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24 Durham, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 8
Asian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like nice, interesting people (especially grad students!), reading, being in bed during a thunderstorm, etc. This is difficult.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying all the time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
taking standardized tests, listening, playing sonatas, multiplying by nine, making new friends, wandering around, becoming passably good at various instruments, and having fun doing nothing in particular.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are my racial ambiguity and apparently my larger-than-normal eyes. After a while they notice that my wrists are absurdly small and fixate on that for about half an hour.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Nabokov, Murakami, Marquez, Austen, The Phantom Tollbooth
A Man for All Seasons, The Princess Bride, True Grit
Community, 30 Rock, Broad City
The Mountain Goats
Chocolate and cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New books.
Old books.
A nice pen.
A journal.
A camera.
Tons of blankets, now that winter's coming.
Obviously I could actually do without all of these things if I had to. I really don't like answering this one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. Also, how to balance good writing with what actually gets published. I want to write a poem that is, in essence, my soul spread out in the sun, or a book with sentences that sing. So I think about that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
exploring the restaurants and/or bars in Durham with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is... I don't know. I usually know right away when I meet someone if they're going to be a good friend or a waste of time. I don't really have middle ground.
You should message me if
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you're a reasonably fun, intelligent, attractive person and you want to. I'm not kidding about this. Don't send me a message and say, "Oh, I know I'm not very smart/attractive but I thought I'd send this anyway." Why would I think you're those things if you don't think you are?
Take your age. Divide it in half. Add seven. If that number is higher than 22, you should be messaging someone your own age.