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41 / M / Straight / Single

San Carlos, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a very California kinda guy....easy going with a strong back. I clean up pretty good and I messy up even better...I'm house trained and ready for a loving owner...
I'm a big kinda ruff looking guy but little kids and old women just love me...yeah I know I don't get it but I have a feeling they're pretty good judges of character.
You know, writing about important personal things is not my forte but I can tell you that making a life with someone I can be myself with is the most important thing to me. So onward...

My ideal partner must be passionate...must have a dream and purpose of her own, she must be emotionally healthy and playful and she must inspire the best in me. I imagine this woman playing cosmic jazz with me through time, as we inspire each other towards something greater! Just my silly dream...but for now coffee and and cookies... :-)

OK..ok... all joking aside I did one of those self help tests and the results are pretty much what I believe in....this is what I got;
...by the way, for all you jokey little rascals out there, the "needy" stuff is from the other website not me.

I need someone who responds to the fact that I enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, I need someone who believes and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred.. I need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love. I need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like me and will support or even participate in my personal and professional interests that feed my sense of identity and accomplishment. I need someone who is not looking to be taken care of, but rather who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and satisfying relationship. I need someone who is eager to give, collect and discuss information with me patiently versus communicate with me on superficial levels
What I’m doing with my life
Hmm...listening to the universe

No really it's not some kind of acid trip thing, it's real...
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told I have an excellent presence, whatever that means? If it's a complement I'll take it!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
the words one two three GO! .. inspire you