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23 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:57am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Greek (Poorly), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bay Area born and raised. Graduated with a degree in anthropology, a.k.a people watching. Working in non-profits as an editor/writer. Also volunteering in the TL as a social worker aka occasional personal shopper for the homeless aka a sympathetic ear aka spirit animal control

If you're into Meyer-Briggs, I'm an ENFP.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, providing social services to the homeless, keeping an open ear to others' subjective experiences, prob going to a seedy bar for a drag show
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding the usage of the first person. And over-thinking things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair and/or clothing.

Other than that I've been told I'm warm and engaging but subjectively most of the time that is, in fact, not how I feel.

So there's that
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TL;DR I devour a lot of books/music/movies/television, this is by no means a complete list.

The Master and Margarita, The Art of Asking, A Rebours, The Complete Cosmicomics, Illuminations, A Hero With A Thousand Faces, The Great Gatsby, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, No Exit, Waiting for Godot, The Symposium, Heart of Darkness, Crime and Punishment, Down There On A Visit, Christopher and His Kind, A Single Man, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, The Wind Up Bird Chronicle, "Crush" by Richard Siken, W.H. Auden, Arthur Rimbaud

The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Moonrise Kingdom, Singin' In the Rain, A Single Man, Velvet Goldmine, Cabaret, Heartbeats, Lost in Translation, Star Wars, The Avengers, Scream, Clueless, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Paris is Burning, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Muriel's Wedding, Beetlejuice, Maurice, Girl Interrupted, Disney movies, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Derek Jarman movies, *anything* by John Waters

30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Please Like Me, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Golden Girls, Mad Men, Arrested Development, Futurama, The Simpsons, Absolutely Fabulous, Girls, Orphan Black, and Game of Thrones

David Bowie, Placebo, The Dresden Dolls/Amanda Palmer, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Gogol Bordello, Kate Bush, The Distillers, Generation X, Lorde, MGMT, Robyn, Stevie Nicks, Fleetwood Mac, ABBA, Dolly Parton, Loretta Lynn, Violent Femmes, Portishead, The XX, Harry Belafonte, Avicii, Adrian Lux, Best Coast, Wavves, Green Day, Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, Taking Back Sunday, MNDR, Charli XCX, Frank Sinatra, Tom Jones, Ramones, Ella Fitzgerald, Paloma Faith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Animal Collective, The Flaming Lips, The Mountain Goats, The Magnetic Fields, Gil Scott-Heron, Kiki and Herb
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good shoes
Places to go in those shoes
People to visit
My bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next place I'd like to visit/live/work, distance, the concept of a "missed connection," representations in media, subjective truths
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Externally, probably drinking and/or screaming
Internally, probably screaming and/or judging
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really bad at discerning what precisely qualifies as "private."