Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are exceptionally intelligent, have a professional career
you feel good about, are very kind-hearted, accepting of others,
romantic, and have impeccable integrity/character. You're the guy
that holds doors for ladies and helps them with their coats, and
loves to do it. I prefer well-educated matches who might hold an
advanced degree (Ph.D./M.D./JD etc.) so we can be on common
...you are emotionally sound and seeking a serious relationship.
You are looking forward to sweeping your dream girl off her feet
:-) Guys who like planning interesting/fun dates score big. I
strongly believe in quality over quantity, so I prefer a formal
dinner date over a coffee date.
...you are man who has his life together -- no big problems or
dramas, emotional, mental, financial, or physical... No smokers,
heavy alcohol users, or drug users, or guys with heavy tattoos. No
one still married/separated/cheating on someone. Clean, healthy,
Lastly, you should be over your last relationship and ready to
start something new. If you're seeking a pen pal, long distance
entertainment, or girls as activity/sex partners, I'm not the one
for you. I see okc simply as a means to be introduced to someone,
not a place to develop a "relationship" through long chat sessions.