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45 Seoul, South Korea Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My friends say, I have a "wide range of interests and easy going personality", am "a great conversationalist and a great listener", and a "very kind, helpful and fun person".
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been living in Korea for five years and, after lecturing at a university for three years, currently work with an NGO. So, yes, I'm idealistic.

I love to travel, to take photos, and to write articles on my journeys in Korea, several of which have been published.

At the weekends I play Squash, go hiking, meet friends, and go to concerts, exhibitions, or the movies.

It's nice to live in a place with lots of mountains all around but I would prefer to live by the sea.
I’m really good at
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dancing on my own (just started a Kizomba course and try to become better at couple dances - would you like to join?), speaking in front of groups, and putting together music mixes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Novels: Alan Pauls - The Past; Jonathan Safran Foer - Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close; Haruki Murakami - South of the Border, West of the Sun; Philip Roth - The Dying Animal; Milan Kundera - The unbearable lightness of being; Heinrich Böll - Irisches Tagebuch; Else Lasker-Schüler - Die Gedichte. Non-fiction: Malcolm Gladwell, Ken Robinson. Comics: Calvin & Hobbes.

Authors I met: Reiner Kunze (at his place - my students had translated one of his works), David Mitchell (in Hamburg - he read from "The Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet": amazing language), and Salman Rushdie (in Oxford, with snipers on the rooftop opposite of the Students' Union building, where he read from "The Ground Beneath Her Feet" - scary circumstances!).

Movies: The secret life of Walter Mitty; Before Sunrise / Sunset / Midnight; Paris after Midnight; Amélie; Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter ... and Spring; Bend it like Beckham; Il Mare; Backbeat; Dead Poets Society; The Boat; Chariots of Fire; To catch a thief; Casablanca. Comedy: Eddie Izzard.

Music: Pat Metheny, Keith Jarrett, Ralph Towner, Gregory Porter, Nina Simone, Sophie Hunger, William Fitzsimmons, Chairlift, Blumfeld, Jochen Distelmeyer, Tori Amos, Björk, David Bowie, Phillip Boa & The Voodooclub, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Beatles, Rolling Stones ... ECM label, radio eins (Berlin), Nordwest Radio, BBC ... Do you know a club in Seoul, where they play Adult Rock / Soul / Funk ... (no rap / hip hop / house / techno)? If so, please let me know!

Art: I recently went to the Leeum (but didn't have enough time, so I want to go there again) and to the Edvard Munch exhibition, which was great. Earlier this year, I saw Annie Leibovitz' photos - great stuff! In general, I find modern art more exciting than old masters.

Food: I like spicy Asian food, but also all kinds of European dishes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
German bread
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why people look for a partner near them on the world wide web. Didn't they've been searching near them offline for a while already, apparently unsuccessfully? Even if they're not prepared to leave their comfort zone, maybe their future partner would be happy to do so and move to their town ... Hence, why not look for someone located anywhere? Extraordinary things can happen to you!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out, meeting friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't care about cars, don't own one, and have no plans to buy one (as long as I have no kids). I prefer traveling by bicycle, metro, and train. I also normally don't watch TV - unless the Football World Cup is taking place ... ;-)
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