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35 M Memphis, TN

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:48pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm unusual. I'm pragmatic. I know whether I like someone fairly quickly, especially after I meet them in person. I love technology, movies, and old maps. I read, I'm funny, and I'm very irreverent.

I love my job, I love my friends, and I'm pretty shy. I grew up in the North (well, Maryland, which is the North when you're in Memphis), so the South is consistently surprising me.

I am curious, patient, and witty.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just got a new job that's supposed to be 50-75% travel. I'm at a great point in my life for it, and I'm incredibly excited! But it's also a bit terrifying...

I keep fit, mainly by biking and failing to complete P90x. Seriously, that program is *hard*.

I'm always working toward becoming a better human by learning what my own needs are, helping my loved ones satisfy theirs, and working on discovering new ways to grow. So while I'm happy with where I am, I'm hardly going to stop.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm completely handy. Currently I'm remodeling the back of my house to transform what was apparently a 1920's murder-room into a less terror inducing utility room. This means the removal of a chimney. I can do this.

*UPDATE* chimney removed. House still standing. Msg me for proof.

Oh, and you know how sometimes tech will act right exactly when the person who is supposed to fix it shows up to take a look? Yeah, I'm That Guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height and my eyes. When you see me in person you'll agree. My eyelashes brush against my glasses. It's a curse ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmm, books would be 100 Years of Solitude, and anything by Terry Pratchett, Stephen King, Jack Gilbert, Neal Stephenson, Michael Chabon, or Brandon Sanderson. I've worked in a library, I have a library, and I regularly raid my friends' libraries. My Kindle is full to bursting.

Movies would be Stranger than Fiction, Fight Club, Lucky Number Slevin, film noir, and anything by Michael Mann. That's the tip top of the list. If you have a few weeks I can talk about the rest of them.

My favorite music is anything with really driving guitars and a catchy melody (I'm a sucker for power-pop). Classic artists like Pink Floyd and Leonard Cohen are at the top of my list too, but right now it's probably a tie between The Head and the Heart and Alt-J.

Food... I can cook like nobody's business. When I'm not cooking at home I'm thinking about Indian, Mexican, or Vietnamese. This includes times when I'm currently eating something else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My opposable thumbs, a new thing to discover, that feeling of having slept really well and not wanting to get out from under the covers, maybe lasers.

Also the sky; I need to see it every day to feel good. I don't know why. Doesn't everyone?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people happy, and how I can help my friends become happier and better people. Also what I think the world will be like in the future (cybernetics!) and lately, what cool things I can do to my house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a comedy show watching my friends perform, and if not that, then hanging out with people at my house watching movies, talking, and playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cry a little during sweet romantic movies, like Mozart and the Whale (okay, *especially* that one).
You should message me if
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You want to learn more about me, if you want someone to hang out and laugh with, or someone who will watch the movies none of your friends want to see. If you want to meet new people, if you're new to Memphis, or if you just want someone to talk to.

I would absolutely love to have something awesome come out of this experiment, and like everybody I would love to find someone who completely stuns me and makes me feel like a giddy teenager meeting his biggest crush. But I wouldn't mind also just finding a new TV buddy, or someone who likes to go biking, camping, or hiking every now and then.