I may appear confrontational because I love a good challenge and I don't back down from a disagreements just because it might be more convenient but I will walk away from pointless drama. I've always been the one to defend the "weak ones" in the group and look out for the underdogs. I hate to let others down. I do my best to seek harmony and peace, and to be diplomatic. I also try to be open-handed with others and tolerant and accepting. I don't have a lot of patience for those that don't use common sense or respect others, take foolish risks or lead extremely disorganized lives.
I've learned patience is important in life. There's a right time and place to do and say all things.Most times there is truly a method to my madness.I tend to be a very calculated person. The flip side is spontaneity is important in life too. Sometimes you just have to drop it all and go with the flow and take life as it comes.
I am loyal almost to a fault. Tend to be very sarcastic and witty.
The fall is my favorite time of year. I love bon fires, thunderstorms, Camping, Road trips, Long drives down country back roads, Oceans,Amusement parks, MMA, UFC, hockey, Football, Harley Davidsons..and ink. I find serenity near the mountains and oceans. I was born in Chicago Illinois. I've also lived in Fl, Ky and now in Oh.
I have three boys. They are 20, 8 and 4.
I am looking for the best of both worlds, my best friend and lover. My ride or die/Partner in crime. Ya, know I always see the "looking for drama free" .. I don't believe anybody's life has absolutely no drama. Life always throws curve balls, or drama as I call it .. it's about finding that person that wants to go through it with you. Who's your partner for the ride?"
I believe a person's eyes are the window to their soul. You can see past and present there. I am also a big believer in laughter being a huge key to a successful relationship. I want my best friend and lover all rolled into one and believe it is possible to find. I don't believe in settling in life. I want my partner in crime to go through this journey we all call life. That one person that I can feel it burning deep in my soul kinda love with and I can't wait to see every morning and cant wait to after work. I also want my partner to be a man of God and willing to walk our lives with the Lord.
People often tell me they find me inspirational and easy to talk to.
I have a natural affinity to music. I feel it is an avenue to healing, relaxing and it uplifts your soul.