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Rae90

23 / F / Straight / Seeing someone

Singapore, Singapore

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 8
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4′ 11″ (1.50m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Malay (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I live in a modern city called Singapore. I believe that what you do does not determine who you are.

I love pink, ice cream, movies, computer games, shopping, designer bags, and all gadgets and gizmos.

A ESFP, whatever that means.

I am someone who lives in the moment. Some people may view me as the type who is carefree, nonchalant and not generally concerned about my affairs, or as some may put it, a "couldn't-be-bothered" attitude. However, the truth is that when I am put under pressure, I tend to hide my true feelings of anxiety and panic, and I put on a calm appearance. When faced with problems, I try to put on a strong face and be okay, even though I may not be. I generally try to see the brighter side of things and be happy. This has led to some people assuming that I just don't bother to be concerned about things, while I actually do.

I also enjoy meeting new people and talking to people. I enjoy telling people about myself and sharing my life experiences, as well as listening to their stories. I believe that there is something to learn from everyone, regardless of their age, gender, social background, or status. I feel energized and motivated when I am talking to people, because I know that I can always learn something new from each conversation.

I love digital art and I enjoy sketching on my iPad, though I wished my skills were better. Occasionally, I do pen and paper sketches too. I have an interest in singing and dancing, though I'll have to admit, I don't have much talent for that.

I enjoy curling up in bed with a good book, something I do less often than I should, no thanks to my busy and hectic life.

I am an avid movie goer. While most find it satisfactory to catch a movie once a month, I demand my weekly movie dosage. I have a huge fascination for movies featuring the living, flesh eating dead and I religiously watch every single one of them.

Let them laugh - I hold fast to my principles and values regardless of how others view me.

I continuously remind myself that failing is fun, and that everything is an experience.

I may procrastinate at times, and it is something I am trying to change. My living space can be a little messy at times, and maybe also a little disorganized. I wished I could be more organized than I currently am, and this is also something I am striving to achieve. However, I believe that a little bit of disorganization shows personality and creativity.

People motivate me. However, I can sometimes feel pressured and intimidated by someone whom I regard a higher status than I am, in terms of experience and maturity. With regards to these people, I tend to speak less and listen more, for fear of being ridiculed for saying something shallow. I realize that this is something I need to work on, and I am trying my best to improve my confidence.

I have done things I am not proud of, some of which I'd rather not say. I am not perfect. Sometimes I make bad choices. some may think I'm a bad person, but I don't care. I say what I want to say and I do what I want to do without worrying about what others think.

I aspire everyday to become a better person and I am constantly stiriving to improve myself to be a more confident, independent and courageous woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Here's the technical part: I graduated with a B.E. (Hons) majoring in Mechanical Engineering from Nanyang Technological University, Singapore. I started off my career as an engineer but I quit soon after, because I realised I didn't enjoy what I was doing. I'm currently in a recruitment consultant agency, working as a Recruitment Consultant. The job is pretty stressful, and more often than not I find myself swamped in my work. However, it is an energetic and fast paced environment, and I constantly feel motivated to work harder to gain the job satisfaction I crave.

Here's the part on my personal life: Sometimes I feel like I'm probably still groping around trying to get a hang of this funny game called life. Trying to figure out which part of this huge messy jungle of a society I fit in. Feeding myself. Making a living. Trying to be happy, on the most part.

P/S: If you're looking for a temp/perm job related to Customer Service, Admin, or Retail, please do not hesitate to call me at 6535 9696 and ask for Rachel. Students waiting for further studies or on their holidays are welcome to apply!
I’m really good at
Talking, listening, asking questions, laughing, entertaining people.. I guess. But that's about it. I'm just your average Joe, a jack of all trades, master of nothing.

But I'll tell you what I wished I was really good at. Getting inspired. Singing, drawing, dancing, writing, making music.

Sometimes, just sometimes, when I'm in the mood, I pretend I'm actually good at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short, loud, outgoing, and just crazy. You'll notice soon enough that I really don't care what others think about me, and that makes some people hate me, for some reason. Oh well, it's not like I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Gretchen Rubin, Roald Dahl, Stephen King, L.M. Montgomery, Nicholas Sparks, Dorothy Koomson

Movies: Resident Evil, Sweeney Todd, Avengers, Fly Me To Polaris, Love Me If You Dare, Forrest Gump, Inception

Shows: Big Bang Theory, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, Family Guy.

Music: Ingrid Michaelson, Lily Allen, Greenday, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Christina Perri, Lady Antebellum, Eminem, The Band Perry, Avril Lavigne, Aerosmith, Jason Mraz, Bruno Mars, Avenged Sevenfold.

Food: Japanese. Definitely Japanese. Some Thai and some Chinese would be good too.
The six things I could never do without
people, my phone, my Tamagotchi, a good internet connection, my navel piercing, and some good ol' booze.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and my life, and what I want to be. How to be happier as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something fun and constantly thinking of crazy stuff to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I pick my nose when no one's looking.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're a decent but fun person to be with. impulsive, crazy, and living for the moment.

I should also add that I'm happily attached with my significant other (we met on okCupid, so that's one success story for you!) so I'm not looking to date anyone here. Do get your intentions right before sending me a message, else it would be a waste of both our times. ;)

P/S: I've received enough messages requesting for a fuck buddy so I feel the need to say this: please do not message me if you are only interested in sex; I am a virgin and I will not have sex with you. I don't care if you scoff me off or laugh at my "old fashioned thinking" (refer to "things people notice about me" for more info), but that's just how I am. If you're looking for a fuck buddy, might I suggest u visit www.friendfinders.com instead. Have a good day. :)