally have in my life in a meaningful, long term position. ;)

If you get a feeling along the lines of "hmm, I'd like to know more about that girl", I'd be grateful if you read more about me, to make sure we're looking for similar things and have some common language.

To those who seem very focused on the one thing: I have enough sex, thanks for the offer. This is really just a small part of what I'm after at this time.


I practice Polyamory, which means I'm Polyamorous.
Check Wikipedia or This Site for more general information. You might also want to watch This Video (or this one in Hebrew).
As for what I make of it, you can read about it here, here and here (and the Hebrew version of the last one).

What am I here for? Well, I want to find awesome people who can be a part of my life. What part? That totally depends on our interaction. It can be amazing conversations, it can be random humor, it might be doing sports together, it can be a sharing of music, movies, food or points of view and it can be (or become) good sex.

I don't have a lot of "people space" in my life. I'm not that sort of person. Right now I'm looking for someone who would be:
A. My friend, who will appreciate me as much as I'll appreciate him.
B. Communicative, verbal and direct. And it's not about quantity - quality and connection matter much more.
C. Cuddly & attractive. Physicality matters... What I find attractive can be found near the end of the 2008 "entry".
D. Present. I don't wanna chase anyone, nor be chased. We both need to want to be there for each other.

I will, by default, ignore random "hi's" and empty generic messages that sound like someone's copy\pasting a 100 of them a day. Try to talk to me, instead of hitting on yet another girl online. You might also want to read the very last section of the profile before saying anything.



The following is a pretty old version of my profile here, so some things may have become irrelevant, but it still gives a pretty good impression of the person I am\could become.

I do not apologize for attempting to explain myself.
This is not a summary, it's a beginning.

Even on days of depression I can enjoy the beauty of the world, find moments of joy in laughter. I take pleasure in my attention to details.
I'm sharp. I understand things quickly and if paying attention, hardly needs to be told things twice. I will probably memorize your name before you memorize mine.

I dance sexy; I dance crazy. It's never boring when I dance.

I should rollerblade more. I should do more art (got a Wacom; got a Konica Minolta Z3; Got 0.5 and 0.1 pens; got watercolors and various pencils; got tons of junk for realife 3D works; got great imagination; got tons of ideas). I should get back to writing (short stories and [less] poems). I should play more computer games (got Geforce 8600 GTS; Intel Duo Core 6600; 1GB RAM). I should learn more thru Wikipedia, Google (everything!) and online dictionaries (language!). I should get back to following at least 5 webcomics. Gah, I should read more, as in, get back to it.

My clothing style is a mixture of boring-and-regular, goth, hippie and punk. No jeans.

Somehow I seem taller than I truly am. I'm working my way from size 40 to 38 pants-wise. Shirts are Small. Bra size is 75B-80B. I've about a meter long dark hair and green-grey-blue eyes with a dark outline.

I'm secure enough about my sexuality. I enjoy touch very much. I'm not looking for casual encounters mostly because I get bored way too quickly when there's nothing emotional to keep me around.

Being mostly agnostic, I don't believe in a Higher Purpose, Ineffable Plan, Destiny or Fate. It can be depressing at times, and very freeing otherwise. You get used to idea and then Life is all about having fun while you're around to experience it. :)

If I remember my dreams they're interesting. Sometimes being weird fantasy-stories, sometimes about a struggle of evil vs. less-evil, sometimes just a great plot (or is it just my imagination?).

I used to say I like Winter, but I should've been more specific: I like the Mediterranean winter. Where the temperatures hardly drop below 0 degrees Celsius, the rains are not too harsh and not too frequent, and you get some perfect cloudy-blue-skied days when the wind is cold and the sun almost-warm, the cats' fur sparkles clean and healthy, black, orange or grey against the green in which flowers begin opening and the insects are all around and lively (but before the annoying flyers or mosquitoes hatched).


Those I considered or had as mates had dark eyes, but ideally my men have pale eyes. Also ideally: long hair and good shoulder-structure (not very muscular, if at all. Freckled ones score higher ;) ).

I will never attempt entering a relationship without trust. I've learned that those who cannot trust are untrustworthy. I do realize that it is a thing earned with time, and yet. When I'm willing to answer any direct question with a direct answer so should my potential mate.

I will never attempt entering a one sided relationship. Initiatives should come from both sides concerning talks, compromises, cuddles, sex, chores, asking for forgiveness, activities, hugs and whatever else I'm forgetting ;)

I am Open Minded, Audacious, and Mostly Amused.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

Near TA, with shaystarman (~6 years together and counting :) ), living la vida loca (not really): watching a lot of movies and series at home, cooking, playing the occasional computer\tabletop game, going out for rollerblading and evening walks, discovering lots of new (and old) music via this wonderful Site. We have Loki and Freya.

I've started doing This, while studying Nonviolent Communication and integrating my years-long interest and readings of relationships and the human psyche.


