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41 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
What I’m doing with my life
Hopefully using my skills, charm and abilities to help other people live a better life.

This applies to work and everything else. Some days I'm better at it than others, but its what gets me up in the morning and helps me sleep at night.
I’m really good at
organizing people and processes and stuff - but I also make a kick-ass pumpkin cheesecake.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my height and my swarthiness - though I'm apparantly of German and Swedish decent (I think I need to do a DNA ancesty test - I'm not exactly what you would think a Swede would look like.)

If close enough, they'll notice that my eyes are the same hue as my clothes. I know, its weird...they change colors (somewhere between deep green and deep brown)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So many - just going to list some of the most recent.

Books: America Again (Colbert); 14 (Clines); Gone Girl (Flynn); The Power of Habit (Duhigg); Imagine (Lehrer); Guts (Johnston); Going Solo (Klinenberg); The Fault in Out Stars (Green)

Movies: Perks of Being a Wallflower; Skyfall (huge 007 fan); The Dark Knight Rises; Moonrise Kingdom; Prometheus; Beasts of the Southern Wild; ParaNorman; Seven Psychopaths; Warm Bodies; The Impossible
(Love going to the movies - blockbuster or independent - I'm game)

TV: American Horror Story; The Walking Dead; Girls; Veep; The Daily Show (I HEART Jon Stewart); The Colbert Report; Homeland; Sherlock

Music: NPR (okay, not music but that's what I'm usually listening to) other than that I love music that really creates something… Emotions, moods, energy - whatever feels like a good soundtrack to my life at the moment.

Podcasts: NPR, This American Life, Savage Love/Dan Savage, Wait, Wait! Don't Tell Me

Food: Anything really - I love exploring restaurants and trying new dishes. Admittedly though, I HATE green peppers and raw fish. Doesn't mean sushi is out, just means we're probably not going to be sharing a roll.
The six things I could never do without
Meditation (I'm not the quiet type…it helps)
Foz (my dog)
Apple (sad but true)
Belief (there's a story there)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to fix stuff. Not actual stuff…intangible stuff like organizations and people and processes and myself. Followed by whether or not anyone wants me to fix any of those things. Followed by me wondering if I'll make things better or worse. Fortunately, my track record is pretty good.

I think…a lot.

I like to leave things better than I found them.
On a typical Friday night I am
taking a quick nap after a long week at work…then probably meeting up with friends and doing dinner or other stuff. Tend to be more social than not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You know all those books I listed above? I didn't actually "read' any of them. I download the audio version and listen during my travels to work and such. If it helps, I never do the abridged versions.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you're adorkable:
smart, funny, kind and sexy.
(I love a cute guy in glasses)