Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


37 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:08pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is my fetish profile. I'm a straight male who sometimes enjoys practicing what's known as erotic hypnosis.

This is what it sounds like: the practictioner puts someone into a trance and gives them erotic commands: usually things start with orgasm-play, intense or prolonged orgasms; at times I've also done a lot of freeze-play (freezing the girl's body in place) and some identity-play (changing details of the girl's identity, giving her a new one).

It's all up to the imagination, really.

If this sounds intriguing, please do message me. Please do NOT message with a one liner: "oh, that's interesting", "tell me more" or "what??" That's the equivalent of the guy who messages you with "sup" or "ur hot"; you hate it when you get it, right? So don't give it out. Tell me a bit about you and why this is a turn-on (or why you're curious).

If you ARE curious but have no clue, just YouTube the phrase.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
All kinds of things. I'm a passionate person and committed to my ambitions; this is just a fishing line cast out in the OKC-whirlpool to see what might come back to me.

As an erotic hypnosis professional put it recently: there are three stages of mastery to EH. Curiosity, calibration and fanaticism. You may, therefore, rate me as a curious player who sometimes takes great pleasure in the calibration of EH. While I do lust for fanaticism, I have rarely had the chance to go that deep.

Will you be the person I invite into that realm? How surprised would you be to find that you can go that deep?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sensual arousement. I've done it a thousand times, at least.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, actually. That's right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll tell you that none of them are anything in particular to do with erotica; I'm not a lifestyler and would be quite pleased if Fetlife dropped off the face of the Earth tomorrow; it's an ugly site, all things considered.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All the vowels, sister; *all* the vowels.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what lies between lust and intimacy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Is this question a turn-on for *anyone*? They could easily replace it with something from the character quizzes, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You're looking at it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You need to *want* to meet in person: not looking for a ton of messaging. Step one is seeing whether we click as people; that's critical, because it's all based on rapport. Then things get more interesting.

As for women outside of the NYC area: in the past I've gotten messages from many of you. I am willing to engage in phone play, which is where most of my experience lies, and if you are curious about trance, I can certainly take you there over the phone -- it's easy -- but I will state that I probably will not engage in phone play more than once or twice unless I feel the desire to.

Add a photo to:

Stay fresh with Instagram

Are you sure you want to delete this album?

Where's your photo?

Drop it like it’s hot

Photos must be at least 400 x 400px
Edit thumbnail
Add a caption

You look fantastic!