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33 Concord, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 27
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Single Compersive Polyamorous/Nonmonogamist/Fetishist/Dominant, Sicilian/Spanish/German/Swede, Tattooed and pierced, into music(Punk/Metal/RockN Roll/Blues,Etc.), complex mind states, poetry/writing, simplicity in everyday human nature, Existentialism, Perspective, deep thought, D.I.Y., Intellectual conversation, booking and promoting underground music, good whiskey/Scotch etc. Not looking for crazy relationships, just friends, respectful and mutually healthy Poly lovers/Friend's with Benefits or other adventurists to have fun with and explore life's many random excursions. The unrealistic nature of Monogamy has taught me in the past that it is quite the pointless endeavor for most Human Beings.

Also, I pride myself on being a socially aware Human.... Open minded and ever evolving....Ignorant tools/bros, pseudo-Republican nascar "breeder" types, extreme Leftists who judge too harshly, and or other political/social fodder tends to clash quite a bit with me. Political shit is equated to applying ointment to a gushing wound. Humans and their entitlement are the real issues.

"Humbled confidence is more than equivalent to force."

Really, I am not the most regular human being to say the least, however, I seem to be the most straight forward person I know. I do not believe in too much of a "filter" as I always deliver what is on my mind very swiftly. I am a notorious smart ass with a Sarcastic sense of humor that could cut a diamond, and in some likelihood, to offend the hell out of some people...In all reality, it is an excellent way to measure who will be a fit to be friends with em or not. I really just desire to hang out with intelligent Females, as I am a straight male that tends to have more real female friends than I do have male friends. I put up with zero drama, and zero bullshit to be abrasively honest. Like I said, I won't really strike people as an average everyday dude, but I find comfort in this. ....Talk to me if you'd like. :P
What I’m doing with my life
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On top of being a musician, I am the Vice President and P.R. Director of The Handy House of Art and Science- a Non Profit Collective with goals in mind to expand and promote culture/sub-culture, art, science, independent thought and underground music. I am my own independent entity as well, Rogue Ronin Bookings(100% Non Profit), and I have been involved in such endeavors for the better half of the last decade.
Also, I am currently pursuing my Business degree to one day open a Rock n Roll/Punk/Metal themed Philly Cheesesteak restaurant(with vegan options for hippie types! XD)/All Ages music venue. This is who I am and what I am made of. Community, D.I.Y., and underground music is my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing/Poetry/Singing/Cooking.... Being eclectic, well spoken, and sarcastic. Generating good karma and positive energy... But really, People and caring for my friends. I am not a people person, however, I tend to be the care-taker to all of my friends whether it be psychologically, relationship advice, or assist them to find their way while their down and out. I motivate and spread positive energy all the while dealing with my own life issues. XD
The first things people usually notice about me
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Personality: I have quite the vivid set of characteristics to be honest. Eccentricity and wit, on top of a rugged 80's Punk/Metal look I get many questions about. I am very social to say the least, however , I tend to only really like very few people.

Physically: My face(Eye/ lips)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: 1984, Fahrenheit 451, Fight Club, Johnny Got His Gun, Deviant: The True Story of Ed Gein, Tales of Ordinary Madness(Bukowski), Dharma Punx, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Fight Club, The Crow(Original), Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, Natural Born Killers, Falling Down, A Serbian Film, Class of 1984, various TROMA flicks, The Warriors, Phantasm, Evil Dead, Dead Alive, Return of the Living Dead, Maniac, A Clockwork Orange, True Romance, Bad Lieutenant, Burial Ground, Demons, Superstition(80's), Zombie, Snatch, Cannibal Holocaust, Rampage, Suburbia(80's), Repo Man, Maximum Overdrive, Maniac Cop 1,2, and 3, Animal House, Beetlejuice, My Science Project, The Breakfast Club, Lost Boys,The Jerk, Nothing But Trouble, Deadbeat At Dawn, Night Breed, The THING, Fright Night, Hellraiser series, Freddie/Jason flicks,various Fulci/Argento/Old school 80's/B-Movie/Horror/Gore/Snuff/Obscure.

Shows: Family Guy, Trailer Park Boys, South Park, Beavis and Butt-head, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad

Music: Rock and Roll and some of it's grittier sub genres. A lot obscure, old school/underground Punk/Thrash/Black/Death Metal/D-Beat, Classic Rock, 50's Rock N Roll, Blues. Everything from The Misfits, Suicidal Tendencies, Early Black Flag, Discharge, Broken Bones, Anti Cimex, Agnostic Front, D.R.I., The Cramps, Cock Sparrer, to Darkthrone, Bathory, Venom, Celtic Frost, Possessed, TANK, Sodom, Slayer, to AC/DC, Black Sabbath, Thin Lizzy, Deep Purple, Hendrix, Blue Oyster Cult, Tom Petty to Roy Orbison, Chuck Berry, Johnny Cash, Bill Hayley and His Comets, etc.... If I had to pick, I'd say Motorhead is my all time favorite band!

Food: I have gone to Culinary School and been cooking rogue status for 11 years. I no longer work as a slave making verbatim dishes in Restaurants, but I love to cook for my friends and family. I tend to specialize is Saucier(Sauce making) and Sautee'ing, Grilling, soups, stocks, etc. My favorite cuisines to eat are Indian, Italian, Thai, Japanese(most), Ethiopian, and Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends/family. They come first.
2.Music. Without it, I'd be dead.
3.Adventure and new experiences. I need fresh water always.
4.Intelligence/Integrity. The combination is unbeatable.
5.Humbleness. It explains itself.
6. Excellent, healthy food; I am a total Culinary foodie. XD
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Aside from constantly thinking about music,....Growing/learning. Nihilist/Existentialist thesis'.... Finding new perspectives and angles on life's conundrums and simplicities. Chaos, the ever perpetual wheel of forward progress; The Big Black nothing, that is everything all at once.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeking adventure, going to gigs, runnin' gigs, maybe gettin' some whiskey/smokin' a little green with my friends, some possible debauchery, and usually blasting some quality tunes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a foot fetish. A very concise, particular foot fetish.

I have a VERY strong passion and skill for cunnilingus...

Also D/s roleplay, if you know about that realm. I am on Fetlife as well if you'd care to know more about this...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you dig music, tattoos, piercings, subculture, Horror, obscurity, adventure, strong built men with goatees who can cook, like myself, are open minded, or........ Maybe you happen to like experienced Dominants....

If you think we may get along, if you have some substance and brains, or have a good time doing what the hell ever... :)