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34 F Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I am liberal, sarcastic, and empathetic and these are qualities I enjoy in others.

I'd rather do things than have things. I enjoy live performances - music, theater, whatever I can get. I will spend money on travel over material things any day of the week. I start to get antsy if I don't leave the city after a couple of months.

Everyone should reduce, re-use, recycle. Although I find it incredibly difficult to put recyclables in the regular trash, I'm not convinced anything actually gets recycled. I wish I could be deputized to ticket litterbugs.

I really like food and wish I liked more things. Sometimes it's all in my head, but mostly it's my sensitive palate and intolerance of weird textures that limits the menu. I'm willing to try most things once and selected items up to seven. When left to my own devices, I eat out more that I cook & cook is a relative term. I do, however, make an excellent sous chef.

I like equal parts of structure & spontaneity. Diveristy keeps things interesting, planning keeps me sane.
What I’m doing with my life
Work-wise, I help family planning providers adapt to health care reform. Life-wise, I support social justice causes, do my best to stay connected to my choosen & given family, travel near and far, dance whenever I hear a beat, sing terribly off-key, consume all of the media, give side eye in response to poor behavior, challenge new ways of thinking, and so on and so forth.
I’m really good at
Logistics, moderation, problem solving, and communication. I realize this list looks like it's taken from a resume, but what can I say, I rock this shit.

I also have a forte for mix/ed cds - and yes, I realize this is a dying technology, but playlists don't have the same feel.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like to read, but tend to forget everything once I complete the last page. I haven't read anything truly altering in a long time. I just re-read Perks of Being a Wallflower.

Movies: Anything by Wes Anderson, Christopher Guest, John Waters or Coen Brothers; Comedies, Action Adventure, some Dramas; Garden State, Eternal Sunshine, Old School, the Die Hard/Bourne/Ocean Series. I appreciate films that pass the Bechdel test. I don't enjoy stereotypical Rom-Coms or war movies.

Music: Folk, Indie, Hip-Hop, Alternative, Bluegrass, Old School Rock, pretty much anything I can dance to and that doesn't involve someone yelling at me. Some current favs are The Blow, Regina Spektor, Magnetic Fields, The Submarines, Of Montreal, Mumford & Sons, Nellie McKay, Feist, The Shins, and the Killers.

Food: Pizza, falafel, mac & cheese, pesto, everything bagels, PBJ, ice cream, ramen noodles (sometimes I get fancy & add goat cheese & an egg), and most breakfast foods. I just realized that minus the pesto & falafel, this reads like a children's menu - awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Dancing/Music, Sarcasm/Wit, Vodka, the Interwebs, Passport, & Sunshine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Where the night takes me - perhaps a few beers with friends or a T.V. marathon on the sofa.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 33–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
my profile inspires you so write something more than "Hey,"
"I love your smile," or "Nice glasses."

Perhaps more importantly, you should NOT message me if:
you believe life begins at conception
you're on the marriage, breeding, suburbia fast track
you advocate for the gender binary (double down if you don't know what the gender binary is)
you use the word gay to describe something other than someone's sexual orientation