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22 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 10
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Greek (Poorly), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Bay Area born and raised. Graduated with a degree in anthropology, a.k.a people watching. Working in non-profits as an editor/writer. Also volunteering in the TL as a social worker aka occasional personal shopper for the homeless aka a sympathetic ear aka spirit animal control

If you're into Meyer-Briggs, I'm an ENFP.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, learning how to ride a bike with no hands, keeping an open ear to others' subjective experiences, training for a marathon, prob going to a seedy bar for a drag show
I’m really good at
Avoiding the usage of the first person. And over-thinking things.

Other than that, I'm really good at reading people and situations. Also really good at hosting/cooking/gardening - if this were an earlier time and I were a woman then my dowry would be huge.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually the hair. It changes length and color quite frequently. And the green eyes.

Other than that people seem to notice that I can be really work and/or goal focused.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TL;DR I devour a lot of books/music/movies/television, this is by no means a complete list.

The Master and Margarita, A Rebours, The Complete Cosmicomics, Illuminations, The Great Gatsby, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, No Exit, Waiting for Godot, The Symposium, Heart of Darkness, Crime and Punishment, Down There On A Visit

The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Moonrise Kingdom, Singin' In the Rain, A Single Man Velvet Goldmine, Cabaret, Heartbeats, Lost in Translation, Star Wars, The Avengers, Scream, Clueless, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Paris is Burning, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Muriel's Wedding, Beetlejuice, Maurice, Girl Interrupted, Disney movies, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind

30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Please Like Me, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Mad Men, Arrested Development, Futurama, The Simpsons, Absolutely Fabulous, Girls, Orphan Black, and Game of Thrones

David Bowie, Placebo, The Dresden Dolls/Amanda Palmer, MGMT, Robyn, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Gogol Bordello, Generation X, ABBA, Dolly Parton, Portishead, The XX, Harry Belafonte, Avicii, Adrian Lux, Best Coast, Wavves, Green Day, Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, Taking Back Sunday, The Distillers, MNDR, Charli XCX
The six things I could never do without
Good shoes
Places to go in those shoes
People to visit
My bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next place I'd like to visit/live/work, distance, the concept of a "missed connection," representations in media, subjective truths
On a typical Friday night I am
I try to avoid a "typical" Friday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm really bad at discerning what precisely qualifies as "private."
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating