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RaggedyDandy

23 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:26am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Greek (Poorly), Swedish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello

Bay Area born and raised. Graduated with a degree in anthropology, which I've somehow managed to transfigure into a job as a social worker that assists the homeless of the TL. Sometimes this means I'm the occasional personal shopper for the homeless, sometimes this means I'm a sympathetic ear, sometimes this means I'm outwitting crackheads. Every day is something new and I have lots of stories that aren't necessarily appropriate for polite conversation.

To be real, I only go on about it because the practices of compassion, empathy, brashness, directness, and kindness required to do that work defines me pretty well.

But you can be the judge of that, if you like

I also sing, play piano, and write
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, providing social services to the homeless, keeping an open ear to others' subjective experiences, playing piano, singing (either in the shower or in front of some audience), going to the gym, prob going to a seedy bar for a drag show
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding the usage of the first person.

Going to the gym regularly.

Being direct and practical.

Finding silver linings

Coming up with ridiculous and humorous, but very dark and irreverent pick up lines
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm looking at them?

Idk.

My hair. My clothes. Exterior things.

In any case, strangers seem to really frequently ask me for help so I guess I seem helpful? (Which I don't mind)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TL;DR I devour a lot of books/music/movies/television, this is by no means a complete list.

The Master and Margarita, The Art of Asking, A Rebours, The Complete Cosmicomics, Illuminations, A Hero With A Thousand Faces, The Great Gatsby, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, No Exit, Waiting for Godot, The Symposium, Heart of Darkness, Crime and Punishment, Down There On A Visit, Christopher and His Kind, A Single Man, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, The Wind Up Bird Chronicle, "Crush" by Richard Siken, The Lover's Dictionary, W.H. Auden, Arthur Rimbaud

The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Moonrise Kingdom, Singin' In the Rain, A Single Man, Velvet Goldmine, Cabaret, Heartbeats, Lost in Translation, Star Wars, The Avengers, Scream, Clueless, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Paris is Burning, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Muriel's Wedding, Beetlejuice, Maurice, Girl Interrupted, Disney movies, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Derek Jarman movies, *anything* by John Waters

30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Please Like Me, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Golden Girls, Mad Men, Arrested Development, Futurama, The Simpsons, Absolutely Fabulous, Girls, Orphan Black, and Game of Thrones

David Bowie, Placebo, The Dresden Dolls/Amanda Palmer, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Gogol Bordello, Nina Simone, Carole King, Marvin Gaye, Stevie Wonder, Al Green, Wilson Pickett, Shalamar, Solomon Burke, Ray Charles, Kate Bush, The Distillers, Generation X, Lorde, MGMT, Robyn, Stevie Nicks, Fleetwood Mac, ABBA, Dolly Parton, Loretta Lynn, Violent Femmes, Portishead, The XX, Harry Belafonte, Avicii, Adrian Lux, Best Coast, Wavves, Green Day, Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, Taking Back Sunday, MNDR, Charli XCX, Frank Sinatra, Tom Jones, Ramones, Ella Fitzgerald, Paloma Faith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Animal Collective, The Flaming Lips, The Mountain Goats, The Magnetic Fields, Gil Scott-Heron, Kiki and Herb

(So pretty much anything but I do have a special fondness for 60s-70s R&B/Soul/Motown records)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books
Music
Good shoes
Peanut Butter
Family (Chosen & Blood, that counts as one?)
My bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next place I'd like to visit/live/work, distance, the concept of a "missed connection," the concept of "home" (and what I'd like my own home to look like one day), poverty (and that sweet couple who told me they were going to walk to LA from SF - if they made it), representations in media, subjective truths, my family (and my nephew, who rocks but is surrounded by mostly adults)

Why OKC thinks I'm extroverted

How long has this been in the fridge

What does this menu mean when they say "mixed vegetables," I would never just put down "white meat cuts" under a menu item

How long has this been in the cupboard

Synchronicity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Externally, probably drinking
Internally, probably judging
Alternatively, preparing to sleep in, hanging out with Netflix, or practicing piano.
Hopefully, breathing

So it could literally be anything!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really bad at discerning what precisely qualifies as "private."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you laugh easily
If you take your work seriously, but never yourself
If you have an irreverent and/or dark sense of humor
If your intentions outweigh your pretensions
If you do not have a peanut allergy
If you're a feminist and/or humanist
If you can quote Diana Vreeland
If you like coffee
If you have a clear set of values & virtues that you live your life by
If you like tea
If you would like to hear a ridiculous pick up line
If you liked anything you've read above or would like to