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52 Menifee, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1, 2014
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am adventurous and articulate, energetic and youthful, fun, witty, dynamic and warm-hearted. I value being in the moment, and thrive on spontaneity, yet am a planner. I am self-sufficient as well; seeking some of those same qualities in any relationship. I love live music venues, dancing, enjoy sharing good food with great company, lots of laughter and PDA as the journey unfolds. Looking for a connection, having fun and taking it from there!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work hard, but I play harder ;)
Going to the gym at least 3x a week, health-conscious, open to new interests & adventures~ I'm a life-long learner. I love the beach and mountain scenes~ love the water!; sight-seeing, people watching, spontaneous road trips; exploring & hiking and soaking up sunsets, enjoying great company and attending concerts. Last big trip was to Africa this summer!
I am an EFNP according to the personality Cupid test ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being spontaneous, youthful, listening to others, quite witty at times. I'm charismatic and passionate, yet can be shy at first; observant with different perspectives. Avid reader/writer, I love amateur photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my eyes or smile, I'm pretty animated when I get excited.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books~ Sylvia Day, the Crossfire Series, Evanovich novels, spiritual books, humorous and action, some historical fiction;

Music, most all genres~ classic and soft rock, R n B, pop, top 40, house music, oldies, 60's to 90's music, alternative, new age, mostly anything. Saw The Fab Four, The Long Run (Eagles tribute band), Huey Lewis and the News tribute band, Liferockers, and the Eminem/Rihanna concerts this summer (not into rap or most hip hop, but went with daughter...had fun!). Just attended the Hornblower Concert in San Diego. Saw Saints of Vallory. They rocked the boat! I LOVE LIVE MUSIC!

Movies~ Dragonfly, DeJaVu, Always, Divergent, Avatar, Mistaken Identity, The Proposal; love comedies and action! Some documentaries as well. Can do without the senseless horror flicks though.

Food~Thai, BBQ, Mexican & Italian, Greek, willing to try anything exotic!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Close friends & Family
A sense of wonder
The sensuous touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next new Adventure... (what's your name?)
Natural Beauty
The Creative Spark
Consciousness and Energy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends, family, going to the gym,
unwinding from the work week;
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Intellectual stimulation with double innuendos is sexy. I am a sapiosexual. Shh...The rest is for you to discover once we have a connection!
You should message me if
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you are playful and fun,
you feel there is a connection,
you are a good communicator and you are considerate of others.
you want to have fun, be in the moment, and then see where it goes from there!