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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 6, 2012
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey all, so I'm recently separated, and hoping to find someone interested in hanging out in a non-serious way. Some fun people. Some cool (read: cool in a geeky way ;), good people. I'm not single right now, but I'm always open to meeting new and interesting people! Drop me a line, and let's get to know each other okay? Oh.. yeah. About me!

Um, well I've got a good job, I like to travel and I like adventure. I like getting out there and getting active and dirty (hiking, white water rafting, camping), but I like curling up with a good book/movie (George R.R. Martin, Terry Goodkind, Usual Suspects,The Game) just as much. I like trying new things in all aspects of my life, but I'm a dedicated person. Cooking is a hobby of mine that I think deserves a mention (everyone likes a guy who can cook right?).

My Myers-Briggs personality type is ISFP. Check out to learn more about an ISFP in a relationship. It's fairly accurate.

Anyway, if you want to know more, let me know. I'm an easy-going guy and always have a ready ear for you. Hope to hear from you soon!

I am curious, dedicated, and romantic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hm, well right now I'm a network admin for the government, but mostly because I'm just good with computers. Always have been. But I'm pretty tired of dealing with them. I'm taking classes to get my degree at Strayer, and once I graduate I hope to pursue a Masters degree in psychology and maybe take up counseling.

In my personal life, I'm just trying to take it day by day and enjoy what life chooses to give me and what I can reach out and take.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, back rubs, cooking, computers, figuring out problems, puppy dog eyes, making people smile, researching (I can find just about anything, test me), spelling, scrabble
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm.. I'd guess my puppy dog eyes (yes, they've actually been described as such) and/or my 'quirky' smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lessee.. in no particular order..

(a) books ......(1) Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind ......(2) A Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin ......(3) anything by Peter David ......(4) Macroscope by Piers Anthony

(b) movies ......(1) Court Jester ......(2) 12 Monkeys ......(3) Usual Suspects ......(4) The Game ......(5) Neverending Story ......(6) Dark Crystal

(c) music ......(1) Linkin Park ......(2) Barenaked Ladies ......(3) Evanescence ......(4) Josh Groban ......(5) Matchbox 20 ......(6) Musicals (Rent, Les Miserables, Phantom of the Opera)

(d) foods ......(1) Homemade food ......(2) Pineapple upside-down cake ......(3) A medium-rare steak ......(4) Italian food ......(5) Vietnamese food

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, family, cuddles, love, good food, and sex. Okay, I could probably do without that last one, but I mean who'd want to? ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Barstards! They changed this! Like it makes a lot of sense for me to spend a lot of time thinking about being in Brad Pitt's body! Hmph and harrumph!

Okay, what do I actually spend any amount of time thinking about? Wondering what's coming up next I suppose. I spend a lot of time thinking about the future. I try not to spend too much time reflecting on the past, but that sneaks up on me on occasion. I'm what one might call a 'planner'. So I like to think about the curveballs life might have in store for me. That way I'm not caught off-guard. More often then not, I'm still flat-footed when it happens, but you do what you can. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anything from out drinking with my buddies, to going with friends to the theatre, to hanging out with my family, to playing games with my gamer buds, to staying at home with a rental video
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I occasionally.. get something stuck in my eye during the sappy moments of movies.
You should message me if
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You're reading this right now. Oh hell, why not? You don't have anything better to do, do ya? ;)