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50 • Kansas City, MO • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 47–60
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Jan 28, 2014
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
- Pisces, and it matters a lot
- Working on two-year college
- Less than $20,000
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
My name is: Alyson. My Birthday is: 3 / 1 / 1965.
I'm a Pisces. I'm Disabled. I hope to meet the right guy for my life and my children's life. I do smoke cigarettes only and do not drink alcohol at all and no drugs at all, except for what my doctor prescribes to me. I'm looking for the right man for my life and my children’s life. I'm also looking for friends in my life too. I do not have a man in my life yet. Still trying to find Mr. Right.
I was born in Lacrosse, Wisconsin. I mostly grew up in Fort Dodge, Iowa. I live in around Kansas City, Missouri area. I’m going to college to work in the Criminal Justice Area in Missouri. I have an excellent personality. I like to help other people out if I can. I get along with almost everyone. I'm independent person. I'm a happy person mostly. I enjoy my life. I have three children. I have two Boy's and one Girl. My children are Adults now in their life. I would like to graduate from college. Maybe move more South someday. I do not like the cold weather any more. I want to have the right man for my life. I want to find a job in the Criminal Justice area after I finish College. To pay off my car. To own a house someday. I would like to stay in touch with my children and the rest of my family. My Family and my friends are very close in my life. I like to do outdoor activities. I like fishing, camping, and more. I like to go to Movies and more. I like to go for walks and more. I like bowling for fun and more. I like to travel. I like to play cards. I listen to all kinds of music to a point but country is my favorite kind of music. I like to do a lot more activities too in my life. I am sincere, kind, fun, a caring, and lovably person to be around. I do not want a man who drinks Alcohol and do Illegal Drugs at all. I do not want a man who plays games. I do not want a man who is controlling person. I do not want a man who is abuse at all in all areas. I do not want a man who is angry all the time. I would like a man who is romantic. I would like a man who enjoys life. I want a man who has an excellent personality. I want a man who is honest and trustworthy. I want a man who can communicate well about anything and everything. I would like a man with almost the same interest as me.
I'm looking for a guy who enjoys life. I'm looking for the right guy for my life and my children's life. I'm also looking for friends in my life too. I would like a guy who loves to travel and work out and etc. and do things together as a couple and as a family. I'm looking for a guy who is truly happy within himself. I want a guy who is ready to work as a team in a friendship relationship and maybe more. I want a guy who can communicate well. I want a guy who has a good personality.
I like to outdoor activities. I like to go to Movies. I like to go for walks. I am looking for the right guy to be in my life. I'm also looking for friends in my life too. I am sincere, kind and fun and a caring and lovably person to be around.
Help us understand what you really want. Looking out three years from now, what will need to happen for you to feel happy about the progress you've made in your personal life?
Get the right guy for my life and my children's life. I'm also looking for friends in my life too. To find the right job for my life. To finish my college to get a degree. To buy another car. To move more south to warmer climates. A lot more.
I'm looking for a guy who enjoys life. I'm looking for the right guy for my life and my children's life. I would like a guy who love's to travel and work out and etc. and do things together as a couple. I'm looking for a guy who is truly happy within himself. I want a guy who is ready to work as a team in a friendship relationship and maybe more. I would like a man who is romantic. I would like a man who enjoys life. I want a man who has an excellent personality. I would want an honest guy. I want a man who can communicate well about anything. I would like a man with the almost the same interest as me.
I do not want a man who drinks Alcohol and do Illegal Drugs at all. I do not want a man who plays games. I do not want a man who is controlling person. I do not want a man who is abuse at all in all areas. I do not want a man who is angry all the time.
I like to outdoor activities. I like to go to Movies. I like to go for walks. I like family time. I like to travel. I like to spend time with the right guy. I like to do a lot more in my life.
On my first date:
I would like to meet the guy at a public place first and get to know that guy that might be in my children's life and mine. I would like to have some put in the first and the man I'm meeting to have some put into our first date. I would like to take it slow and try to something’s that are fun on a date. It would take some time to get know the guy to find out if he is the right person for my family life and mine.
The five key ingredients that can determine whether or not two people have the “right” chemistry. The dimensions are:
Self-Confidence or the degree to which a person feels comfortable with him or herself. People that are high in self-confidence tend to be assertive and competent in both their private and public relationships. People that are low in self-confidence tend to be reticent and somewhat anxious.
Family Orientation, or the degree to which a person supports and values the family. People that are family oriented tend to want or already have children, are very close to their immediate relatives, and prefer cooking at home to eating at a restaurant. People that are not family oriented tend to be individualistic, unconventional, and very much enjoy attending parties and social functions.
Self-Control or the extent to which a person exerts control over various aspects of life. People that are high in self-control tend have strong emotional reactions to things and try to regulate those feelings by micromanaging and attending to specific details. People that are low in self-control are usually relaxed, even-tempered, and lenient.
Openness, or the extent to which a person is open to and dependent upon others. People that are high in openness tend to like a wide range of things (e.g., food, music, movies, etc.), in part because they are concerned with pleasing other people. In contrast, people low in openness are very independent and opinionated; they know what they like and aren’t apt to change their opinion.
Easygoingness, or a person’s work ethic and degree of mental flexibility. People that are high in easygoingness are very relaxed, broadminded, and unaffected by change. In contrast, people low in easygoingness tend be hardworking, firm, and sometimes inflexible.
My Relationship Chemistry Test Results are:
As someone with high self-confidence, you feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, you find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. Your relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around you comfortable too. Perhaps because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others tend to enjoy being around you and perceive you as socially competent.
