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36 Schenectady, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 5:14pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Couple Key Points:
- I have a daughter. I love her very much and she is my top priority without exception. If you can't handle or understand this, we won't work out

- If you live on your phone and can't go a couple minutes without having to check it, we probably won't work out.

I'm Kevin and it takes an awful lot to get under my skin or offend me. I love to make people smile and laugh. In general, I prefer quieter activities that are more intimate over large crowds and noisy places. Not to say I won't be involved (see next paragraph), I just prefer quieter things.

Every summer I head out to the Sterling Ren Faire. I enjoy dressing up for it and just crowd watching. Always try to change up the outfit as well, buying a couple pieces throughout the year. Anyone wanting to go with me MUST dress as well. Tradition dictates that I get my tankard and cup of mead, after that, anything goes.

After spending some time talking with one of my female friends about her marriage, I've decided that I want to adopt her view of a relationship: it should be transparent. This means that everything gets shared and there are no secrets. Any friends I have or meet, my significant other can meet and talk with to get to know them. The same would hold true in reverse. There should be trust in a relationship and there should also be open communication.
What I’m doing with my life
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Sitting at a desk doing my job most of the time. It's nothing overly thrilling, but it brings in the paycheck. I wouldn't mind finding something new for a career though.

Waiting to hear from the seller's bank so I can get a closing date for my new house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Providing comfort to others. I also seem to have a knack for judging people's intentions, so long as it's not towards me. Been right multiple times now when others denied it. And sometimes it takes a bit for the true intentions to be shown. Guess I'm a good observer and pick up on the subtle body language hints.

Balancing time with my daughter and still getting in my games. Eventually I'm hoping the games will be replaced by time with a significant other.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm a short, soulless ginger. But you know what, we gingers can get a soul if we want one. All we have to do is go down to our local Kia dealership. Plus I've heard that for every freckle on our face is a soul we've already claimed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Myth series by Robert Asprin, The Bard's Tale by Mercedes Lackey, and the Lord of the Rings trilogy.

The majority of my movie watching these days is random things that have been recommended by Netflix. But I'm fairly open to watching just about anything.

I'll listen to just about anything other than rap. The top genres are symphonic metal and gothic metal. A few top bands: Sirenia, UnSun, Xandria, The Birthday Massacre, Indica, Within Temptation, and Nemesea.

I seemed to have skipped Shows . . . Adventure Time, Bones, Bleach, Impractical Jokers, Face Off, Family Guy, Walking Dead, Archer, Mythbusters. Think those are the ones I have setup to record these days. Feel free to drop me suggestions of things you'd think I'd enjoy, kind of how I got hooked on Bones.

Only foods I refuse to eat are seafood and veal. It's joked about that veal is my one and only moral high ground.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My daughter's future, this includes the good things and the bad things . . .

Oh, and why there isn't more Flame Princess. This bothers me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finally getting in some "me" time by staying up late. During the work week there isn't much time for this. You could say I've grown to really appreciate time to just sit back and relax. It's nice to go out on occasion, but I do appreciate a quiet evening staying in. Plus going out means having to find, and possibly pay for, a sitter, which can be tough.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a big nerd. Okay, so not very private given I talk about Ren Faire and have pictures of me dressed for it.

I can be very shy at first. But once I warm up and get comfy I've been told I'm rather entertaining, nice, and fun to be around. So looking for someone to help keep me out of my shell.
You should message me if
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You think we have something in common or I seem interesting to you. Really, everyone is welcomed to send me messages, even if it's just to find someone to talk with. Gamer girls definitely should contact me. In the least we could discuss various games.

Just so you know, it'll probably be at least 6 months before you'd get to meet the little one. I want to keep her safe and not have people in and out of her life. I need to really make sure you'll be good for her and me.