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24 M New Bern, NC

My Details

Last Online
May 31
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I am a guy who has a passion for life and all the experiences within it. And I'd like to share some of those moments with someone else. Self-knowledge and self-improvement is vital to my life philosophy. I hate the term "Just be yourself", rather I think it should be "Optimize yourself".

In my free time I enjoy a wide variety of things. Ranging from mindlessly browsing Reddit to trying out tons of craft beers and totally not being a hipster about it. I have a wide variety of regular interests that include: dancing, cooking, fitness, economics, history(especially 19th century), and political activism. It's not uncommon for me to find something new one day and then spend the free time of my next few days completely immersing myself in it.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am a tax intern at a regional accounting firm.

I am pursuing my BS in Accounting at UNC of Greensboro, which I will complete in two years. After which I intend to complete my MS as well in order to obtain my CPA license.

After that I have a number of plans and ideas on what I'm interested in.
I’m really good at
Emphasizing with those around me, I have been told that I am always a positive person to talk to about any subject.

I'm also apparently very good at looking like Harry Potter I'm often told.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm generally overly-polite and stiff at first with most people. However, I always aim and succeed in making everyone around me feel appreciated and comfortable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a prodigious reader whom consumes mostly fantasy, sci-fi or historical fiction when it comes to books. A Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, and His Dark Materials are a few series that I enjoy. Robert Heinlein, Isaac Asimov. Michael Crichton, and Tolkien are other authors that I read a lot of.

Regarding my musical tastes. I'm strange in that I don't listen to a lot of music unless I am working and need something to zone in with. I enjoy a lot of electro-swing(such as Parov Stelar, Caravan Palace), progressive rock(such as Tool) and also music from video games that I played when I was younger.

I play a wide variety of games, but I primarily enjoy RPG's and strategy games. Particularly JRPGs from the SNES and Playstation era. Earthbound and Chrono Trigger are my favorite games of all time without a doubt.

I'm a bit of an anime nerd and regularly watch it in my downtime. I grew up watching Studio Ghibli films and love them all, especially Spirted Away and Grave of the Fireflies.
The six things I could never do without
1. Introspection
2. Pretty much everything on my bookshelf.
3. A good story to be absorbed in.
4. Melatonin for sleeping.
5. A hot shower in the morning.
6. A nice beer to relax with after work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and plans for it. I do not like the idea of wholly going forward blindly in life without some plans or blueprints set up.

I also think a lot about how I can make this world a more peaceful place. I'm very much against the initiation of force and coercion. I constantly look at how I personally can change the world to be a more peaceful and empathetic place.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work or I am busy on accounting homework. Occasionally going out with friends as my sanity and time permits.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be a terribly pessimistic and cynical person. I was apathetic to my situation in life and where I'm going in the future. Through years of self-reflection and philosophy I've been able to over-come this awhile back and I've realized that I only have one short life and that I want to live a life that I would not regret when I eventually die.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a positive person who has an interest in bettering themselves in life. I love meeting and talking to people who love and enjoy life and want to share that love with others.