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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I love dudes, music, and chocolate.

Self-taught, novice chocolatier. Small business consultant for entrepreneurs by day, but dream of making chocolate & playing drums in an indie rock band for a living.

Enjoy passionate sex, cuddling, distance running, drums, dancing, traveling, paganism, nature, radical politics, social justice, philosophy, cooking, holistic nutrition, vegging out, Reiki...

Am a bottom, looking to show lots of love & affection to a top who can hang with a sweet, lovable dork & appreciate a good meal, an occasional booty-shake on the dance floor, chilling-out on a lazy day just rolling around in bed and watching mindless tv.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping low-income peeps generate extra income by working with them to parlay their creativity & talents into small businesses.

Frolicking, inspiring naughtiness, following my Dharma...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing funny impersonations of my boss.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Latin-Arab heat ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here's a short list:

Music: Joy Division, New Order, Echo & the Bunnymen, Bowie, The Clash, Patti Smith, The Misfits, Black Flag, The Dead Kennedys, Shellac, Bad Religion, The Descendants, Sonic Youth, The Pixies, The Smiths, Weezer, The Screaming Females, PJ Harvey, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The Breeders, riot grrl music, Sleater-Kinney, Luscious Jackson, Cat Power, Stevie Wonder, Erykah Badu, Beastie Boyz, Public Enemy, Tribe Called Quest, The Roots, De La Soul, Digable Planets, The Fugees, OutKast, Arrested Development, James Brown, Fela Kuti, Antibalas, Sharon Jones & the Dap Kings, Celia Cruz, Hector La Voe, Willie Colon, Fania All Stars, Irakere, Grupo Niche, Tom Waits, Diamanda Galas, Robert Wood Johnson, Johnny Lee Hooker, Willie Dixon, Memphis Minnie, Maria Callas, Lee "Scratch" Perry, Edith Piaf, Chavela Vargas, Los Aterciopelados, La Caita, Gritos de Guerra, La Paquera de Jerez, Julio Jaramillo, Balkan Beat Box, Gogol Bordello, Los Fabulosos Cadillacs, Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam, Amber, Expose, Teena Marie, Jodi Watley

Movies/Shows: Ru Paul's Drag Race, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Zombieland, Kill Bill, Super Bad, Vaginal Davis, Paris is Burning, Game of Thrones, True Blood, Ghost World, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Donnie Darko, Mysterious Skin, Beetlejuice, Clueless, Pan's Labyrinth, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, The Goonies, Scream, Before Night Falls, Malcolm X, anything by John Waters, Pedro Almodovar, Todd Solondz, Greg Araki, and Tony Gatlif
Anything with blood & gore.

Books that rocked my world: Assata, Pedagogy of the Oppressed, Terrorist Assemblages, This Bridge Called My Back, The Taste of Blood, anything by Michel Foucault and Noam Chomsky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
American Apparel Briefs
My Beard
My Joy Division T-shirt
My Big, Fat, Hispanic Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Poverty, social justice, the dynamics of power, the power of love, life & death, following my gut...

Taking what I've learned working with entrepreneurs and coming up with a good business idea that doesn't destroy the world too much. (Short of a revolution, we're all relegated to making the best out of living in a Capitalist system ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stuffing my face at one of my favorite restaurants with a friend(s).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a super hero.
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