The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself. Although you have several strengths, it’s likely that you also acknowledge and accept your weaknesses. But unlike some people, you take full responsibility for your actions—you rarely regret things you’ve done in the past and are not embarrassed easily.
Perhaps the defining feature that sets you apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that you set for yourself. Your competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to you for advice and generally think of you as someone with leader-like qualities.
As someone who is oriented to familial matters, you value the company of family-members and domestic life. If you have children already, you enjoy spending time with them very much and work hard to be a good parent. If you don’t have children, you very much desire having children in the future. And your preference for cooking and entertaining guests at home will likely ease the transition into parenthood.
You take pride in maintaining and cultivating a healthy family and work hard to achieve this. This natural tendency is easily illustrated by your preference for doing things around the house as opposed to going out to clubs and restaurants.
What really sets you apart from people that are low in family orientation is that you know how to manage your frustrations and work well on your own. This means that you are well-equipped to manage a family without letting all the work that is involved wear you down. However, as someone with strong family values, all the work that is involved in maintaining a tidy home and well-stocked kitchen might occasionally make it difficult for you to finish everything that you need to do.
The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their temptations, and your degree of self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful, you might find that you do or say things that may be inappropriate.
As someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get yourself in trouble. For example, if you’re given responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention to detail, you may be likely to overlook important details because you have difficulty staying focused. Consequently, you might feel more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in yourself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to manage your own stress level.
Low self-control may diminish your effectiveness at work. Acting too relaxed can make it difficult for you to focus on projects that require organized sequences of steps or stages. Thus, your ability to accomplish may be inconsistent. Indeed, it’s possible that you might be criticized periodically for being unreliable or unable to “stay within the lines.” Nonetheless, you may still experience many short-lived pleasures and never be thought of as boring.
As someone high in openness, you have a strong appreciation for beauty, both in art and nature. Indeed, it’s likely that you are easily absorbed in music and art, as well as natural phenomena. Another aspect of your openness is your emotional insight; that is, you probably have good access to and awareness of your own emotions.
Another aspect of the openness dimension is the tendency to think about abstract concepts and ideas. This thinking style may take the form of artistic and metaphorical use of language, and/or music composition or performance. Thus, it is likely that, either in your work or spare time, you enjoy activities that get your “creative juices” flowing.
Your tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and disadvantages. For instance, when there are no clear rules about how to approach a particular problem, your openness makes it easier for you to identify new ways to solve problems that might not be very obvious to people that are not as open as you are. In contrast, you may be bored easily in situations that lack high amounts of intellectual stimulation. In such cases, you might have difficulty excelling on projects that do not provide much stimulation or require much creative thinking.
Easygoingness refers to one's ability to relax. Based on your score, you appear to work and play hard. The benefits of being moderate in easygoingness are that you achieve success through hard work, but you also know when and how to relax. Your colleagues and friends likely consider you as reliable and fun to be around.
Being moderate in easygoingness can cause you some stress, however. For example, you may sometimes find it difficult to complete tasks thoroughly and efficiently, which can cause stress for both you and the people around you. You may occasionally experience stress by working hard to reach your goals, but you value having fun and just relaxing. Knowing how to balance both work and play is a gift, and you have the key ingredients for doing this.
You have enough mental flexibility to think creatively and enough focus to implement those ideas well. This might be epitomized by your occasional difficulty focusing on subtle details, but the ease with which you’re able to adjust to changes in your life.
As someone who is neither rigid nor careless, you likely get along with most people well. On the one hand, you recognize the value of working hard and therefore consider such qualities in others beneficial. On the other hand, you know how to relax and thus appreciate people that know how to do this too. Chances are your friends and colleagues perceive you as someone that works hard, but also knows how to have a good time.
How does your personality affect your love life?
With your strong degree of confidence, it’s no surprise that you get along well with most people. Indeed, it’s self-confidence that allows people to feel comfortable interacting with others without feeling insecure and vulnerable. For this reason, you shouldn’t have much difficulty in romance, at least not initially. Your social skills will likely help relieve any anxiety your romantic partners might have on those first few dates. However, over time, the high standards that you have for yourself could potentially frustrate your partner.
Given how much you value family life, you probably get along best with people who share your values and beliefs. In fact, it’s likely that you maintain close connections with members of your immediate and distant family. For this reason, you would probably be most satisfied in a romantic relationship with someone who also values domestic life. Being in a relationship with someone who enjoys going out to parties and staying-up late at night might be fun, at least initially; yet it’s likely that you will find this tiring over time. Thus, it might be easier and more satisfying for you to develop a long-lasting relationship with a person who also enjoys spending time at home and desires starting a family. On first dates, perhaps you might suggest to your partner that the two of you spend a quiet night having dinner at one of your respective homes instead of going out to a restaurant or club.
As someone who is more relaxed than most people, you’re likely be attracted to most people. However, your free-spirited nature might make being in a relationship with a person that is more rigid than you difficult because you might perceive the person as being too uptight and controlling. For this reason, you may ultimately be most satisfied in a relationship with someone that is shares your level of self-control.
Your openness probably makes it easy for you to respect and appreciate people that are different from you. However, when it comes to romantic relationships, your openness might make it difficult for you to tolerate people that cannot appreciate diversity as much as you. Therefore, you may be happiest in serious relationships with people that share your open-mindedness. But, your openness might occasionally cause a certain degree of dependency on your end because you may be so open that you easily adopt the preferences and habits of your partners and gradually relinquish things that make you so unique.
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