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57 Benicia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am starting to think i am too nice for this place! Give me love,give me love,Give me Peace on Earth. Just don't give me crap and or grief. lol Communicate or don't -that is up to you. How about just being honest and upfront? This is such an interesting world-this internet dating. I can't seem to get the right grasp on how it is supposed to go. Are you really seeking someone new or just a remake of someone old from your better years? I am 57 and i do not look like the college stud i used to be- OK- just kidding on that part. I was never a stud other than maybe in my dreams. I am here to find someone new and start fresh. Are you open minded and willing to share ideas as well as accept others? Do you want to take a shot at enjoying life with a good guy who wants nothing more than to be happy and explore the new? If you are then i suggest you seriously give me a look. I am not your hard core intellectual who has to talk down to anyone. Sure, i have a good education but you wouldn't know it by talking to me-unless my brain cells are perfectly aligned. Oh,very important to me,you need to have a good head on your shoulders and be happy within.

Doubt thou the stars are fires;Doubt that the sun doth move;
Doubt truth to be a liar But never doubt i love. W.S.

I formerly owned the antique store where i felt overlooked on the top shelf. I have since discovered that the best things in life are sometimes hard to find. I think,and am pretty darn sure, i am a very good thing to have in one's life.

Here is what i need to add and maybe put out front. I am a single divorced retired dad. I have a son almost 11 and he is the most important aspect of my life. i know from experience that most of you women have shed the kids from the home and don't want to raise any more. I totally understand this and i wish you nothing but the best. So, to love me is to maybe accept and love my son down the road. That choice is something for you to decide later. However, my having a child doesn't not take away from the time i have to spend with a fine woman. I have plenty of support here and can get away almost any time i want to. So, fear not, i will not have the my son is sick excuse popping up very often.

I am an eternal optimist but i am so afraid the proverbial half full glass will break soon. I believe that once you get through the not so always appealing outside you will find a gift worth cherishing. If you are not finding the one you want with your current method of choice then perhaps it is time to reconsider another view point? The more that you know me and get used to me the more you will adore me and be happy that you gave me a look.. I am very warm to the touch and can be soft and cuddly. I am also good at keeping myself up to date. I enjoy driving so fear not, for the right one, i will drive your way to make things happen. Rob PS i am thinking about adding old records to the my personal inventory and Music is the Dr of the Soul.
What I’m doing with my life
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Update 10/26/14 I am just starting a training program for a half marathon along with my son. If you don't see me for a while then you will know that i didn't make it thru the training. lol I am living life to the fullest and doing my best to be a good person. I am experiencing newness whenever i can. I volunteer often with the homeless and less fortunate. I volunteer at my son's school and love the kids so much. They keep my smile even bigger than normal. I sing and dance in the rain tho not as well as ole Gene did. I try to listen and follow the words expressed by some many great artists over the years. As the Moody Blues wrote,Say It With Love.
I’m really good at
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i am good with music, caring and showing those close to me that they are important to me. i am good at traveling and finding new places to explore. i am good at boating and communicating. There is just so so much more. I am good at listening and i am a great kisser. Oh, i am also one that is good at taking it on the chin. So, if you aren't really interested, just tell me. I can take it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile and gentle yet determined approach to life. Once you take the time to know me you will see my gentle underside and i like to have my belly scratched/rubbed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy reading most everything, try all different types of movies and am very much into music. I like most kinds and am open to listening to what she likes even if it hurts my ears. Food is something i love to cook as well as going out to eat. I like to try different foods and like to cook everything or anything. One never knows where the senses will lead us. Sharing the kitchen can be a fun experience,don't you think? My favorite types of music are rock,jazz,ragtime,classical and the blues. I listen to old 40's and 50's tunes. Some of my favorite groups are Jimmy Buffett, Moody Blues, Kitaro, Beatles, Pink Floyd,Fresh Air and most blues groups. I enjoy classical,jazz and the poetry of Frank Zappa. I am a huge fan of Frank Sinatra[and most of that rat pack music] and especially the Duets compilations. I sing in the shower but i make sure the shower is going good[water saving mode of course]. I love expanding my brain with new music and ideas. I enjoy the old match game and watching Graham Norton. Oh i really get a big kick out of the Craig Ferguson Late Night Show. I love art and am doing my best to be better at painting. Thankfully i am allowed to title my pictures or you might never figure them out. Do any of you watch Who's Line Is It Anyway? It is one of the funniest shows on tv.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, red licorice, music, my pets, margaritas, and of course, Dreams. I should add water since it is looking more and more like it is going to be at a premium. While i am at it, let me add "Funky Cold Medina".
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Enjoying this wonderful life we have and walking the beach. Are men allowed to compliment a unknown woman on her perfume or appearance? How often should i message someone i have expressed interest in after making contact?Women have every right to be frightened of men but we should allow each other into the other's shell-inside the armor. We should be sharing hearts.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I will be listening to or playing music be it home or at another venue i love to dance. I can enjoy a night just cuddling and or reading a good book,playing the piano. The more i think about it, most of my Friday nights are rarely typical. I do enjoy a little place in Martinez called Armondos.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Do i read your profile? Yes i do but i have to admit this. If i see a smile that appears to be real and full of life then i am more inclined to acknowledge these before i do the nicely staged and poised smiles. The really private info is available upon request and committee approval. Also, i have incorporated Skype into my scheme. I find it easier to talk thru that while seeing the other person at the same time. It can definitely eliminate those scary face to face meetings. Can you feel me?
You should message me if
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You find anything here of interest. I am a fun loving and good man doing all i can to enjoy life and all it has to offer.
Everything is beautiful in it's own way.
Better Days Ahead
Music is the Doctor of the Soul
Say it with Love