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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:18pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
My self-summary
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basically looking for somebody who is mature enough to have their shit together, but hasn't sacrificed the idea of fun being a big factor in your life.

ok, so the whole profile is basically a summary, isn't it? so i'm turning this section in to a "things you should know" section, to scare off any that are super picky but somehow looked at more than the "My details" section.

-i don't drink, but don't mind if you do. its really not a big deal. i'm not like a recovering alcoholic or anything, i've just never drank alcohol. not so much as a drop. and while i'm ok with people who drink, people who get sloppy drunk on a regular basis kinda turn me off.

-i'm vegetarian. i'm not a snob about it, but if provoked i'll defend myself about it. if you eat me, it is in no way a deal breaker. i've actually never dated anybody who was a strict vegetarian.

-i don't smoke. i think they smell awful. i've never dated a smoker, and i'm not really sure how i feel about the idea of doing so.

-i'm atheist. i've dated christians and agnostics and buddhists and spiritual people. so, religion isn't a deal breaker either. again, if provoked regarding this, i'm more than prepared to defend my beliefs.

-ok, this is one that has bothered me. so i've seen a number of profiles that stated that, because they like intelligence in a partner, they don't want to be contacted by anybody who doesn't have a college degree. seriously? a college degree is NOT an accurate way to determine how intelligent somebody is. there are many kinds of intelligence, and many people who get a college degree are far from intelligent. i went to college for a while and hated it. a few years later, upon doing some traveling outside the US, i started to come to the realization that i'm just not a career oriented person. i work a full time job, making plenty of money to support myself and my hobbies. i'm smart, trustworthy, clever, and caring. if the fact that i don't have a degree is really that much of a deal breaker, of luck.

-i don't send out a lot of messages on here. doing a bit of google searching, i found that women rate 80% of men as "below average", which is frankly rather discouraging. i also suspect that women get a LOT of messages on here, and that it becomes a chore to sift through all the garbage. so, if after reading the rest of my profile you want to chat a bit, don't be shy.
What I’m doing with my life
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on a deeper note? re-evaluating a lot of stuff, right now. i need to travel more, so starting to save for that again.

more shallow? gaming on wednesday night, ultimate on thursday and sunday, and sometimes tuesday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
awful puns. quick comebacks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: anything R.A. Salvatore or Neil Gaiman. The Princess Bride. Lamb. Good Omens. Hitchhiker's Guide series.

movies: The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, Leon... many others.

shows: Firefly, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Babylon 5...lots of sci-fi, clearly. and Game of Thrones, of course

music: joanna newsome, metric, sara watkins, tool, a perfect circle, fiona apple

food: vegetarian. my favorite meal is served at kuba kuba, but i eat at thai diner too more than anywhere else. and my vegetarian chili is fantastic.

i saw a profile that listed favorite board games, and thats a GREAT idea.

board games: probably a toss up between Dominion and the Firefly board game (which i'm told is still really enjoyable to people who aren't even fans of/familiar with the show. i recently bought Five Tribes, but have yet to try it. Bang is great. i wish there were more games that didn't require 4 players to really shine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ipod (for my drive to work), a disc for ultimate, my crock pot, lime juice and simple syrup (i make a lot of limeade), and a set of gaming dice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i wish i traveled more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in bed early. usually working at 5:30am saturday morning.
You should message me if
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-you're nerdy/passionate about something.
-you're not afraid to speak your mind.
-you can accept that i'm naturally introverted. i tend to stay clear of huge events (concerts and such), and tend to be somewhat quiet around strangers or even large groups of friends.
-you're interested in ultimate, disc golf, or tabletop gaming. or you're down to just toss the frisbee around a while. i would love it if you're somebody who doesn't want to spend all of their time inside OR outside, but a healthy mix of both.
-you have a local-ish restaurant you want to recommend
-you're liberal minded. ultra-conservatives can really get under my skin.
-stability would be...ya know...great. i don't care how much money you make, but it'd be lovely to meet somebody who makes ends meet and spends somewhat responsibly.
-you appreciate that it can be kinda hard to sell oneself on here

clearly, chemistry is really important in a relationship, be it romantic or just friendship. sometimes two people can have a ton in common on paper and just not hit it off in person. so, maybe OKC has its matching percentage spot on, but i question it. if reading my profile tempts you to say hello, but the match percentage is discouraging...shoot a message my way anyway. i think that, ultimately, you can't tell how two people will get along until they've met in person. that being said, after we've had a chance to be reasonably certain that the other isn't a crazy person, i'd like to meet face to face. nothing is certain until then.