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39 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:53am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Who, me? Eh. I've never really been comfortable talking about myself, or being in the spotlight, so this is a bit difficult.

I'm in my late thirties, though most people who meet me tend to think I'm reasonably younger. I think it's the boots- I grew up in the goth/industrial/punk scene. It still shows, though I'm mostly pretty distanced from all that.

I'm a professional chef- I've been doing it for twenty years or so, and people tell me I'm pretty good at it, so there's that. Other than that, I'm pretty much a big geek. I read a lot, play games, work on random projects (related to all of the above), generally enjoy life.
What I’m doing with my life
I don't know. Living, I guess.

I don't mean to paint myself as a slacker type or anything, though perhaps I could be described that way depending on your point of view. I work hard, at semi-creative jobs (like I said, professional chef) that I devote myself to wholly. I have lots of creative hobbies that I fill my spare time with- desktop publishing, graphic design, bookbinding.

But I also spend my fair share of time reading, playing games (video and board), hanging out with friends.

Someday I'll probably open my own business of some sort, but not yet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I tend to dress... eccentrically by the standards of most people. The last several years it's tended toward suits, waistcoats, suspenders, boots and the like. I don't really do it to stand out, per se, but I also don't really care if I do. Shrug.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All of this stuff, you really don't want to get me started- I could go on for days. But here's a few:

What I can see at a glance at my bookshelf from the couch: Italo Calvino, Jorge Luis Borges, Raymond Chandler, Dashiel Hammett, Richard K. Morgan, Scott Lynch, Gene Wolfe, H.P. Lovecraft, Homer, Jeff Noon, Salman Rushdie, etc. I think (hope?) you get the point.

Movies and TV? Mostly sci-fi, horror, etc.- genre stuff. I do think I'm reasonably discriminating, though. While I do watch my fair share of schlock (usually *because* it's schlock, heh), I do try to look for the more interesting end of the spectrum.

Food? What can I say- I'm a chef. I won't try to say I love it all, but most of my life revolves around it all the time. I do have a special love of Spanish cuisine and flavors, though. And the south of France. And, and, and. Like I said, don't get me started.
The six things I could never do without
Good food and a kitchen to cook it in.
Good books.
Good boardgames.
Good friends to share it all with.

What, that's not six? Ok, fine, one more. A motorcycle. I've pretty much lived my whole life on them, and I can't imagine ever stopping. Doesn't have to be anything special or fancy, but yeah.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creativity. Well-written prose (or poetry). Well-balanced flavors. Well-tuned game mechanics.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating