QueSeraSera81
34 Lake Mary, FL
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My self-summary
Single mom, sharing custody of my silly 7-year-old daughter. I'm on great terms with my ex, as we are determined to be successful co-parents, so no drama there.

Ideally, I'd love to find a "soul mate" (rolls eyes), but am happy meeting new people in my pursuit.

I'd love to travel--am yearning for it, in fact--but really have not have not had much opportunity. But I'm hoping to change that soon.

I'm an open-minded, free-thinking atheist

I <3 beards.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising a kid and a crazy dog. Making sure they don't kill each other.

Writing and editing policies and procedures for my day job. Climbing the corporate ladder.

Making the best of things.

Trying to exercise more and eat better. I could really use a motivational buddy to share healthy recipes and exercise with!
I’m really good at
Cuddling like no one's business. Listening. Finding grammatical errors in your profile. Staying positive in negative situations. Engaging in open and honest communication. Saying inappropriate things. Looking sweet and innocent. Napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
Who's that tall, curvy, redhead?

I've been told that people notice my smile first. Maybe my lips, height, or my hair next.

I'm a big girl--tall, curvy, full-figured, chubby, thick, bootylicious--whatever you want to call it...If you have a problem with that, I am not the girl for you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav shows: Game of Thrones, Dexter, True Blood, Breaking Bad, Face/Off, Mad Men, Revenge, Survivor, Walking Dead, The Killing

Other loves: festivals, going to the movies, seeing live music, going out to dinner, going to the theatre, watching MMA, exploring new places, etc. I'm up for just about anything.
The six things I could never do without
Flip flops
Insulated water bottle
Wifi
A cuddle partner (be it the two- or four-legged type)
GPS
Naps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where are all the tall, sexy, smart, attractive men who like curvy girls?
On a typical Friday night I am
With kid--out to dinner and then cuddling on the couch while watching a movie.
Sans kid--hanging with friends or family, on a date, seeing a movie, cuddling with my puppy. Not all at once, mind you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Turn ons: big hands, big brains, big beards :)
You should message me if
--You consider yourself an intelligent person who can hold a deep conversation and knows the difference between there/their/they're.
--You don't take yourself too seriously (This and the previous can really exist together, I swear).
--You have more to say in an initial email that just "hello" or "your sexy." Yes, I'm serious about this one. Too many people using the wrong form of your in a two-word introductory email. Does this make me a snob? Maybe. But holy crap, it's getting old.
--You support (or at least don't oppose) gay marriage/rights. It's a subject near and dear to my heart, so this is a deal-breaker for me.
--You refrain from wearing "dad/mom jeans" ;)
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