Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'll treat a woman like a queen and accept her flaws, but I want
some respect and courtesy. If you're a self-centered bitch towards
me, I'll lose interest, no matter how hot you are. Not all, but too
many women from my generation have no sense of manners or common
courtesy, and frankly, it's getting old.
I have worked a variety of jobs - white collar and blue collar. I
have done well at anything I put my mind to, but always stayed
humble and grounded. I've done a lot of traveling and
seen/experienced a lot. I believe in being responsible but also not
be scared to try things and live life to the fullest. There's too
much to discuss in a few sentences, so if you'd like to hear more,
go ahead and ask!
What I’m doing with my life
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I bartend. Love the job and I have great guests and co-workers.
Eventually I'll pursue management, but for the moment, my situation
and my income suits my needs. I love helping people in numerous
ways, whether it's helping them relax after a long day at work, or
assisting the less fortunate at shelters or on the streets. I like
to keep active at my job and enjoy a different challenge or
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Striking up conversations with people, playing basketball, playing
darts, listening and remembering places, faces, directions, and
what people say or do. I have a knack for making people feel
better, giving them guidance (as long as they're willing to
listen), and making babies smile! I love to sing, although how I
sound is a matter of opinion! (I think I do fairly well)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am on the shorter side, but I'm feisty, tough, and accomplish
what needs to be done. I get complimented on my smile a lot. My
wacky sense of humor is noticed right away by some people, but for
others it might take a little time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"Tuesdays With Morrie" was one of the most impactful books I ever
read, and "Angela's Ashes" was a great book as well. Regarding
movies, I like a lot of the older films (mid-90s and earlier),
enjoy a lot of the Alfred Hitchcock movies, along with the Rocky
movies. I've recently gotten into NCIS, and also like re-runs of
Everybody Loves Raymond, Family Guy, and a little bit of Seinfeld.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pro sports, music, sunshine, coffee, good food, and last but not
least, having God in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My mind is always thinking of so many things, in no particular
order! Some of them are funny, others are serious, and others can
be very deep. It leads to some interesting conversations!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working, I will usually be having a few drinks with
friends. Sometimes I'll stay in and relax, but if friends are
available to hang, I'd rather be with them.
You should message me if
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You're not going to bullshit me or play games with my heart. I'm
tired of not getting appreciated or treated with courtesy by these
women who say they want "a good man". Give respect = get respect. I
start a new page with everyone new I meet and try to give them the
benefit of the doubt. I'm not someone who carries over bad feelings
from a previous relationship and takes them out onto a new woman;
that's not fair to her, because the new woman hasn't done anything
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