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36 Schenectady, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:11am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hey there, if you come here often you should probably start sending me messages. I'm Kevin and I'll be your host for the next few minutes. I'm easy to understand . . . I use humor for everything and am constantly sarcastic. I love a good witty comeback.

Most of the time I'm trying to enjoy myself and make light of every situation. It's best to try not to stress over things. However, I can still be serious when it calls for it. Sometimes I just may need the nudge to remind me that it's a serious moment.

You'll also have to forgive me if I'm not so good with the whole dating scene. It's been around 9 years since I last had to to go on any dates or was able to go on any dates. I'm open for suggestions though, I'm not afraid to try out some new, exciting things.

Not sure what else you'd like to know about me. Best way would be to send me a message and see where the conversation goes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Continuing down my career path and bringing in the paychecks. I've also been shopping around for a house I can afford. Would love to have a place to call my own for myself and my daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Providing comfort to others. I also seem to have a knack for judging people's intentions, so long as it's not towards me. Been right multiple times now when others denied it. And sometimes it takes a bit for the true intentions to be shown. Guess I'm a good observer and pick up on the subtle body language hints.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm a short, soulless ginger. But you know what, we gingers can get a soul if we want one. All we have to do is go down to our local Kia dealership. Plus I've heard that for every freckle on our face is a soul we've already claimed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Myth series by Robert Asprin, The Bard's Tale by Mercedes Lackey, and the Lord of the Rings trilogy.

The majority of my movie watching these days is random things that have been recommended by Netflix. But I'm fairly open to watching just about anything.

I'll listen to just about anything other than rap. The top genres are symphonic metal and gothic metal. A few top bands: Sirenia, UnSun, Xandria, The Birthday Massacre, Indica, Within Temptation, and Nemesea.

I seemed to have skipped Shows . . . Adventure Time, Bones, Bleach, Impractical Jokers, Face Off, Family Guy, Walking Dead, Archer, Mythbusters, Game of Thrones. Think those are the ones I have setup to record these days. Feel free to drop me suggestions of things you'd think I'd enjoy, kind of how I got hooked on Bones.

Only foods I refuse to eat are seafood and veal. It's joked about that veal is my one and only moral high ground.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My daughter's future, this includes the good things and the bad things . . .

Oh, and why there isn't more Flame Princess. This bothers me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably depends if I have to pick up my daughter or not. I have her for a week at a time and switch off on Fridays. Fridays I get her are spent catching up with her. Fridays I don't have her are spent resting up and preparing for whatever the weekend may bring. Maybe that'll include some dates. More likely is lounging about catching up on shows on Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a big nerd. Okay, so not very private since I have pictures being dressed up for Ren Faire.

I can be very shy at first. But once I warm up and get comfy I've been told I'm rather entertaining, nice, and fun to be around. So looking for someone to help keep me out of my shell.
You should message me if
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You think we have something in common or I seem interesting to you. Really, everyone is welcomed to send me messages, even if it's just to find someone to talk with. Gamer girls definitely should contact me. In the least we could discuss various games.

Just so you know, it'll probably be at least 6 months before you'd get to meet the little one. I want to keep her safe and not have people in and out of her life. I need to really make sure you'll be good for her and me.