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23 M Thousand Oaks, CA

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  • Ages 18–27
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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:07pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note : when you "like" me i don't see it so...
I will more then likely not message you first, getting ignored over 90% of the time is frustrating.

Well well well... lots of stuff to say, but to start my name is Sebastien half French half American (Although i really consider myself French way more then American, having lived over 21 years of my life over there),moved here only 8 months ago to restart my life which did not go as i wished....

Introvert, probably the biggest one you could possibly meet.
I'm a very calm, pacific and patient person. I'm never in a rush to do something (depending on the situation, that could be good or bad), i never worry about my future, and just think of who i am today and what i want to do. I'll never make any plans for that reason, not too much in advance anyways, because i simply do stuff depending on my mood, if i just want to do something i will, if i don't well i won't, hence why i don't like planing stuff too far ahead.
I think that's really an important part of me because it really defines what i do.
I can be arrogant at times, even though it's something i'm working on and i can most of the time appear as if i'm not (Making this iritates me actually, all the "i"s and "me"s, it's something i've learned to put aside). The reason as to why i think is i am very competitive by nature, i'll always try to be the best at what i do (although this only applies when i play games and such, i am not that way at all in everyday life).
I try to be as good a person as i can be, i see the world as it is and i do not understand it, it does not make sense. I can't change it, but i can change myself, or rather mature and learn, i actually don't believe in people changing, they are who they are, but everyone can learn.
I have immense trust issues, to the point where i don't trust anyone, at all, except a couple of friends that have been alongside me for a very long time. Everyone sometime or another will always disapoint me, granted i have high standards, but still. I just can't respect anyone who is sexist, egotestic, sadistic, and the like. And sadly that represents almost the entire human population, i believe msot of the people who read this would actually fall in this category, but i hope some will not.
I believe this is the best summary i can write about my personality and who i am.
In the end i am actually very simple in many ways, even if it may not seem so.

And i should add i'm probably the person with the worst memory you wil EVER encounter, it has hapenned to me to me to forget my name and age... and no that isn't a joke.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going to start working very soon as a layout designer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people, writing, reading, board/miniature/video games, learning stuff fast.
I consider these accomplishments, although not many would:
Top 10 AoE 3 treaty players worldwide (i was 15)
Top 200 EU Sc2, Top 1000 World
Also finished the 7 new seasons of Doctor Who in under 5 days when i started watching (this has to count, right?)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't smile that much, i guess... you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hhhmm i really like sci-fi and fantasy, i had a pretty big collection of books i had to leave behind when i moved... favorite authors would be Terry Pratchett, Tolkien (not just for LOTR, all the other books too), Orson Scott Card (friend of my father), all the Black Library books, and always some i forget but you get the idea.

For movies and series it's always the same thing (with the obvious comedy), Stargate, Doctor Who, House, Angel...
Favorite movie, The last of the Mohicans, The last Samurai, ...

I like all type of music excluding rap and r'n'b, although i generally listen mostly to metal/rock/alternative, won't name all of the artists... I also simply love a lot of movie music, especially Hans Zimmer and Clint Mansell (a few that come to my mind right now would be of Black Hawk Down, The fountain, Gladiator, etc...)
Some others would be Two steps from Hell, Adrian Von Ziegler, Wardruna, Immediate music.

Of all the video games i play (Yes this for me must be included) : Well, too many to list... (WAY too many), but a few : DotA, CS, Bioshock, Starcraft serues, WC3 , Age of Empires series, The Witcher series, Civilization, Total war series, Baldur's gate, Icewind Dale, The Elder Scrolls series, etc...

Ah food... i'm French so yeah... I actually didn't realise how good the food is over there, until i moved here indefinitly, and realised how much i missed it. To all of you who have never been to France, honestly, do it at least once in your life, to understand what REAL food is, you can't possibly understand what you're missing out on by living here. Even what you would call "fancy" restaurents here are barely entry class where i used to live.
I have a very place in my heart for spicy food in general, also Japenese food, nothing else in particuliar comes to mind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is nothing in particuliar i could not do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the world is such a shitty place, why people fight over stupid stuff all the time, when everyone would benefit from peace.
Why am i born in what i would consider the most boring part of human history. The past is filled by people discovering places, ideas, understand who, where and what we are. The future possible with human exploration of space.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Always the same, at home, i almost never go out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't intend on staying here long, a few years at most. I would really like to move in a Scandinavian country, and i can't go back to France, at least not right now, and i'm not confortable here.
I get intimidated quite easily by people smarter then me, which ends up with me usually trying to ignore them (Does not happen often, as i have an IQ above 150, but sometimes).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just do so if you want to, i'm a very open person, and very understanding. I do suck at talking to people though, and what i mean by that is simply carying on a conversation, unless you start me on my hobbies (Painting miniatures/videogames, basicaly), then you probably won't get me to shut up and i'll talk and talk likely about stuff you don't actually even care about. I'm sorry if that happens. Also i tend to overthink everything and get carried away sometimes.