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RThawk12

26 F Hyattsville, MD

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Grad student, poet, bird-watcher, feminist, oldest of four, half British, half American. I grew up primarily on the Eastern Shore of MD in a very rural area, running around on a friend's farm, swimming in creeks and rivers, and playing with llamas. There is nothing like going barefoot and squishing one's toes in river mud or kayaking under the light of a full moon.

Being outside, in the woods, mountains, especially under a star-studded night, is where I am happiest, though I have come to appreciate what DC offers since living in the DMV for the last few years.

Traveling is in my blood, and I have lived in England, Mexico and Spain. Relationships with friends and family are important to me, and keeping in touch with loved ones who are all over the world. I love all the different connections I make with people where-ever I go.

I identify as queer, but okcupid doesn't allow that option. I am open to dating anyone, though I am primarily interested in women-identified people. While I respect polyamory, at the moment, personally, I am not interested in couples or folks who already have a primary relationship and are looking to add others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting a phd in Women's Studies, trying to balance academia and life, watching my strawberries and tomato plants grow, nurturing relationships with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
identifying birds, listening, writing, kayaking, hanging out with small children, loving animals, saving worms from drowning in puddles, keeping in touch with people, felting and other handicrafts, starting a fire in the rain.

Also bananagrams, I rock at that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Tamora Pierce; Stone Butch Blues, Pages for You; Ender's Game; Borderlands: La Frontera; That Takes Ovaries; Dykes to Watch Out For; The Time Traveler's Wife. I recently read Eva Luna by Isabelle Allende and look forward to reading more of her work.

Poets: Seamus Heaney, Mary Oliver, Cornelius Eady, Shara McCallum, Marie Howe, Alice Walker, Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, Andrea Gibson, Meredith Davies Hadaway.

TV: Right now, am particularly loving The Fosters and Orphan Black. Older favorites: Farscape, Firefly, Star Trek, The Big Bang Theory, Coupling. Also am a fan of GOT, though I prefer the books in many ways, though in others the show rocks even more--like with Tyrion's character.

Music: Chris Pureka, Brandi Carlile, Tracy Chapman, Missy Higgins, Owl City, Anna Nalick, Martina McBride, Tim McGraw, Ben Howard, Sean Hayes, Fleeted Foxes, Lost in the Trees, Freshlyground, Julieta Venegas, Darius Rucker, Tupac, Kaki King, The Civil Wars, Tegan and Sara, Sara Bareilles, B. Steady and The Lost Bois.

I particularly love country/folk, but like pretty much everything except for metal. I have been discovering a lot of music through OKcupid connections which is awesome. Recently was introduce to CHVRCHES by someone on here, and love their music!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*writing/my journal/poetry

*family and friends

*books

*being able to be outside, especially near water--river, lakes, oceans--

*some manner of communication with long-distance friends and family, be that the telephone, email, Skype (which is awesome), or old fashioned snail mail (which is also awesome. I love getting letters in the mail.)

*some form of movement/exercise/body-work, whether it is running, hiking, walking, swinging, swimming, yoga, bouldering.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
words, language, gender, queerness, privilege, birds, eco-systems, poetry, writing, traveling, children, family, knowledges, space, relationships, friends, memories, my dissertation, what I am going to do after grad school.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends/housemates, going to see a movie, checking out music in DC, catching up on work, creating collages, writing.
You should message me if
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-you find my profile interesting and you want to chat. I love meeting new people.

-you want to swap favorite poems/poets.

-you like camping/hiking/running and would like someone to join you for said activities.

-you like DIY crafts and/or would like to learn how to felt.

--you want to meet up for coffee/tea. I am all for exchanging a few messages and I love the written word, but as I hang out more on okcupid I am preferring meet ups over many messages back and forth.