I know what I'm doing and where I'm going, but I'm trying to pack that with as much laughter and good times as I can fit. I'm not looking for someone exactly like me, but if you're still figuring out what you want, this is the wrong tree to bark up. I'm turned on by good-hearted ambition (kindness and ambition are not mutually exclusive).
*Chicago city limits only, please
I'm an outdoor person, plant and dog lover, and a voracious learner. I prefer to be around enthusiastic people. If smiling bothers you, I'm not your girl. I'm packed and ready to go camping at any moment.
I talk to strangers.
I don't believe in "no regrets" - if you don't have regrets you haven't learned a d*mn thing.
I was enamored of the jungle in Laos, but I fell in love with the jungle when I volunteered at an orphanage and school in Guatemala. The corn was taller by the afternoon, the bugs were giant, the air was thick.
I'm serious about social justice and race equity.
If you're the asshole who reported me for having a photo of my dog in my profile, don't message me; and screw you.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a year in to my dream job (yessssss!). The dream brings lawyers (read: me) and doctors together to work on removing barriers to health for kids growing up in poverty. I can't believe I get to do this everyday; I'm in exactly the right place. Pinching myself is not working.
I majored in English and African/Black Diaspora studies.
I danced professionally (classical ballet), and have been teaching ballet for 13 years, and I teach once a week now that I've got the real job locked down.
I'm looking for someone I can have serious conversations with, followed by equal amounts of seriously silly.
I’m really good at
Sandwich making (it's all about ratio and texture), encouraging people and being empathetic, debating, and dropping cliches (a tendency I hate and my friends seem to like). Also, when I was in seventh grade I got the highest score in the state for analogies. I still like to trot that one out. My mom says it's when she knew I should be a lawyer, but she didn't share that with me. WTF, mom?
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I smile easily, blush often, and have great big eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm into food - I like the idea of nourishing ourselves together and the joy it brings. I eat everything and I like to cook. I participated in a pig slaughter and am freaked out when people eat meat but don't want to be reminded that it was an animal first. That's way more inappropriate dinner table behavior than talking about slaughters.
When I go out to eat I like it to be food I wouldn't be able to put together at home.
This list is constantly changing but Tom Robbins is always on my authors list. David Mitchell (Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet over Cloud Atlas), Alice Walker, Barbara Kingsolver is my guilty pleasure for lazily enjoying some fiction.
I watch a lot of documentaries; I like justifying laziness and lounging with learning and discovery! I'm a sucker for awful-bad awesome movies: The Three Amigos is in my disc drive right now.
My musical taste tends to be fairly old school and international with some current "indie" artists mixed in. I listen to a ridiculous amount of Leo Kottke, John Fahey and the like during work, which a couple years ago morphed into a lot of Kora music (African gourd thumb-plucking harp-like instrument). I need some new music now that I'm re-entering the non-school world of the living. I still wake up amazed that I can enjoy a whole weekend and not have 30 hours of work ahead of me.
The six things I could never do without
I'm really thinking about this one...
1. I've gone without clean water for a couple days in the jungle. I
got a raging eye infection and couldn't see out of my right eye for
a month so clean water is definitely up there.
2. Candles. I can put up with not having electricity, but there are
so many hours of the day that are dark!
3. Luna the dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the next meal and the next restaurant, how much fun Chicago is in the summer, when the next camping trip can happen. I spend a lot of time talking, reasoning, story-telling; championing equity; being goofy.
On a typical Friday night I am
making a tremendous Old Fashioned, taking the pooch on a long walk, and having a good meal; or happy hour and none of that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have really awful taste in movies, but I don't usually impose it
upon others. It's more of a private hangover habit.
You should message me if
you're an intelligent guy who I can also be a goofball with. You
don't have to like the things I like, just be willing to hear about
them. You should message me if you consider yourself a kind person.