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55 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24, 2008
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Eclectic is probably the best one word description of me. I am comfortable with who and what I am. I'm neither interested in changing you or being changed by you. A really good discussion is the very best of times. I like board games if I play with someone who does not play as if life as we know it will end if s/he loses. For me the fun is in the strategy and creation aspects of a game. In Settlers of Catan I just want to build my society. Puzzles are even better because they are cooperative. I aproach life most often as an observer. That's a taste of the quiet side of me.

There is also the part where I wear unusual clothing and create art for art's sake. Many people in the Pagan comunity know me or of me. I am an "out" Pagan. Though I lean to the left I don't like political issues being sent to me with no substanciating evidence; I am not a "knee jerk" anything. I would love to find someone who I could be completely comfortable with in any situation.

I don't need to be with someone who always agrees with me, just someone who respects my viewpoint.

I am insatiably curious, intense, and ardent
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an artist, a Mom, a Pagan and a gamer . The precedence of those aspects shift according to the situation. All are integral and indelible. I am in the embryotic stages of a business based on my art, have 2 incredible daughters 26 and 18 years old, am an "elder" in the Pagan community, and I play D&D with a group (2 DMs) that has more women than men(believe it or not). My art is almost always 3 dimensional. Sculptures made of ceramic clay are the most common pieces. I also make quite a bit of jewelry and am in the process of learning how to solder semi-precious metals and set stones (from my son-in-law). I don't think it is possible to have better offspring (I can't call them children - they are young women) and my son-in-law is just as wonderful. I am honored to have been the conduit through which these 2 spirits returned to the Earth. I couldn't be happier about the relationship between my daughter and her husband and I like him as a person very much. I stepped out of solitary practice when my children were young. I am very glad they were raised Pagan for a number of reasons. The following are generalizations which none the less show strong tendencies of behavior which create the boundaries of our community. Messages about body image in the greater U.S. society are very hard on girls. Pagan culture sees the body very differently. The oldest known figures of goddesses are in many shapes. One thing they have in common is that they are not anorexic. They have curves and are often depicted pregnant. Nudity is seen differently as well. Being unclothed in the Pagan community is not an invitation to sex. It is considered natural so all the shock in the U.S. society is diminished. Children are cherished and respected as individuals. I believe that "magik" is a product of focus, intent, and belief, that the Earth is a living being of which we are a part which in turn is a part of the living Universe. All the tools and rituals are used to enhance focus. I have been gaming for a few years. I came to it much later than most gamers but I make up for that in enthusiasm. I started playing fighters because they are the easiest and now play a male human cleric and a half-elf fighter. I have also played a witch :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sculpting, sculpture especially women and dragons, designing and creating jewelry, goth clothing, being a Mom - loving and repecting my children and teaching them to think for themselves, artistic tecniques, Mine Sweeper LOL, getting close to really good at leather working, creating clothes from scratch
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me. One friend of mine said my hair. My intensity is up there in the list.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Mercedes Lackey's Valdemar series and The Omnivore's Dilemma music - U2, Anita Baker, Soul in general movies - Brokeback Mountain, Princess Bride, Rocky Horror Picture Show Action/Romance foods - Brocolli (believe it or not), apples, ice cream, cookies, white or basmati rice, steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children, art supplies and equipment, the twin cities' Pagan community, my friends, laughter
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
meeting my spiritual partner, watching her cook dinner, deciding if we want/need to do any spiritual work, talking a lot
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spend too much time on this computer
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–96
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you want an indepth discussion - please tell me that is why you contacted me

you have a good joke to tell me (I do not consider jokes that are at the expense of anyone a good joke)

Something interesting is happening to you

you are Pagan and want to meet others - please tell me that is why you contacted me

You should not message me if: You are looking for a Significant Other who is either Christian or willing to move away from the Twin Cities (Minneapolis/St. Paul) You want to convert me to your religion! I have no need to be saved, I am not in crisis, drowning... You live far away and you want anything other than being epals

Please let me know the level of relationship you are interested in when you contact me. I will assume you want to be epals if you live more than 50 miles from me.