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Rae90

24 F Tampines Estate, Singapore

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:06am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4′ 10″ (1.48m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Malay (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a fighter. I do whatever it takes to achieve my goal. I have strong perseverance. I put in my all because I know the only way to success is to exceed my capabilities and to constantly challenge myself to realize my full potential.

I love pink, ice cream, movies, computer games, shopping, designer bags, and all gadgets and gizmos.

A ESFP, whatever that means.

I am someone who lives in the moment. Some people may view me as the type who is carefree, nonchalant and not generally concerned about my affairs, or as some may put it, a "couldn't-be-bothered" attitude. However, the truth is that when I am put under pressure, I tend to hide my true feelings of anxiety and panic, and I put on a calm appearance. When faced with problems, I try to put on a strong face and be okay, even though I may not be. I generally try to see the brighter side of things and be happy. This has led to some people assuming that I just don't bother to be concerned about things, while I actually do.

I also enjoy meeting new people and talking to people. I enjoy telling people about myself and sharing my life experiences, as well as listening to their stories. I believe that there is something to learn from everyone, regardless of their age, gender, social background, or status. I feel energized and motivated when I am talking to people, because I know that I can always learn something new from each conversation.

I love digital art and I enjoy sketching on my iPad, though I wished my skills were better. Occasionally, I do pen and paper sketches too. I have an interest in singing and dancing, though I'll have to admit, I don't have much talent for that.

I enjoy curling up in bed with a good book, something I do less often than I should, no thanks to my busy and hectic life.

I am an avid movie goer. While most find it satisfactory to catch a movie once a month, I demand my weekly movie dosage. I have a huge fascination for movies featuring the living, flesh eating dead and I religiously watch every single one of them.

Let them laugh - I hold fast to my principles and values regardless of how others view me.

I continuously remind myself that failing is fun, and that everything is an experience.

I may procrastinate at times, and it is something I am trying to change. My living space can be a little messy at times, and maybe also a little disorganized. I wished I could be more organized than I currently am, and this is also something I am striving to achieve. However, I believe that a little bit of disorganization shows personality and creativity.

People motivate me. However, I can sometimes feel pressured and intimidated by someone whom I regard a higher status than I am, in terms of experience and maturity. With regards to these people, I tend to speak less and listen more, for fear of being ridiculed for saying something shallow. I realize that this is something I need to work on, and I am trying my best to improve my confidence.

I have done things I am not proud of, some of which I'd rather not say. I am not perfect. Sometimes I make bad choices. some may think I'm a bad person, but I don't care. I say what I want to say and I do what I want to do without worrying about what others think.

I aspire everyday to become a better person and I am constantly stiriving to improve myself to be a more confident, independent and courageous woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Here's the technical part: I graduated with a B.E. (Hons) majoring in Mechanical Engineering from Nanyang Technological University, Singapore. I am a Recruitment Consultant. The job is challenging yet exciting. I work extremely hard at it, I'm good at it, and I'm getting better each day. I do not take no for an answer. I will achieve more than I ever thought I was capable of.

Here's the part on my personal life: I have money. I have a roof over my head. I have food on the table. I love my boyfriend who is very supportive of me and adores me. I love my job. I have a career. I have a clear view of what's ahead of me. I know my goals. I know what I want. I know how to achieve them. I know I'm a winner. Above all, I know I am happy, not because of my possessions or achievements, but because it is my choice to be happy and nobody can stop me from feeling that way.
I’m really good at
Working real hard at my job and earning big bucks.

Also, Talking, listening, asking questions, laughing, entertaining people.. I guess. But that's about it. I'm just your average Joe, a jack of all trades, master of nothing.

But I'll tell you what I wished I was really good at. Getting inspired. Singing, drawing, dancing, writing, making music.

Sometimes, just sometimes, when I'm in the mood, I pretend I'm actually good at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short, loud, outgoing, and just crazy. You'll notice soon enough that I really don't care what others think about me, and that makes some people hate me, for some reason. Oh well, it's not like I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Gretchen Rubin, Roald Dahl, Stephen King, L.M. Montgomery, Nicholas Sparks, Dorothy Koomson

Movies: Resident Evil, Sweeney Todd, Avengers, Fly Me To Polaris, Love Me If You Dare, Forrest Gump, Inception

Shows: Big Bang Theory, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, Family Guy.

Music: Ingrid Michaelson, Lily Allen, Greenday, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Christina Perri, Lady Antebellum, Eminem, The Band Perry, Avril Lavigne, Aerosmith, Jason Mraz, Bruno Mars, Avenged Sevenfold.

Food: Japanese. Definitely Japanese. Some Thai and some Chinese would be good too.
The six things I could never do without
my phone, my boyfriend, a good internet connection, some money, my comfy bed to snuggle into at night, and my awesome personality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and my life, and what I want to be. How to be happier as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
On most nights, I usually go on a simple date with my boyfriend. And then by 11pm I'm home and by 1am I'm fast asleep.

I work 12-14 hours a day from Monday to Thursday; a girl needs her rest when rest is due!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I pick my nose when no one's looking.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're a decent but fun person to be with. impulsive, crazy, and living for the moment.

I should also add that I'm happily attached with my significant other (we met on okCupid, so that's one success story for you!) so I'm not looking to date anyone here. But I'm always welcome to having new friends!

Edit: it irks me when a guy messages me on okc and then when I check out his profile, it's blank. If you're going to want to pick up chicks, the least you could do is put in some effort to write something about yourself. If you're going to message me but all I see is an empty profile, rest assured you're never getting a reply from me. :)