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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:36am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
My self-summary
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i enjoy ultimate frisbee, disc golf, tabletop gaming and wish i traveled more. i'm extremely nerdy about the things i'm passionate about. i lean heavily towards being an introvert, but i'm also highly opinionated and blunt, and that's a proven way to get me talking in a social situation. i'm straightedge (always have been) but don't care that others drink (in moderation), have been a vegetarian for 13 years (and have no problem with you eating as you please.) atheist, extremely liberal. ok, so that'll weed out a lot of people.

i haven't been on this site in a long time, but it can't hurt to throw a new profile up and see what happens. still weirded out a bit though...

oh, and regarding age: i don't look 33. this can make it hard for me to meet people. i've learned to not judge the people i meet based on their age, but rather by their actions. i've met plenty of adults under 20, and plenty of children over 30. ideally, i'd like to meet somebody who acts like an adult when they need to, but knows how to lighten up and goof off a bit.
What I’m doing with my life
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i'm not a career oriented person. my job (which i've stayed at for going on 9 years) is a means to an end. it pays pretty well, has great benefits (which is rarely use), and allows me to make my own schedule. this allows me to run my ultimate frisbee group (which continues to be very successful), play tabletop with 2 different groups, and waste entirely too much of the rest of my time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
avoiding cameras, seemingly. i hadn't realized how few pictures of me are out there. that one above is probably 2 years old and seemingly the most recent. clearly, i needed a haircut. that often seems to be the case.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: anything R.A. Salvatore or Neil Gaiman. The Princess Bride. Lamb. Good Omens. Hitchhiker's Guide series.

movies: The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, Leon... many others.

shows: Firefly, Doctor Who...lots of sci-fi stuff. just getting in to Game of Thrones, which is excellent

music: joanna newsome, metric, sara watkins, tool, a perfect circle, die antwoord, fiona apple

food: vegetarian. my favorite meal is served at kuba kuba, but i eat at thai diner too more than anywhere else. and my vegetarian chili is fantastic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ipod (for my drive to work), discraft ultimate disc, my crock pot, lime juice and simple syrup (i make a lot of limeade), and set of gaming dice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i wish i traveled more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in bed early. usually working at 5:30am saturday morning.
You should message me if
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-you're nerdy/passionate about something.
-you don't run from confrontation. i'm opinionated and blunt, and it helps if you aren't afraid to speak your mind.
-you can accept that i'm naturally introverted. bonus points if you're up to dragging me out of my shell.
-you want to talk doctor who or firefly
-you're interested in ultiamte, disc golf, or tabletop gaming. or you're down to just toss the frisbee around a while.
-you have a local-ish restaurant you want to recommend
-you're liberal minded and don't put much stock in gender roles. that being said...its ok to message me first. i don't plan to spend much time on here, but figure it can't hurt to have a profile floating around. a simple "hello! want to talk?" is plenty to get me started.
-stability would be...ya know...great. i don't care how much money you make, but it'd be lovely to meet somebody who makes ends meet and spends somewhat responsibly.
-sassy is a plus
-you appreciate that it can be kinda hard to sell oneself on here

i think chemistry is really important in a relationship, be it romantic or just friendship. sometimes two people can have a ton in common on paper and just not hit it off in person. so while i'm cool with spending enough time chatting on here for us each to establish that neither of us are insane, i'd like to meet in person before too terribly long.