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54 M Milan, Italy

My Details

Last Online
Feb 23
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes cats
English, Italian

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My self-summary
WARNING! I'm Married.
Thanks to some problem with this site, It says I'm "Available".
Which is true.
But legally, I'm Married.
It won't let me "Save" the above that way though.
Stupid site.
(Now to continue...)

About me:
I am highly introspect but trying to learn to be less so.
I'm very observant of others and yet I TRY not to judge.
(I often fail at this though, without even noticing)
I have been told (and I tend to agree) that I have a very quick wit. Having said that, sometimes it seems as though it takes me a long time to fully process information.
Sometimes I think about this...
But not that often.
What I’m doing with my life
You know... The usual...
Creating expectations, acting on them and then managing the outcomes.
I’m really good at
Looking at things.
Kissing women that I'm attracted to.
Deconstructing concepts to their elements.
Deciding to let others decide.
Critiquing art.
Being pseudo intellectual.
Disliking people who THINK they are "Intellectual".
Examining trends.
Explaining trends.
Enjoying trends
Ridiculing trends.
Enjoying pop culture.
Not enjoying pop culture.
Hating what most people see as avant-garde...
Not because it's bad, but because it's NOT avant-garde.
Not hiding my emotions.
Being the life of the party.
Being really quiet.
Blending in.
Standing out.
Not acting my age.
Acting much older than I am.
Not knowing...
Etc, etc, etc...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The list is too long and It's not fair to list some things and not others. I am a bit of a music snob. I like what I like and I know why. Whether it's for emotional, intellectual, rhythmic, compositional or historical reasons, or any combination of the aforementioned reasons, including but not limited to:
" Duh, I dunno! I just like it!".

But I can say that if we are out on a date or with friends and a 70's DISCO song comes on, If you are the type of person who screams loudly and with abandon throws your arms up into the air and starts pawing at me and trying to drag me out into the middle of the dance floor of some place that I probably already hate being at because they are PLAYING that very popular 70's DISCO song (i.e. YMCA, or "Lady Marmalade" by Labelle), then we are NOT a well suited match.
"Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?"
No... But thanks for asking.
(Likewise with any song sung by Michael Jackson AFTER his 9th birthday)
The six things I could never do without
Many people take this question literally. That's not really helping. I know you can't live without air, food and water. On the other hand I keep thinking of something to write here but every time I think of something, I then think, "Well noooo... I could probably get by without that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about


The inherent art verses the useability in all things.

How it is that some people can be so completely oblivious to what's going on around them. Especially while driving.

Saving money for my daughter's college education.
How the telephone and computer and Disney channel may be affecting her and what, if anything, I can do about it.
Whether the universe is really just a scaled up replica of out brains. (Big brains have little brains that live so deep inside them. and little brains have littler brains, and on ad infinitum...)

How to not think about things...
I’m looking for
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