How can one summarize themselves?

Maybe I should just tell you things I like.
- I love museums.
- I enjoy examining my thoughts/ideas and how they intertwine with my emotions. (Example: how my pro-choiceness makes it upsetting to allow myself to feel compassion and have agreement with the thoughts and ideas of anti-choice people.)
- I love human/non-human animal connections.
- I love listening to people to hear the things they didn't say, exactly.
- I love running long distances.
- I love the outdoors.
- I love being part of noble missions that make the world better, especially for people whose lives are needing kindness. Kindness is my habit and general approach to life. I've tried other approaches, and they suck (in my
opinion).

And it seems I figured out how to sum myself up.

Seeking and creating happiness.

I am looking for people to go road running, trail running, climbing, slack lining, or do yoga with. Also we could go camping, backpacking, hiking, dancing, or on a mission to accomplish something, like pull weeds and plant flowers on ugly public land. We could go to a talk on a subject we know a little or a lot about. Or we could go book shopping or museum absorbing.

As much a I truly enjoy sex, I prefer have it with people I consider friends. I do not believe that the people that we sex up are "more than friends" (especially when they so often are sent away at some point). There are only Friends or "less than friends". I am not looking for less than Friends.

I am currently seeing one person, and reserving a lot of time for myself.

Knowing that it's not about me. Saying what I want. Being honest. Training my bird. Finding the g-spot. Cuddling and hugging. Taking care of plants. Poop jokes. Acknowledging my responsibility. Loving people and telling them so. Being happy when my lover gets laid.

That I'm smiling at them. They sometimes get confused by it and ask if they know me. Why would I smile at them like that? What a weirdo.

Books: I like to learn from books or at least get my brain churning.

Movies/TV: I only use them when they are practical, like for background noise, to learn something, or to entertain sick people.

Music: Yes. Happy noises, please.

Food: Vegan or vegetarian, usually. I try to eat so that minimal harm is done to me, other animals, or our planet.

I don't wanna go without knowing that joy is a choice and having the will to choose it. Giving attention and sometimes more to the homeless people I pass. My bird and my human friends. A great work environment. Nature. Exercise/physical activity.

Today:
How do people do nothing to help the homeless? They may think they have no money to give, and I understand that to be a(n unlikely) possibility, but how can they be all out of eye contact, all out of smiles, all out of time to volunteer or to listen, or willingness to recognize individual humanity? No need to give everything, but no reason to give nothing, right? Don't answer that.

Not accepting invites to go great places with friends, at home singing to my bird while I do, make or build something great.

I'm willing to admit everything.

I've worked in porn, I've been homeless, I've slept with more people than I can recall. I've had lots of therapy. I've seen too much violence. I'm open to people of any gender/sex or lack of gender/sex. I'm poly and don't want do date monogamous people. My ideal number of partners is probably 2. I have herpes and believe you shouldn't count me out for that. I have a Fetlife profile. I know my peers are all "fat positive", but I'm not. I love all people, but I would encourage anyone to maintain a healthy weight. My bird might poop on you.

Also, it probably says I "reply selectively" because I do just ignore messages like "hi" and "I have a hotel room. Let's have sex tonight". Seriously? Don't bother writing me like that. My inbox is not a trash receptacle. Picture my mean-face: I'm wearing it on this subject.

-You live near me.
-Are poly or are looking for a friend.
-You wanna go do something fun with me.
-You don't need alcohol to be social.
-You're hilarious.