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29 F Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 2:45pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Yiddish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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okcupid said "never a dull moment" is too short for my self-summary. okcupid and I clearly did not have the same English teacher in high school.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a writer/filmmaker/copywriter/breakfast sandwich eater.

Wishing Fed Ex would leave packages with my super.

I also practice yoga and try to spend QT time with friends, see live music, cook whole foods, and be a good human. (Sometimes I just watch Netflix marathons though.)

Every now and then I think I should just move to Montana and live in a cabin in the mountains...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking. I am also a very fast reader, but not a speed reader type thing. I'm pretty sure those people are faking it, or skimming the pages at best.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My cheeks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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If you want to skip over this section, most everyone likes things, and I like things too. I have interests and such.

Ranier Maria Rilke, Barbara Kingsolver, Arundhati Roy, Simon Van Booy, Jonathan Franzen, Jhumpa Lahiria, Miranda July, Kurt Vonnegut, Pema Chodron, GoT, A Wild Sheep Chase, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Americanah, Cutting For Stone, Arcadia, books about Everest, and Delivered From Distraction: Coping with Adult ADD.

I read almost all of John Irving's novels in high school, and I loved them, and I recently re-read A Widow for One Year, and I just didn't love it the way I thought I would (and probably had at one point). It felt like a noteworthy moment, and now I'm telling you. In short, I read a lot.

Also, The New Yorker, National Geographic, Women's Health on the plane (I knooow) and Cooks Illustrated.

NPR, The Hairpin, BBC

Y tu Mama Tambien, Some Days Are Better Than Others, Her, Oh Boy (released as A Coffee in Berlin in the US), Starlet, Weekend, Oslo August 31st, Monsoon Wedding, Sin Nombre, Another Earth, The Sound of My Voice, I Origins, The Anniversary Party, Rocket Science, Igby Goes Down, A League of Their Own, Clueless, The Last Waltz, Grizzly Man, Particle Fever, The Woodmans, Saalam Bombay, Kicking and Screaming (Baumbach), Meek's Cutoff, Laurel Nakadate's earlier work, Ang Lee, Olivier Assayas, Richard Linklater, and Deepa Mehta's elements trilogy.

Breaking Bad (RIP), Arrested Development, The Returned (new French show. seriously, watch it. Sundance Channel, Itunes or Amazon Prime. Whatever you do, don't watch the American remake.) Mad Men, 30 Rock, Parks & Rec, most HBO series, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, an embarrassing amount of vampire shows (3), Fawlty Tours, Portlandia, and last but not least Clear Eyes, Full Hearts, Can't Lose!

Bach, Vivaldi, Jay-Z, LCD Soundsystem, Sleater-Kinney, Burial, The XX, Pearson Sound, Lykke Li, Tegan and Sara, Lana Del Ray, Vampire Weekend, The Black Keys, The Civil Wars, Jack White, Loretta Lynn, Johnny Cash, Pistol Annies, The Band, The Velvet Underground, Paul Simon, John Hartford, The Punch Brothers, Nina Simone, Old Time, The Toys and Tiny Instruments...

All of it, from kale to burgers to bacon nutella brownies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Yoga, Lip Balm, Netflix, music, something to write with, and my family & friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, feminism, and pizza.

Lately, what's going on Ferguson. Fuck.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love to stay in and to go out. I'm sure that really narrowed it down.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really like Lindsey Lohan's early work.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 26–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
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"There’s only one rule that I know of, babies — ‘God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.' "