What I’M LOOKING FOR:
I'm looking for a guy who enjoys life. I'm looking for the right
guy for my life and my children's life. I'm also looking for
friends in my life too. I would like a guy who loves to travel and
work out and etc. and do things together as a couple and as a
family. I'm looking for a guy who is truly happy within himself. I
want a guy who is ready to work as a team in a friendship
relationship and maybe more. I want a guy who can communicate well.
I want a guy who has a good personality.
HOBBIES:
I like to outdoor activities. I like to go to Movies. I like to go
for walks. I am looking for the right guy to be in my life. I'm
also looking for friends in my life too. I am sincere, kind and fun
and a caring and lovably person to be around.
Help us understand what you really want. Looking out three years
from now, what will need to happen for you to feel happy about the
progress you've made in your personal life?
Get the right guy for my life and my children's life. I'm also
looking for friends in my life too. To find the right job for my
life. To finish my college to get a degree. To buy another car. To
move more south to warmer climates. A lot more.
Turn on:
I'm looking for a guy who enjoys life. I'm looking for the right
guy for my life and my children's life. I would like a guy who
love's to travel and work out and etc. and do things together as a
couple. I'm looking for a guy who is truly happy within himself. I
want a guy who is ready to work as a team in a friendship
relationship and maybe more. I would like a man who is romantic. I
would like a man who enjoys life. I want a man who has an excellent
personality. I would want an honest guy. I want a man who can
communicate well about anything. I would like a man with the almost
the same interest as me.
Turn Offs:
I do not want a man who drinks Alcohol and do Illegal Drugs at all.
I do not want a man who plays games. I do not want a man who is
controlling person. I do not want a man who is abuse at all in all
areas. I do not want a man who is angry all the time.
Hobbies:
I like to outdoor activities. I like to go to Movies. I like to go
for walks. I like family time. I like to travel. I like to spend
time with the right guy. I like to do a lot more in my life.
On my first date:
I would like to meet the guy at a public place first and get to
know that guy that might be in my children's life and mine. I would
like to have some put in the first and the man I'm meeting to have
some put into our first date. I would like to take it slow and try
to something’s that are fun on a date. It would take some time to
get know the guy to find out if he is the right person for my
family life and mine.
The five key ingredients that can determine whether or not two
people have the “right” chemistry. The dimensions are:
Self-Confidence or the degree to which a person feels comfortable
with him or herself. People that are high in self-confidence tend
to be assertive and competent in both their private and public
relationships. People that are low in self-confidence tend to be
reticent and somewhat anxious.
Family Orientation, or the degree to which a person supports and
values the family. People that are family oriented tend to want or
already have children, are very close to their immediate relatives,
and prefer cooking at home to eating at a restaurant. People that
are not family oriented tend to be individualistic, unconventional,
and very much enjoy attending parties and social functions.
Self-Control or the extent to which a person exerts control over
various aspects of life. People that are high in self-control tend
have strong emotional reactions to things and try to regulate those
feelings by micromanaging and attending to specific details. People
that are low in self-control are usually relaxed, even-tempered,
and lenient.
Openness, or the extent to which a person is open to and dependent
upon others. People that are high in openness tend to like a wide
range of things (e.g., food, music, movies, etc.), in part because
they are concerned with pleasing other people. In contrast, people
low in openness are very independent and opinionated; they know
what they like and aren’t apt to change their opinion.
Easygoingness, or a person’s work ethic and degree of mental
flexibility. People that are high in easygoingness are very
relaxed, broadminded, and unaffected by change. In contrast, people
low in easygoingness tend be hardworking, firm, and sometimes
inflexible.
My Relationship Chemistry Test Results are:
Self-Confidence:
As someone with high self-confidence, you feel quite comfortable
interacting with other people. Indeed, you find the company of
others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. Your relaxed
demeanor in groups makes people around you comfortable too. Perhaps
because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others tend to
enjoy being around you and perceive you as socially
competent.
The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people
also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself. Although
you have several strengths, it’s likely that you also acknowledge
and accept your weaknesses. But unlike some people, you take full
responsibility for your actions—you rarely regret things you’ve
done in the past and are not embarrassed easily.
Perhaps the defining feature that sets you apart from most people
is the exceptionally high standards that you set for yourself. Your
competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide
ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very
likely that people come to you for advice and generally think of
you as someone with leader-like qualities.
Family Orientation:
As someone who is oriented to familial matters, you value the
company of family-members and domestic life. If you have children
already, you enjoy spending time with them very much and work hard
to be a good parent. If you don’t have children, you very much
desire having children in the future. And your preference for
cooking and entertaining guests at home will likely ease the
transition into parenthood.
You take pride in maintaining and cultivating a healthy family and
work hard to achieve this. This natural tendency is easily
illustrated by your preference for doing things around the house as
opposed to going out to clubs and restaurants.
What really sets you apart from people that are low in family
orientation is that you know how to manage your frustrations and
work well on your own. This means that you are well-equipped to
manage a family without letting all the work that is involved wear
you down. However, as someone with strong family values, all the
work that is involved in maintaining a tidy home and well-stocked
kitchen might occasionally make it difficult for you to finish
everything that you need to do.
