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35 F Ely, UK

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:00pm
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Intelligent articulate woman with good conversational skills, an absolutely stupid sense of humour and a caring nurturing side.
I'm looking for an intelligent man that can hold his own in a debate with me. I'm passionate about learning so if you can teach me new things I will be very interested. I find clever men highly attractive.
I am NOT looking for casual sex so don't waste my time and yours messaging me if that's what you're after. I cannot indulge in a long distance relationship, I like attention so unless you're able to see me on a regular basis please refrain from sending me a message.
Also I am a big girl so if that isn't your cup of tea please don't boil your kettle.
What I’m doing with my life
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Stuff and thingamejigs
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, telling stupid jokes, having a good discussion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think that's pretty obvious isn't it? It's my eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love books and started reading novels at an early age. I enjoy reading novels by James Herbert, H.P Lovecraft, Terry Pratchett, John Connolley, P.D James, Val Mcdermid, Colin Dexter, early Stephen King, Tolkien and loads more. I have three crammed full book shelves, cupboards and drawers full of books. I'm a voracious reader.

Film wise I enjoy horror the most. Not blood and gore but suspense filled films. I won't list them all but think zombies and you're on the right track.

Music wise I enjoy goth, some metal, 80's pop, soul, opera, classical.
I can't abide rave, dubstep etc.

I don't watch many tv programmes but when I do it'll be a documentary or factual, I did really really enjoy The Returned though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, clothes, soap, make up and money. It does say things not people or attributes so I am not being shallow.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things that are worth thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually watching a film, listening to music, reading a book or playing a game.

I won't tell you what I do on Saturday nights, that's far too personal :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't often paint my toe nails.
Travelling on buses makes me feel sick and I really want a pet frog.
You should message me if
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You're male 40+
Ginger is a plus.
Ooh or if you have a beard, I like beards.