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QuestorTBJ

56 M Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
May 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Management
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Good guy with a big heart looking for a happy, positive, creative(?) woman with a captivating smile. You have your own style and you're your own person. Bonus points for unique, alluring, smart, sensual, and funny women.

I'm no comedian, but if we click, it will be a primary job for me to make you laugh and smile.

OK, two minute drill: Grew up in CT (hour by train
to NYC). More New England than New York though. School in PA, lived in CA (twice) and currently on second round in MN. Traveled most of the U.S. extensively for work in the past. Been to Ireland, England, Italy a couple of times? Germany several times (oh, and Paris once, briefly).

I'm big on individual uniqueness; words; humor (quirky and a little good-natured sarcasm); culture, cuisine; spirituality (Buddhism & mindfulness meditation hold an appeal), raised Catholic; photography; the stars, birds, music, . . . I'm a
wordy introvert (INTP or INFP, take your pick).

I've also become an unlikely Dr. Doolittle with two cats, a dog, and a bird. Got fish?

Love any ocean - warm & sunny or rugged & remote (or any lake you can't see across :-)

I'm interested in beautiful women (inside and out); youthful exuberance (or attitude); sparkling eyes, and most of all, stop-me-dead-in-my-tracks captivating smiles (slightly crooked grins and mischievous smirks are good too)!

I can hold a conversation with most anyone, and I believe you can learn something from everyone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking it all in; trying to simply focus on the present moment -- getting every last bit of joy from it -- not thinking about the past, or worrying (too much) about the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing humor, irony, beauty, . . . in every day situations and events.

Also, I can cook! I sometimes misplace my mise en place. When that happens, it can get pretty interesting/entertaining. I have cooked a lot of different cuisines - Italian probably a "specialty".
Re-learning some things to cook more healthful meals. :-/
I CAN cook the best burger and fries you've ever had - guaranteed!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a better sense of humor than you might guess from my photo. Working on some more pics. I thought men were supposed to age better than women? That paradigm has clearly shifted.
P.S. - I'm down 15 lbs. from photo. Just sayin'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music? Old school, The Who. Modern era, U2. Current favorites, alternative indie rock (surprise)! Frightened Rabbit, Death Cab For Cutie, Imagine Dragons, Jack's Mannequin, New Pornographers, Snow Patrol, The Joy Formidable, Churches, . . . maybe you saw me at a show? Yeah, I was the old guy! Lot's of good music out there these days ~
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind (head & heart), nature, music, red wine, laughter, passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the Universe; the uniqueness of individuals; women with pretty eyes and captivating smiles; and if the cats will ever trust that on each of their plates, I've given them the same type and amount of food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the dog park; or running (just stated up again - trying to convince my knees it will all be O.K.); or winding down from the week/gearing-up for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends on who I'm admitting it to. Since I don't know you and can't see you, I stayin' mum for now.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 43–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like interesting guys with big hearts, good manners, passion, humor, and integrity.