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38 Wellington, New Zealand Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:47pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly other
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
none of these things define me, but they start to paint a picture...
i bike everywhere and fix things with duct tape.
my favourite purchase last year was a splitboard.
i sleep with the curtains open, and i like wild places and surrounding myself with colour.
i generally see the best in people.
i miss the sunshine in winter.
i used to study to travel, now i travel for balance.
i'm a googler, not a rememberer.
i'm very loyal.
i'm bad with heights but i love the mountains.
i'm in touch with my family every day.
i like to sit on the porch and listen to the wind and the waves.
this year i will learn to surf and to play guitar - properly! and realign my gait so I can run as much as I want. and maybe learn how to code.
sometimes i carry a mini-kite in my handbag.
i grew up in the prairies but i'm a south island girl now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm feeling my way along really.
i love learning, and so quite often get caught up in challenges and new experiences.
i'm considering retraining since my job doesn't tick all the boxes.
i'm am rediscovering how much fun it is to have lots of energy after a flat patch last year.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
procrastinating. appreciating plants and clouds. finding out what i need to know. making and cleaning up huge messes in the kitchen. finding solutions. doing sports badly with enthusiasm - except snowboarding and tramping, I'm actually good at those. understanding what people mean even when they can't say it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile, when i'm smiling.
my enthusiasm (or trepidation), if i'm doing something outside of work. actually i'm sure they notice pretty much whatever i'm feeling, since i'm a bit of an open book.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i use books and movies to use to escape, so i prefer fantasy. often only read serious books when i'm on holiday.
i don't have a tv so only watch shows sometimes and then usually only on a recommendation.
my favourite foods changes with the day/time/weather/mood.
i enjoy most music. i really like live music, but often forget to go.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
connections, the facts, wonder, wild places, family, autonomy, shared dinners :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the 'why' of things, how they work, and often how to make them better.
i often move to think, and so sometimes can get lost in enjoying the experience of whatever it is i'm doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in transit for the weekend adventure, out with friends, or home either with the flatties on the porch or curled up vegging out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i find it easier to get know people when we are doing something together, rather than sitting.
You should message me if
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you appreciate genuine connections. you like to do things with your time and to try new things.