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55 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:15am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am serious with an excellent sense of humor. a devoted friend and very independent; highly educated with big gaps in my knowledge, worldly and sophisticated with an appreciation of bad taste and no patience for pretense. Opinionated but flexible. I love music, literature, travel, food, talk, wine, dogs and silliness and would prefer to enjoy them with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it as best I can
I’m really good at
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Making people laugh, cooking, eating, hanging out, writing, conversation, explaining things, argument, learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my three heads and seven arms.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This list is subject to change by the hour.
Novels: Eugene Onegin, A Confederacy of Dunces, Bleak House, The Great Gatsby, The Golden Gate
Other books: I read a lot of history and biography. I just read The War that Ended Peace.
Movies: Citizen Kane, Duck Soup, The Good, the Bad and the Ugly, Taxi Driver, The Godfather, Ninotchka, The Grand Illusion, The Lives of Others, Miller's Crossing, All About Eve, The Big Lebowski, Sunset Boulevard...
Music: Love classical (especially Mozart, Schubert, Mahler, Berg, Verdi) enjoy most Jazz but don't know much about what I'm listening to. Like classic rock, can't stand Madonna.
Food: Just about everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, chocolate, a passport, wine, sleep, laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Places I want to go. and what I want for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently I've been at home with my feet up or cooking dinner for friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I am willing to share here is that I am a troll on right-wing blogs. For anything else, you will have to ask me.
You should message me if
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If you think we are sufficiently similar or sufficiently different to enjoy each other