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RaggedyDandy

23 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:46pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Greek (Poorly), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Bay Area born and raised. Graduated with a degree in anthropology, a.k.a people watching. Working in non-profits as an editor/writer. Also volunteering in the TL as a social worker aka occasional personal shopper for the homeless aka a sympathetic ear aka spirit animal control

If you're into Meyer-Briggs, I'm an ENFP.

http://ontherecordwitharaggedydandy.tumblr.com/
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, learning how to ride a bike with no hands, keeping an open ear to others' subjective experiences, training for a marathon, prob going to a seedy bar for a drag show
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding the usage of the first person. And over-thinking things.

Other than that, I'm really good at reading people and situations. Also really good at hosting/cooking/gardening - if this were an earlier time and I were a woman then my dowry would be huge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually the hair. It changes length and color quite frequently. And the green eyes.

Other than that people seem to notice that I can be really work and/or goal focused.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TL;DR I devour a lot of books/music/movies/television, this is by no means a complete list.

The Master and Margarita, A Rebours, The Complete Cosmicomics, Illuminations, The Great Gatsby, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, No Exit, Waiting for Godot, The Symposium, Heart of Darkness, Crime and Punishment, Down There On A Visit, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, The Wind Up Bird Chronicle

The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic, Moonrise Kingdom, Singin' In the Rain, A Single Man Velvet Goldmine, Cabaret, Heartbeats, Lost in Translation, Star Wars, The Avengers, Scream, Clueless, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Paris is Burning, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Muriel's Wedding, Beetlejuice, Maurice, Girl Interrupted, Disney movies, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind

30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Please Like Me, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Mad Men, Arrested Development, Futurama, The Simpsons, Absolutely Fabulous, Girls, Orphan Black, and Game of Thrones

David Bowie, Placebo, The Dresden Dolls/Amanda Palmer, MGMT, Robyn, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Gogol Bordello, Generation X, ABBA, Dolly Parton, Portishead, The XX, Harry Belafonte, Avicii, Adrian Lux, Best Coast, Wavves, Green Day, Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, Taking Back Sunday, The Distillers, MNDR, Charli XCX
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art
Good shoes
Places to go in those shoes
People to visit
Breakfast
My bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next place I'd like to visit/live/work, distance, the concept of a "missed connection," representations in media, subjective truths
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to avoid a "typical" Friday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really bad at discerning what precisely qualifies as "private."
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating