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RFJ1971

43 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:03am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Latin

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Is this the part where I talk about how I like to walk on beaches? Tap, tap, tap. Is this thing on?

Oh, hi!

I grew up in the cornfields of Indiana. After my 8th grade field trip to Chicago, I figured out the city is where it's all happening and started plotting my escape that day. Fast forward to my college graduation from Indiana University, I walked right from the ceremony to a packed U-haul truck and moved to NYC that day with no job lined up. It all turned out just fine. (I told you it would Mom!)

I'm a confident person, without arrogance, and like that quality in others as well. I like having my life experience expanded by those around me. Change is a good thing and I'm always open to new experiences and life situations. I'm adventurous and looking to add some stamps to my passport.

I enjoy the crazy fun that life can bring and always find humor where ever I go. You never know what life will give you unless you are willing to say "yes" and just live it. Just being "in the moment" is my mantra. For instance, one Saturday night, I started the night at a lecture/recital with Yo-Yo Ma and ended my evening at The Eagle for the Mr. Eagle contest. Um, didn't see that one coming, but it was a fun night for sure!

My ideal guy would ski with me in the winter, hit the beach in the summer and get in to all kinds of trouble with me at IML and Folsom in between.

Walks on the beach- check! Theatre and Art-check! Cooking- check! Reading- check! Being with friends- check!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the wild west of TV. I make Reality TV shows. It's nutty and every day is an adventure. I think it's like working in an insane asylum, but there are no Doctors or pills.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring people out really quickly and understanding what they are experiencing.

I can also twirl anything and can ride a unicycle.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually my eyes and next my direct approach and personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I like fiction and bounce to and fro from classics like Jane Austin to Michael Cunningham. Currently reading Jane Lynche's Memoir.

Movies: I lean towards arty/period movies, but I am a total sucker for the Harry Potter series. I think Jim Carry is an idiot (except in the Truman Show).

Shows: You will find me in the Theatre more likely than in a live music venue.

Music: Love classical, modern chorale, jazz, pop, rock, American songbook/standards, showtunes

Food: Love to cook and explore new food. There's not much I won't eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Things"? Hmmm. I can't think of 6 things, but...

Herring Cove Beach in Ptown
Traveling the world and discovering new places
Sense of Adventure
Art/Music that explores the human condition
Trusted Friends and Family
Sense of Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life? I'll have to think about this and come up with something snarky. Oh, maybe that's it? I'm thinking about this question...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I would rather be at home with someone special or dinner with friends. Not much a big club scene person anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a marching band geek and my ipod can prove it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a sense of adventure, established career/life and looking for a serious relationship. You like to travel and want to add some stamps to your passport. You are a gentleman in public, not so much in the bedroom. I like the bottom and top bunk (wink) and you should as well. And if you prefer the top bunk a bit more at times- well, who am I to argue. HIV neg and prefer my partner to be as well, but this is open for discussion. With PREP, it is a new world and I am learning and evolving. I am much more Dan Savage than Ward Cleaver when it comes to my views on sex and relationships. If you are looking for a very traditional guy, that's not me. Kinksters to the front of the line please.