I am not in search of perfection. We all have amazing qualities and some qualities that need a little work. Life can be really hard sometimes. People get sick, lose jobs, have fallouts with co-workers, are disappointed in the outcome of things . . . stuff happens. If you usually face all of that with a healthy mixture of strength, compassion, courage, some tears, and a lot of laughter, we're probably a great match.
I love kids, and am "Aunty" to all my friends' children. I always thought I'd have at least one of my own, and haven't ruled that out yet. However, I am not "40-something desperately seeking sperm." If it happens - wonderful. But being a stepmom, adopting, or finding out kids aren't in the cards are all okay, too.