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30 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 30
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a very open person and want to be around people who both share and appreciate that quality.

Looking to move out of the country in the next two +/- years. Will happily go solo but it would be nice to go with a partner.

I'm an outgoing, adventurous feminist who loves to learn, play and engage in friendly debate. I adore being outdoors,eclectic and live music, conceptual art, photography, fun, NPR, costumes, falafel, travel, whisperlight stoves, good beer, surfing, my cat, skiing, anthropology, museums, dive bars, burlesque dancing, burning man, fireplaces (although I don't have one) and grapefruit. I love learning. I want to try everything.

Did I mention I love fun? I'm really good at having spontaneous, silly, costumed (or not), messy, musical fun.

I wish I were a [mad] scientist.

I want to travel in space.

I love life.

I eat crackers in bed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Turning oxygen into carbon dioxide.
Bringing energy wherever I go.
Just finished grad school in New Hampshire and moved back to the Bay and back to work in the startup sphere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun, laughing out loud when I'm alone or with company. Traveling the world on a whim, learning new things, social theory, starting dance parties, setting off fireworks, drinking tasty beer, making costumes, empathizing, touching my toes, wasting time on the internet, making people around me feel comfortable, talking to strangers, athletics, having crazy dreams, getting pictured in San Francisco periodicals, being 5-9 minutes late, giving warm, enthusiastic greetings and hugs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really, really enthusiastic and smile a lot.

I'm wearing a costume.

I had to wear an eye patch on and for a few months because of a necessary surgery and it was certainly an attention grabber. I'm fairly confident that I was able to make the eye-patch sexy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The intertubes.
Podcasts (anything Radiotopia), audio books. I've recently gotten really into Scifi: Hyperion, and the Quantum Thief are two of my favorites. In terms of fiction I really like Tom Robbins, Chuck Palahniuck. Alan Moore. I love reading social theory such as Foucault and many others. I tend to be in the middle of about 5 books at once of very different styles and topics and read them according to my mood.

Deep house, no wave, minimal techno, world music. Here is a randomish list that doesn't touch the genres I mentioned: Bowie, Ministry, Secret Chiefs, Dave Douglas, The Cramps, Boredoms, Skinny Puppy, Talking Heads, Pelican, Twin Shadow, The Knife, Mr. Bungle, Russian Circles, Velvet Underground, Joy Division, Parenthetical Girls, Father John Misty, Mogwai, Stereolab, Patti Smith, of montreal, White Zombie holds a special place in my heart, experimental stuff and much more. I love live and eclectic music and I'm probably the happiest industrial music fan ever. Also, dancy dancy funky goodness.

Also, I tore my ACL to Ministry... at Burning Man.

Falafel, cheese, grapefruits, hummus, indian food, spicy stuff w/ a beer, fresh produce, veggie burritos, and food that I don't cook. Please cook for me.

Netflix, Metropolis, Naked Lunch and all Cronenberg, Zardoz, all Herzog films, Repo Man, Journey Reel 8, The Birdcage, Un Chien Andalou, Moon, From Beyond, Children of Men, Koyaanisqatsi, The Fantastic Planet, Little Otik, This Is England, 28 Days Later, Man with a Movie Camera, The Parent Trap, Chinatown, 4, Kung Fu Hustle, Abre los ojo, Battlestar Gallactica, Arrested Development, Twin Peaks, Breaking Bad, Futurama, Human Planet, TNG, Game of Thrones, Bobs Burgers,Archer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
new information, humor- the dark kind, music, travel, a reusable waterbottle, steamy skilled make-outs, exercise . Also, enthusiasm. Yes, that is eight things. I'm so glad you can count.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Power structures, making things happen, how lasers are to kittens what teflon is to eggs, how much cooler I would be if I played the accordion or better yet if I could train a snake to play one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You'll find me at a dive bar drinking beer, spending far too long
picking out the perfect songs to listen to on the jukebox, maybe at
a gallery opening, starting a dance party, riding my bike, at a
concert, or other interesting event going on in the city. Or
maybe sitting in a tent in the woods. All entail having fun and
smiling. Any could be experienced in costume.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I eat food off the ground, various grounds. I've eaten out of the trash.

I love popping zits, not just mine.

As much as I love my parts (and believe me I do), I have penis envy. God, I just want a day with one!
You should message me if
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You're smart, warm, spontaneous, fun, comfortable with yourself and have diverse interests. Also please have lots of energy and don't be afraid to share your thoughts, vulnerabilities or dinner.

You see and appreciate shades of gray, not just black and white.

You want to move out of the country in the next year or two.

You're a burner.

Please be able to be open with your mind and feelings.

People who are super duper organized, intense neat-freaks weird me out a bit. That is, of course, unless they want to help me organize my closet, life, everything... then, they're awesome!

Also let it be known that I often forget about this site and get busy, you know, living life. I'm not super into long internet communication, and would rather get a beer quickly if I think you seem interesting.