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57 M Benicia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 8
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am still trying to figure out why i am trying to meet anyone in this place. From what i can tell the majority of the women are apparently seeking email,chat buddies or a fairy tale prince. I was recently told that most women Are wanting to meet someone so i say,let's meet. I am an eternal optimist but i am so afraid the proverbial half full glass will break soon. I am going to give a descriptive of myself for anyone that cares. First i have an update. I have acquired enough bit coins to purchase the store. I am coming down off the shelf to take over the day to day operations. I am offering a buy something -get me free sale. I believe that once you get thru the not always appealing outside you will find a gift worth cherishing. If you are not finding the one you want with your current method of choice then perhaps it is time to reconsider another view point? This was me before my update. Picture me as an antique in a little shop in a hidden little burg along the coast. I am stuck way up on the top shelf and for some reason i am overlooked. I shout out at you telling you that while i am not the most distinctive object in the store i am one of much interest and value. The more that you know me and get used to me the more you will adore me and be happy with your purchase. I am very warm to the touch and can be soft and cuddly. I am also good at keeping myself up to date. lol So, please, the next time you are in the shop,will you stop and take a good look at me?I have so much to offer to the right one. I enjoy driving so fear not, for the right one, i will drive your way to make things happen. Rob PS i am thinking about adding old records to the store inventory and Music is the Dr of the Soul.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am living it to the fullest and doing my best to be a good person. I am experiencing newness whenever i can. I volunteer often with the homeless and less fortunate. I sing and dance in the rain tho not as well as ole Gene did.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i am good with music, caring and showing those close to me that they are important to me. i am good at traveling and finding new places to explore. i am good at boating and communicating. There is just so so much more. I am good at listening and i am a great kisser. Oh, i am also one that is good at taking it on the chin. So, if you aren't really interested, just tell me. I can take it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile and gentle yet determined approach to life. Once you take the time to know me you will see my gentle underside and i like to have my belly scratched/rubbed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy reading most everything, try all different types of movies and am very much into music. I like most kinds and am open to listening to what she likes even if it hurts my ears. Food is something i love to cook as well as going out to eat. I like to try different foods and like to cook everything or anything. One never knows where the senses will lead us. Sharing the kitchen can be a fun experience,don't you think? My favorite types of music are rock,jazz,ragtime,classical and the blues. I listen to old 40's and 50's tunes. Some of my favorite groups are Jimmy Buffett, Moody Blues, Kitaro, Beatles, Pink Floyd,Fresh Air and most blues groups. I enjoy classical,jazz and the poetry of Frank Zappa. I am a huge fan of Frank Sinatra[and most of that rat pack music] and especially the Duets compilations. I sing in the shower but i make sure the shower is going good[water saving mode of course]. I love expanding my brain with new music and ideas. I enjoy the old match game and watching Graham Norton. Oh i really get a big kick out of the Craig Ferguson Late Night Show. I love art and am doing my best to be better at painting. Thankfully i am allowed to title my pictures or you might never figure them out. Do any of you watch Who's Line Is It Anyway? It is one of the funniest shows on tv.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, red licorice, music, my pets, margaritas, and of course, Dreams. I should add water since it is looking more and more like it is going to be at a premium. While i am at it, let me add "Funky Cold Medina".
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Enjoying this wonderful life we have and walking the beach. Are men allowed to compliment a unknown woman on her perfume or appearance? How often should i message someone i have expressed interest in after making contact?Women have every right to be frightened of men but we should allow each other into the other's shell-inside the armor. We should be sharing hearts.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I will be listening to or playing music be it home or at another venue i love to dance. I can enjoy a night just cuddling and or reading a good book,playing the piano. The more i think about it, most of my Friday nights are rarely typical. I do enjoy a little place in Martinez called Armondos.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Do i read your profile? Yes i do but i have to admit this. If i see a smile that appears to be real and full of life then i am more inclined to acknowledge these before i do the nicely staged and poised smiles. The really private info is available upon request and committee approval.
You should message me if
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You find anything here of interest. I am a fun loving and good man doing all i can to enjoy life and all it has to offer. However, if you can't live without your phone and you are someone who doesn't care where they talk on it, keep on keeping on. Life is way too short.
Everything is beautiful in it's own way.
Better Days Ahead
Music is the Doctor of the Soul