Self-Control:
The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a
person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in
self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be
compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their
temptations, and your degree of self-control makes this likely to
happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where
being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where
it is necessary to be focused and careful, you might find that you
do or say things that may be inappropriate.
As someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may
find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people
and get yourself in trouble. For example, if you’re given
responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention
to detail, you may be likely to overlook important details because
you have difficulty staying focused. Consequently, you might feel
more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more
detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in
yourself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could
be an effective way to manage your own stress level.
Low self-control may diminish your effectiveness at work. Acting
too relaxed can make it difficult for you to focus on projects that
require organized sequences of steps or stages. Thus, your ability
to accomplish may be inconsistent. Indeed, it’s possible that you
might be criticized periodically for being unreliable or unable to
“stay within the lines.” Nonetheless, you may still experience many
short-lived pleasures and never be thought of as boring.
Openness:
As someone high in openness, you have a strong appreciation for
beauty, both in art and nature. Indeed, it’s likely that you are
easily absorbed in music and art, as well as natural phenomena.
Another aspect of your openness is your emotional insight; that is,
you probably have good access to and awareness of your own
emotions.
Another aspect of the openness dimension is the tendency to think
about abstract concepts and ideas. This thinking style may take the
form of artistic and metaphorical use of language, and/or music
composition or performance. Thus, it is likely that, either in your
work or spare time, you enjoy activities that get your “creative
juices” flowing.
Your tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and
disadvantages. For instance, when there are no clear rules about
how to approach a particular problem, your openness makes it easier
for you to identify new ways to solve problems that might not be
very obvious to people that are not as open as you are. In
contrast, you may be bored easily in situations that lack high
amounts of intellectual stimulation. In such cases, you might have
difficulty excelling on projects that do not provide much
stimulation or require much creative thinking.
Easygoingness:
Easygoingness refers to one's ability to relax. Based on your
score, you appear to work and play hard. The benefits of being
moderate in easygoingness are that you achieve success through hard
work, but you also know when and how to relax. Your colleagues and
friends likely consider you as reliable and fun to be around.
Being moderate in easygoingness can cause you some stress, however.
For example, you may sometimes find it difficult to complete tasks
thoroughly and efficiently, which can cause stress for both you and
the people around you. You may occasionally experience stress by
working hard to reach your goals, but you value having fun and just
relaxing. Knowing how to balance both work and play is a gift, and
you have the key ingredients for doing this.
You have enough mental flexibility to think creatively and enough
focus to implement those ideas well. This might be epitomized by
your occasional difficulty focusing on subtle details, but the ease
with which you’re able to adjust to changes in your life.
As someone who is neither rigid nor careless, you likely get along
with most people well. On the one hand, you recognize the value of
working hard and therefore consider such qualities in others
beneficial. On the other hand, you know how to relax and thus
appreciate people that know how to do this too. Chances are your
friends and colleagues perceive you as someone that works hard, but
also knows how to have a good time.
How does your personality affect your love life?
With your strong degree of confidence, it’s no surprise that you
get along well with most people. Indeed, it’s self-confidence that
allows people to feel comfortable interacting with others without
feeling insecure and vulnerable. For this reason, you shouldn’t
have much difficulty in romance, at least not initially. Your
social skills will likely help relieve any anxiety your romantic
partners might have on those first few dates. However, over time,
the high standards that you have for yourself could potentially
frustrate your partner.
Given how much you value family life, you probably get along best
with people who share your values and beliefs. In fact, it’s likely
that you maintain close connections with members of your immediate
and distant family. For this reason, you would probably be most
satisfied in a romantic relationship with someone who also values
domestic life. Being in a relationship with someone who enjoys
going out to parties and staying-up late at night might be fun, at
least initially; yet it’s likely that you will find this tiring
over time. Thus, it might be easier and more satisfying for you to
develop a long-lasting relationship with a person who also enjoys
spending time at home and desires starting a family. On first
dates, perhaps you might suggest to your partner that the two of
you spend a quiet night having dinner at one of your respective
homes instead of going out to a restaurant or club.
As someone who is more relaxed than most people, you’re likely be
attracted to most people. However, your free-spirited nature might
make being in a relationship with a person that is more rigid than
you difficult because you might perceive the person as being too
uptight and controlling. For this reason, you may ultimately be
most satisfied in a relationship with someone that is shares your
level of self-control.
Your openness probably makes it easy for you to respect and
appreciate people that are different from you. However, when it
comes to romantic relationships, your openness might make it
difficult for you to tolerate people that cannot appreciate
diversity as much as you. Therefore, you may be happiest in serious
relationships with people that share your open-mindedness. But,
your openness might occasionally cause a certain degree of
dependency on your end because you may be so open that you easily
adopt the preferences and habits of your partners and gradually
relinquish things that make you so unique.
I have another profile on Facebook. Please, contact me if you are
interested in me. Thank You. Hope to get to know you better. I hope
we can talk later. Take care. Thanks. Have a Great Day and
night.
Sincerely,
Alyson