I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease.
Finding practical solutions to various problems.
Looking at things from a new angle.
Cuddles & hugs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The eyes - an undefined shade of grey and green and blue, with a dark outline.
When loose - my over a meter long hair.
My silent self-confidence. I've grown very comfortable with being me, and I'm also okay with you being you. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
About time to update\edit this here section, that's be on May 2014.
Yeah, it's long, what can I say, I enjoy stuff! :D

I like mostly Scifi and Fantasy books, and I have a growing collection of children's books because I'm interested in the illustrations.
Some namedropping: Watership Down (Richard Adams); Neverwhere, Stardust, Smoke & Mirrors (Neil Gaiman); Last Call, The Anubis Gates (Tim Powers); To Say Nothing of the Dog (Connie Willis); Fallen Angels (Larry Niven, Jerry Pournelle, Michael Flynn); Songmaster (Orson Scott Card).

Computer: Broken sword 1-2; Monkey Island 1-4; Quest for Glory 1-2 and 4; The Dig; Warcraft 2-3; The Longest Journey; Gabriel Knight - Sins of the Fathers; The Neverhood; Startopia; Fallout 2; Dragon Age: Origins; The Witcher.
Tabletop: Betrayal at House on the Hill; Scrabble; Chez Geek; Descent: Journeys in the Dark.

Here too I crave the good scifi\fantasy stuff, but I'll go for anything that is well made in more than one way (plot, design, acting, cinematography). I'm also trying to collect the best short animations around, so if you have a suggestion… :)
Random favorites: eXistenZ; Matrix; The Fifth Element; Snatch; Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels; Interview With the Vampire; Minority Report; Almost Famous; American Beauty; The Butterfly Effect; Fight Club; American History X; Leon; My Life Without Me; Shortbus; Moonrise Kingdom; Inception; Stardust; About Time; Kick-Ass; Moon.
Animation: Monsters Inc.; Final Fantasy; Treasure Planet; The Iron Giant; Lilo&Stitch; Shrek (1-2); Mulan; The Incredibles; How to Train Your Dragon; The Secret of Kells; Felidae; A Cat in Paris; Tangled; Ratatouille; Up.
Animation Shorts: The Lost Thing; Kara (by Quantic Dream); The Cat Piano; Paperman (Disney short).
Series (inc. mini & animation): Firefly; Dollhouse; Lost Room; Mushishi; Sherlock; Community; Misfits; Game of Thrones; Rome; Avatar: the Last Airbender; How I Met Your Mother; Once Upon a Time; True Blood; Code Geass: Lelouch of the Rebellion; Berserk; Fullmetal Alchemist; True Detective.

Rock, Metal, Electronic, Prog, Indie, World (whatever that means), Folk, Instrumental (that's not very specific either, ey?), Soundtracks and all sorts of mysterious sub-genres like drone, minimal, post-rock, triphop, chillwave, experimental, etc.
Namedropping again (on oh-so-random):
A Perfect Circle; Ivri Lider; Linkin Park; Mindless Self Indulgence; Metallica; Monica Sex; Natalie Imbruglia; Nirvana; Depeche Mode; Incubus; Vinnie Moore; Sasha (the DJ); Boards of Canada; Secede; Amit Erez; Passion Pit; Capital Cities; The Killers; White Lies; Jesse Cook; Lisa Lynne; Massive Attack; Air; Zegunder; Explosions in the Sky; Mogwai; Starfucker; Jeremy Soul; Paatos; Porcupine Tree; Guilt Machine; Frost.

I like experimenting with food (cooking & baking), so I guess I can choose my favorite ingredients in no specific order:
Butter, tomatoes, eggplant, basil, black pepper, garlic, onions, fresh fish, oranges, eggs, potatoes, mushrooms, cheeeeeeeese (of all sorts and colors), peppers, fresh greens (so many options), fruits of the season (well, anything goes and\or becomes a great home-made jam), flour (what, it's very useful), tahini, yogurt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
[update! March 2014]
- My wonderful partner in life and crime, Shay.
- Finding joy in all those tiny, beautiful moments and things that the world keeps offering.
- Creating. Food, art, happiness for others and myself.
- The never ending pursuit of new ideas, new stories, new experiences.
- Physical activity.
- Music!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The stuff I do and should do (see self summary). Stuff I read/see/watch/hear/listen to. The meaning of behavior and body language of various beings (mostly human. Also feline and canine. Others too.). Sex (and the ways to make it and keep it interesting).

What to do next. What's the rush, anyway? What's the point, also?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired. Probably after rollerblading or cleaning the house during the day. Possibly attending (or hosting) a family dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you're nice and can make me laugh I'll probably hug you. I love hugs.

There is a shorter link-way than I thought to finding a nude pic of me. I'm fine with that though. There's actually more than just one available freely on the net. Go figure ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Long time no update here. So there: May 2014.
Message me if:

- You're okay with the fact that I'm in a loving relationship (and an amazing one at that), yet open to other love-relationships that may come along, or just fun friendly+sex kinda relationships.

- You're a girl who needs a friend. I get along great with guys, with girls I tend to stay at a loss. Help me out here ;)

- You have something nice or interesting to say, a conversation to start or a good question to ask.

- You want new profile pictures \ a good portrait of yours taken. See my works Here.

- You're selling these lovely leather jackets.

! No reply guarantee * No refunds * No littering * No smoking allowed !

Don't message me if:

- You didn't even bother reading the first "entry" of my profile.

- You can't actually relate - in your message as well as in your mind - to anything I wrote.

- You live outside of Israel and don't have a specific reason to talk to me (I don't mind answering a few questions, but I'm not looking for penpals, sorry).